老公有外遇怎么挽回婚姻生活才有效果？

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1、不必自甘堕落。

 zheiyiquanshijiedehenduoren，shijishangquanshichengshoubuleyanlidajide，yidanzishenzaoshoujiannan，doushixiayishidexiangzhoubianderenxunqiubangzhu，yaoshimeiyourenkeyibangzishenchuli，neiyoutingdayibufenderenbianhuigangkaishimaiyuan，huoshimanmalaotianye，huoshimaiyuanzishenyunqicha，huoshichizetarenmengpianzishen。

 zhenshiyouxiuderen，caihuijinzaozhanliqilai，xiangbanfajiejuekunnan。rutongnilejiezhangfuyoudisanzhechuguizhihou，nidediyifanyingjianghuiyeshinaonu，keshihunlianwentijiranzaoyifashengle，zairuhenaonuhemaiyuanyewujiyushi，nantijiuzaineili，yizhiyaochulide，yincizaimeiyoushizheguochulihunlianwentideqiantitiaojianxia，bubizhenduihunyinshenghuojiuziganduoluo。

2、处理婚姻生活中的难题。

 laogongyouwaiyuhouruguonidiaojiehaozishendexintaizhuangtaiyihou，nijiuxuyaogangkaishichulidajiazhongjiandenantile。xianjiangdisanzhequchudaohunyinshenghuoyiwai，jiangdajiafuqijiandenantizhaochuqu，neiyangcaikeyizhenshidijiejuekunnan，youyudajiazhongjiandenantishiyin，erdisanzheshiguo。

 zhinengzhaodaohunlianwenti，erqiexiangbanfajiejueleta，neidisanzhecaibuyichuxianzainidehunyinshenghuozhong。ruguoniqudechenggongdejiejuelenantiyihou，niyejiunengqudechenggongdefenlichulaidisanzhe，wanliunidezhangfule。

3、有着自身的日常生活。

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此次外遇恶性事件为之后的你打响了警醒，女性就需要有着自身的日常生活，挽回婚姻不必一直紧紧围绕着家中转，紧紧围绕着这个男人转，找回你的自身，那样你的日常生活才更为更有意义。而那样的你，也会越来越更有风采，更为可以把握住你丈夫的心。