老公出轨后聪明的妻子怎么挽回婚姻？

 laogongchuguihoucongmingdeqizizenmewanhuihunyin？hunyinshenghuozhongzaoyuyifangdebeipan，faxianlaogongchuguigaizenmewanhuilaogongdexinni?jiejuehunyinzhongdedisanzhe，congmingdenvrenyaoxuehuiyongzhengquedefangfawanhuilaogong。

一、客观性看待老公外遇

 hunyinjingyingshiliangrendeshi，waiyuyeshiyouhenyoukenengshiyouyufuqihunyinjingyingdefangfabudangzhichuerrangwenchongdingleyoufengdedan。zenmewanhuilaogongdeai，laogongwaiyuhou，nvxingxianbubiqifen，zhishifangongzishengzishenpingchanglishibushijinlaidaoyigezuolaopodeyiwu。

 jiaruzishenpingchanglidezuofabukekao，xianxianglaogongzhiqianbingqinfenjiuzheng;ruguoshilaogonglanqingxiangbei，xianwenyiwenzishenyaobuyaolihun，ruguobuliyijiuxuyaogulvhouwaiyujieduanxianghudetihui，yinci，bukeyihelaogongchaonaodetaiqiangda，buranyoukenengmeiyoujietixia。

二、解决好和公公婆婆的关联

 zenmewanhuilaogonghuijialeni，xinshiqidabufenmeiyigejiazhongquanshidushengzi，gonggongpopodangranhuijiangerxidangzishennverkandai，suiranshuogonggongpopoyixieqingkuangxiacunyoutanhuhuoyixiezuofanibunenggoutong，danyaoxuezherenshouhelejie。

 xinhunyinshiqi，yigenengquyuegonggongpopodeerxizaijiazhongzhonghuichengxianzhiguanzhongyaodeyingxiangli，youjuhuajiao‘bukansengmiankanfomian’，laogongchuguizhihou，jishibuzaiyixifutihui，haiyaokaolvdaobabamamatihui。pingchangxingshanjidele，gonggongpopodangranhuizaizuijinyaoguantoutinizaichuquzhushi。

三、打扮，提高风采

 yixienvrenxihuanyongwaiyudefangfaduifulaogongwaiyulaihuodexintaipingheng，shijishang，baofuxintaiwaiyubingbukeyiweijienvxingposuidexin，zongshirangnvxinggengweixinfanhuozoushangbuguilu。

 tichufenshouzenmewanhuilaogongni，nvxingzailaogongchuguiyihou，yaoquchuzhuangchuqudedandingcongrong，bubixiaochen，zhishibazijidabanqilai，ciwaijianmanhuijialedejiaobu，rangnanshengyoudianerhuanghuanghuhu。

 ruguonishenmiqilai，nanshengbianhuihaoqixin，nizhixubingliangdejiazhuangwusuowei，nanshengbianhuiduinihenjiaolvbuan，renyoutaxinfanyiluan，duitawaiyudeshidouzizibuti，dengdaitarangnizhiqian，niyejiujiandaoshenglideshuguangle。