女友心累了应该怎么挽回？

　　nvpengyoushuoleilebuxiangtanle?5bujiaodajiawanhuita

　　jinqi，wodebanlvmensihudouzaiqinshenjingliyiyangdejiongjing：“wozhendeleile，buxianglianaile。”zheihuaxiangyidaoshandian，zhaoyaozhetamenneixindemangran。yudaozheiyangdeqingkuang，dajiaruheyingduini?

　　不正确的反应方式：

　　jingongfangshi：tingdaozheihua，youderendediyifanyingshinaonuhenanguo，zhujiangongjibieren：“nijuranshuotaileile?!woweinizuolezheimeduo，nizanengshuochuzheiyangdehua，nitaizisile!”zheizhonghuifu，zhihuirangduifanggandaogengweipijuan。

　　zhuiwenfangshi：youderentiaoxuanlizhidizhuiwen：“nidaodinalitaileile?wonazuodebugouhao?nigenwoshuo，woyidinghuigai。”danshizheizhongzhuiwen，tongchangnengrangduifanggandaobeiposhi，gengweixiangtaoli。

　　正确情绪调节：

　　baochilixing：aiqingshiliudong，zheiyikedepijuanbingbushidaibiaoshizhong。yinci，bubiguodujinzhang，baochilianghaodexintai，airuguobugouzhangqi，neiyangpijuanyezhishiyishide。

　　haowuyiwenduifangganshou：xianbuyaozhejifoudingduifangpijuan，“nizenmehuileini?”“bicizhijianbingbushiyizhihenhaoma?”zheizhongfoudingzhihuirangduifangjuedenibulijieta。changshihaowuyiwentadeganshou，liru：“nishifouyalifeichangda?ruguogandaolei，nenggougenwoshuo，wonengjiejinquanlitiliangni。”

　　fuzeren：zhiyaoduifanggandaopijuan，youkenengshiruguonimeiyoujiyumanmandeanquangan，huomeiyoufajuetadeqingxu。buguanyuanyinyounaxie，douxuyaozhenxinchengyizhiqianyulijie：“zhendeduibuqi，wobingmeiyouzuodaorangnigandaofangxin。ninengbunenggaosuwo，yibanshinajigefangmianshinigandaolei?”

　　jiyushineikongjianyuzunzhong：buguanduifangshitichufenshouyeshixuyaolizhi，douxuyaozhongshitadejueding。linshifenkaibingbushidaibiaoaiqingdejieshu，youshifandaoshiyigexindekaishi。

　　lengjingqilidefupanzongjie：zailengjingqizhong，zuizhongyaodeshifupanzongjieganqingzhongdeshoudian，dongdezhenglianbiaoshu，lejieduifangdedicengsiwei。ganshoushiliudong，yixindeganshouquzhegaijiyoudexiaojiqingxu，dangnidexintaigaibianshi，lingyifangdeganjueleyehuisuizhigaibian。

　　nvyouxinleileyinggaizenmewanhui？zaiduidaizheizhongwentishi，zuizhongyaodeshizaiduifangyouqingxushi，xianguanliqingxu，erfeijiqiechuliwenti。ruguoduifangxiangyaofenxiangtadeganshoushi，bawozhujihui，qinfengaibianxianzhuang，huodetaderentonghezhongshi。