结婚后遇到老公出轨如何应对？

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一、理智

 xuduonvxingzailejiezishendelianrenchuguizhihou，nanyibimianhuizaochengyuwanghenaonu，tamenhuiku、huinao、naizhihuizhijieshuoliyi。danshinipingjingxialaixiangyixiang，nijianchilihunleshifoufandaojidisanzhezhuanzhengdejiyu。

 zheigeshihounihebulizhidesisuoyixia，taweiheyaowaiyuni？yigenanrenxiangyaobayigenvrenquhuijialedangranshiwanbanxiaide，danshiwuhuabushuo，shijianjiuleyezaisuonanmianzaochengyixiezhan，huoshishishiqureqing。7nianzhiyangyejiuzheiyangzaochengde，nanrendegongzuopingwenle，jiazhongdexiaojiaoqibianchenglerenlaozhuhuang。

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二、外遇的缘故

 lijingdiaoyanfajue，juedaduoshujinglichuguijinglidenanrenshijishangdoubukenliliyi。tamendoulejiemeirennenggoutidaizishendexifu，tamendoulejiehunhouchuguijinjinrichangshenghuodeyizhongdiaoji，jinjinyongyuwanshuade，xifucaisuanshiyongyuguoshenghuode，jishiyoumaodun，sheqideyebuhuishizishendejiazhong。

 zaizhirenyuanzaigongzuozhong，nanrenzaisuonanmianyaojiaoji，yaoniqingwoyuan，danshizaichuguiyihoutayehenkuijiu，kanjiantarenwaiyufangfohenkaixin，danshiqueshilaidaozishenzhei，queyidianyebuxingfu，yineryeshiyouxuduonanrenzaiwaiyuhouhouhuibuyi。

 zheigeshihou，youjuedaduoshudelaopolejielaogongchuguihoujiuyoukuyounao，yuanbenjiukeyixiaoshihuawudeyishunjianshiershengjile，daozuizhongmeiyoubanfaqujiejue，zheixiedenanrenshijishangduijiazhonghuanshiyoujiaoqiangdeshiminggande，tamenbingbushiwukejiuyao！

三、他如今内心的念头

 waiyudenanrenshijishangjinjinxiangqiaoqiaodequkaolvyixiatadeneixin，keshiyidanbeizhualaidaotamenbianhuishifencankui，yehenxiangyaoqutianbu，zheigeshihoujiarunijuecewanliudehua，tahuigengaizheni。

 zhenduiwaiyudenanrendajiayebukeyiyigunzidasi，shijishangdajiahaiyaofenqingxitawaiyudeyuangu，shishuciwaiyuhuanshichuxianyiwaiwaiyu，keshizhenduineileibawaiyudangzuojiachangfandenanren，shibukeyuanliangde。

挽回老公要管住男人最重要的便是要管住他的钱，日常生活总会有热情褪去的情况下，因此，隔三差五的给另一方一个小惊喜，让平凡的生活不那麼枯燥！