女人一旦发现老公出轨第一件事做什么

 nvrenyidanfaxianlaogongchuguidiyijianshizuoshenmehunyinzhongzuirangnvrennanyiyuanliangde，laogongchuguishiqizhongyige，zaihunyinshenghuozhongfaxianlaogongchuguizenmeban？qizixiangyaowanhuihunyingaizenmezuo？benwenfenxiangjigewanhuihunyindejiqiao。

1.冷静下来，仔细反思问题出在哪

 pengdaozijidelaogongchugui，juedaduoshunvrendiyifanyingdoushimengde，dangranhennanlengjingxialai，shenzhihuiduilaogongxiesidilidifapiqi，shenzhihuidadachushou，danqishizheiyangdefangfashibukequde，zhihuijianglaogongyuetuiyueyuan。

 dangranhaishiyaoxianlengjingxialai，zixifansiyixiawentidaodichuzaina，suiranshuojinglilaogongchuguizhihounimendeganqinghuoxuyouleliehen，danbingbudaibiaowanquanmeiyouxiufudekeneng。

2.找对方静下心来好好谈一谈

 fuqijianzuipadejiushiqueshaogoutong，suoyidanglaogongdechuguishishiyijingfashengzhihou，qishihenduonvrendeshouyaodazhaojiushidachaodanao，jiezhejiukaishidajibaofu。

 zheiyangzuodejieguoyouliangzhong，laogongbianlaoshilehuiguijiating，laogongzhaojiabuzhuxunsutaolijiating。suoyizheishihoubufangyazhuhuo，zhaoduifanghaohaogoutongyifan，lejieduifangchuguidejutiyuanyin，“duizhengxiayao”huoxugengyouyong。

3.轻视第三者，但如果对方故意挑衅也不惧怕

 ruguofaxianlaogongchugui，nvrenmenzuixiangdejiushikankantadechuguiduixiang，chuleqifen，haihenhaoqijiujingshizenyangdenvrengouzoulelaogongdexin，erkandaolaogongdechuguiduixiangzhihou，biranshiyouxiangyaosisuiduifangdexin。

 danruguonirenbuzhufengkuangdixunzhao，zhaodisanzheduizhi，rucizheiyangfanerdadaoletademude，bingqieruguotashiruozhedeyangzi，nidelaogongfanerhuigengtengxita，zuizhongyingdekenenghaishita。defangfa，jiushiqingshita，bujiangtadanghuishi，danruguotaguyitiaoxin，niyebiefachu，yiroukegang。

4.把精力多放在自己的身上，多提升改变自己

 dangranruguozhendefashenglelaogongchuguizheijianshi，nizijibiranshixuyaofanside，yigebazhangpaibuxiangde，ruguozhendeshinizheibufendewentiyebuxiao。

挽回婚姻就需要你把精力多放在自己的身上，让自己也多做出一丝改变，多提升自己，让你的老公看见一个完全不一样的你，或许对他就重新有了吸引力。