beipannvyouhouhuilezenmewanhui?zaizheigejiezouqingkuai、gaoyadeshehuizhong,hunyinshenghuojihuchengleyizuogudao,erwaiyu,zehaoxianghaidaocubujifangdejufeng,rangbenlailaogudeguanlianjijikewei。danqingjizhu,yuhoutiankong,zongyoucaihong。
一、面对不正确,真诚道歉

zuixian,yeshihenzhongyaodeyibu,bianshimianduinibuzhengque。waiyubingbushiyichangyouxi,tashiduihunyinshenghuoyuedingdepanbian,shiduilingyibanqingganshangdesunhai。yiner,nixuyaozhengshizijidegerenxingwei,bunengtaobi,gengbuyaoqingyiyongjiahuaquzhegai。
xiamian,xiangnideqizibiaoshuzuizhenchengdeqianyi。zheigebushiyijujiandande“zhendeduibuqi”jiukeyifuyanleshide,ershiyaowomenjiangneixinshenchudekuijiu、duiweilaifuwuchengnuojiqiduitadeai,suoyourongruzheishengzhiqianzhong。nikeyixuanzeyigeqingjingdeyike,hetamianduimiandizuoxia,yongyanshenchuansongnidezhencheng,yongyujubiaodanideqianjiu。jilao,zhenchengshizhongjianxinrendediyibu,yeshihenzhongyaodeyibu。
二、深入交流,了解体会
zhiqianyihou,jiezheshishenrujiaoliu。nixuyaorenzhendilingtingduifangdeganshou,bulunshinaonu、xinhanhuoshinanguo,douxuyaoquanpanjieshou。buyaojizhebianbohuoqieduanta,jitachongzukongjianheshijianqubiaodazijideqingxu。
zailingtingdeqiantixia,yexuyaochangshizhelejieduifangdeganshou。waiyuduitaeryan,budandanshiyicijiandanpanbian,gengjiashiduitazizun、xinlaiganjiqiweilaiqiwangdechongji。yiner,nixuyaozhanzaitadejiaodusikao,qutiyantadetongkuhezhengtuo。weiyouruci,dajiazhijiandejiaoliucaikeyigengshunchang,gengjiashenke。
三、全透明日常生活,重建信任
xinlaiyidanliekai,jiuxuyaoshijianheqinfenquxiufu。zaizheigehuanjiezhong,quantoumingrichangshenghuoshibukequeshaode。nixuyaoxiangqizhanshiniderichangxingchenganpai、xiuxianhuodongyijirenhekenenghuiyinqigulvdejudong。bubimanbaohuoduobi,fanershijijihetafenxiangzijiderichangshenghuohekanfa。
yucitongshi,niyekeyitongguoyixieshentilixinglaizhongjianxinren。liru,anshihetajinxingshenrudegoutongjiaoliu,gongxiangnideneixinshijieheweilaidejihua;yongyuchengdanjiawuhuoheyuerjiaoyuyiwu,rangqiganshoudaonigaibianyufuchu;zaitaxuyaoshidaijitashiyongheguanai,rangqiganshoudaoniwennuanheguanhuai。
四、改变自身,提升价值

waiyutongchangxianxianchuyigerenzaihunyinzhongdewenti,liruquefazerenxin、zikonglicha、jingshenxuqiubufuhedeng。yiner,zaiwanhuilaopodeneixindeguochengdangzhong,niyexuyaogaibianzishen,tishengzijidejiazhi。
zuixian,congneixinshenchurenshidaozijidecuowu,bingxiajuexinjiuzheng。zheibujinjinzhishiwanhuita,yeshiweilenidejinbuyuchengzhang。cizhi,nulitishengzijideqingshanghegoutongxiediaonengli,dongdenenggougenghaodijiejuefuqijiandeguanlianshenghuozhongdemaodun。nikeyiyueduxiangguandeshuji、canyuhunyinfudaokechengneironghuoshixunqiuzhuanyexinlizixunshixiezhu。zuizhong,suzaogerenxingquaihaohejiaojiquan,rangzijibiandegengjiayouquhexiyinyanqiu。neiyangbujinnengtishengnidegerenmeili,hainengjinimenzhijiandeganqingzhuruxinxianxueyehelequ。
五、造就烂漫,此情不移
zaiwanhuilaopodeneixindeguochengdangzhong,lanmanshibukequeshaodezengweiji。yekeyichangshiyixieyiqianrangqigandongguodefengqingxingwei,lirujitasongyishuxianhua、xieyifengqingshu、anpaiyicizhishuyunimenerrendelvyoudeng。zheixiexiaoxiaodexingweikeyirangtaganshoudaoniyongxinhegaibian,yehuirangtaxiangqidajiayiqiandemeihaohuiyi。
yucitongshi,nijiukeyizaojiuyixiexindelanmanzhuiyi。liru,yiqichangshixindehuodonghexihao,yiqitansuoweizhilingyu;zaiteshurilitoujitazhunbeiyifenyiwaijingxihuolipin,rangqiganshoudaoniguanhuaigaoduzhongshi;zairichangrichangshenghuoduotiliangtadeyaoqiuhetihui,rangqiganshoudaonixixinhetiexin。zheizhongmeihaodeshishikekekeyizengjiadajiajiandeganqinglianluo,yehuirangtagewaizhenxiyunizaiyiqideshiguang。
六、耐心的等待,给与时长
beipannvyouhouhuilezenmewanhui?wanhuilaopodeneixinbingbushiyicuerjiudeshier,taxuyaoshijianhexixin。zaizheigehuanjiezhong,nikenengyudaokunnanyucuozhe,danqingjizhu,buyaoqingyanfangqi。nixuyaojitazugoudeshijianquxiaohuahejiejuezijidexinqing,yeyaoweizijizugoudeshijianqugaibianyuchengzhang。
yucitongshi,niyeyaodongdejienatafanyinghexingwei。takenenghuiduizijidelengmo、shengshunaizhijujuenidetiejin,danzheixiedoushitazhengchangqingxutiyan。nibiehuiyincihuixinsangqihuofangqi,ershiyinggaijianchidaodi,yongnidexingdonghegaibianqushuomingnidechengxinheyongqi。
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