女友回头挽回该怎么回复？

　　nvyouhuitouwanhuigaizenmehuifu？shifouzhengtoutongzhenvpengyounaofenshou，buzhidaogairuhewanliuzheikehaoxiangjianxingjianyuandexin?biezheji，biezheji，nideqinggandashilaile!

　　一、理性分析，找到问题的根源

　　zuixian，zuonvpengyouxiangfenshoushi，niqianwanbiehuang。jilao，buzhizhewuwei，lizhicaishiyingdaoli。nixuyaozuodediyijianshi，bianshishenxiqi，ranhougengeanjingdejiaoluo，haohaodifenxiyixialianggerenzhijianjiujingchuxianleshenmewenti。

　　zheishibushinijinqigongzuomang，hushileduifangdeganshou?yeshidajiazhijiandejiaoliuyuelaiyuedi，xingchenglejiedi?yihuozheshinideyixiexiaoxiguan，rangtagandaowufarenshou?xunzhaowentidebenzhi，cainengshibangongbei，jingquewanliu。

　　xiaoqiaomen：zaiyanjiuwentishi，bufangshizhezhanzaitadejiaodusikao，neiyangwangwangnenggougengkuaisudizhaodaowentideguanjianyinsu。

　　二、真心实意道歉，承认自己的错误

　　zhaodaowentihou，xiayibujiushixiangnvyouzhenxinchengyidaoqian。jilao，daoqianbushijiandandishuoyiju“zhendeduibuqi”，ershiyinggaiquanmiandiqiangdiaonicuozaina，erqiechuandachunijishigaizhengjuexin。

　　gaoqingshangdaoqianshili：“qinaida，womingbaiwoqianjitianyouyugongzuomang，hushilenideqingxu，bingmeiyourangnichongzudeguanzhuheguanai。worenzhenfansiletamendexingwei，yishidaolezheishihenbuheshide。wozhendehenbaoqian，rangniganjuedaoguduheyihan。wojuexincongjintiankaishi，gaishanzijishenghuohegongzuo，bagengduojinglifangdaonideshenshang，jiniyigewennuandeyikao。”

　　zheizhongdaoqian，jixiangxiyouzhenxinshiyi，keyirangnvpengyouganshoudaonidechengyihejuexin。

　　三、表示爱意，让其感受到你的深情

　　daoqianyihou，jiezhejiushibiaodanideqingyile。gentashuo，ninyouduomedexihuanta，duomedeaixizheifenganqing。bulinsenihuayanqiaoyu，danjizhu，yidingyaofazifeifu，bubiweilewanhuiershuohuanghua。

　　gaoqingshangbiaoshiaiyishili：“niqingchuma?meimeiwokanjianni，woxindoushihuiqingbuzijindezhandong。nideweixiao，nideyanjing，nideyijuyidong，doushenshenxiyinzhewo。woshizhendenanyixiangxiang，ruguobushini，woderenshenghuibianchengshenmeyangzi。wozhixiangyaogenggai，qufuchuyiqie，zhixiwangninenggoujiwoyigejihui，rangwomenyiqixieshoutaguojianglaidemeiyigeririyeye。”

　　neiyangshenqingdehuayu，zenhuiburangqixindonga?

　　四、提出解决方案，展示你的执行力

　　zhishuobuzuozenmexing，womenhaixuyaotichujutijiejuefangan，zhanshinidezhixingli。gentashuo，nizhunbeizenyangjiuzhengzijidewenti，zenmerangzheifenganqingbiandegengjiameihao。

　　jiejuefangfashili：“wojihuameigexingqichouchulaisantianshijian，zhuanyepeizhenizuonixiangzuodeshiqing，bulunshikandianshiju、guangjiegouwuhuoshisansanbu。woyehuirenzhenxuexiruheyouxiaogoutongjiaoliu，shiwomenzhijiandegoutonggengshunchang。ciwai，wohuizhuzhongzijidexiaoxiguan，qinfengaizhengzheixiekenengrangninanshoudediqu。woxiwangtongguozheixiexingdong，keyirangniganshoudaowodegaibianhejuexin。”

　　neiyangjiejuefangan，jixiangxiyouxingdetong，keyirangtakanjiannidechengxinyunuli。

　　五、给他室内空间，重视她的选择

　　nvyouhuitouwanhuigaizenmehuifu？zuizhong，jinguannihenxianghehaozheifenganqing，queyeyaojitazugoudeshijianyushijian，zhongshitadexuanze。gentashuo，buguantazuizhongzuochushenmejueding，nidounengzhongshihejieshou。

　　gaoqingshangbiaoshushili：“qinaida，womingbainixianzaikenenghenjiujie，tebiemimang。wobuyuanyirangnitaidayali，zhixiwangninenggourenzhenkaolvyixia。buguannizuihouzuochushenmejueding，wodouyaozhongshihejieshou。youyuduiwoeryan，nidekuailebishenmedouqiang。yaoshiniyuanyijiwoyigejihui，woyaoyongwodequanbulaiaini，quzhenxi。danruguonixuanzeleliqu，wohuizhunixingfu，xiwangninengxunzhaoshuyuzijidexingfu。”

　　zheizhongbiaoshu，jitixianlenideshenqingyuzunzhong，shitaganshoudaonizouxiangchengshulixing。