老公出轨了怎么办？出轨的男人还有救吗？

 laogongchuguizenmeban？chuguidenanrenhaiyoujiuma？laogongchuguihouhenduoyuanpeizixinxinshoucuo，renweizijidemeiliburuyiqian，xiangwanhuihunyingengshinanshangjiananle，zheigeshihouzenmewanhuichuguidenanrenni？benwenfenxiang2geshiyongjiqiao，xiwangduiniyoubangzhu。

1、提高自己

 yexuhenduorenjiandaozheihua，huichayidewen："benlaiwaiyudeshinansheng，weiheyaowogenggai？"。shijishangdadaolifeichangjiandan，nanxingzenmehuiwaiyu？tongchangzhiyouyigehuida，shinibuzuxiyinzhutale。

 zheierchangshuodebuzuxiyinzhu，kenengshimouyicengmianyekenengshigegefangmiandenanti。liruniliangbinbanbai，niduihunyinshenghuobuzufangzaixinshang，nijiangaidezhongxindianqianyilaidaoxiaohaideshenshang，huoshichunsuijiushiniwufadailaitaneileishenmiganhecijixinggan。

 yihuoshijiaowangdezhangshijian，chuxianlekuzaohekesuxing。shijishinacengmiandeyuangu，neidenizijiqulianxishijilixingpouxi，keshiquanfangweitigaozijiyizhifeichanghaodetiaoxuan。

 xianshuoxiashenxingrongyancengmiandenanti，rongyanshibabamamaciji，bushishuogenggaijiunenggenggaide，keshininengchuanzhedabandegengweidedang，haikeyishidutiaoxuanxieduicebaochizishendeshenxingherongyan。

 xuduodenvxing，zaihunqianchuanzhedabanshishangchaoliu，kanqilaiqingchunnianshaoxingganmirenliangli，erwanhunyihou，queyouyushenghuosuoshisuofan，bujingyijianhushilezheixiefangmiandenanti。

 yixienvxingbenlaishenxingrongyanyebucha，queyouyuhushileweihubaoyanghechuanzhedaban，nongdedanshisanshichutou，jiufeitoudaerhuoshixingrongkugao，kanshangquzhenshishiwushikaiwaidemoyang。nenggouxiangxiang，yigehuoliwangxingdenanshengmeiriyingduineiyangyigenvren，huishinaxiedetihui。

2、掌握第三者主动进攻

 zhanfayouyun，zhibizhiji，baizhanbaisheng，disanzhehaowuyiwenjiushiniganqingzhongshangdeyishengdahuan，yaoxiangzhanshenglingyifang，jiudexianzhangwolingyifang。duofangweidezhangwolingyifang，zaihuiguotouxiangyixiangzishen，jiaoweidajiazhongjiandeyoudianhequedian，yongnibenshenyuanyouyoudian，jingonglingyifangdequedian，tongchangnengjiedaoshenxiao。

 yibanlaishuo，disanzhetongchangnianqingpiaolianghuoshiyongyounisuoquefadezhenshishenfenyingxiangli，yihuoshibinigengmingbaishanjierenyi，genghuigouyinnanren。qingchunnianshaorongyanhezhenshishenfenyingxianglizheileiyoudian，tongchangjiushinimeifafanmianjibaide，nizhiyoucongcebianquzheshou。

 lirutanianqing，tameimao，neimaniyejiuhetabiwenroubitiexin；tayouquanyoushi，niyejiuhetabirongyan，biyinyoubenshennanshengdefangfa；tashanjierenyi，ninenghetabirongyan，bigongzuoshangduinanshengdexiezhuzheixie。

 zongeryanzhiyijuhua，jiejinnenggou，chengxianzishendeyoudian，conglingyifangdeshenshangxunzhaozijidebugou，qinfentishengziwo。ranglingyifanglejienishitameifatidaibukezhanshengde，neimashiluodetajichudoushianranlichang。

 ziran，youshihouyehuipengdaoneileijiaoweizhizhede，neishiyuetajianjianmian，lixingdehetalaichangwendou，rangtagaoqingchutayunizhangfuzhongjianshibutaikenengde，yeshihenbixude。

但是，一定要记牢理性这两字，切勿切莫欲望，不必把这类碰面变为一场风波，一旦事儿闹大，你丈夫无楼梯可下，那麼就确实无法弥补了。