被前任女友骗了怎么挽回？

　　beiqianrennvyoupianlezenmewanhui？zaiaidelvxingzhong，fenxiangyangbiaoyizhirangrentongchu，erwanliuqianrenjiuchengweilehenduorenxinliqipandanyoukunhuodelumian。jiarunizhengzhanzaizheiyishizilukou，buzhidaogairuherangcengjingdelianrenzhongxinhuidaoshenpang，neiyangzheipiangonglvejiangweinintigonggengjiaquanmianqiexiangjindezhiyin。womenjiangtongguoshigeguanjianyinsu，shenrufenxizenyangranqineiyifenshiqudeaihuo，bangzhunizaiwanliuaiqingdedaolushangwenbuxiangqian。

　　怎么挽回一个人的第一步、挽留前认真反思

　　(yi)lengqueqidebiyaoxingdangyiduanhunyinpolie，dajiachangchanghuibeitongkuyushiwanglongzhaozhe，zhejidixiangwanhuilingyifang。danshi，zheishidexiangfazuoshifanerhuirangzhuangkuanggengzaogao。rutonganyelimangmugenfengfeiben，kenengzhuangchugengduodezuai。yiner，weizijiyiduanlengqueqiyouweizhongyao。zheiyiduanshijianbingbushiyaohunhunee，ershiyinggaijingxialai，zhenglixinxu，fangzhiqingxuhuaguanlijuece。

　　(er)shenrufenxihunyinpolieyuanguzheiyeshiwanliudezhongyaoqianti。nixuyaorenzhenhuiwangyuqianrengongchushenghuodediandi，congrichangsuosuidaodashijian，pouximeiyigekenengzaochenghunyinpoliedeyingxiangyinsu。shiyouyupinfandizhengzhi，haishizhangqidehulve?shiguanniandemaodun，huoshishenghuofangshidechabie?jinyoujingquezhaodaocunzaidewenti，caikeyiyoudefangshidichuliwenti，weihouxudewanliuxingweidaxiajianshidejichu。

　　(san)tishengzijidezhongyaoxingzailizhisikaodeguochengdangzhong，nihaihuifaxianzishencunzaidebugou。huoxushijiaoliufangshibuheli，huoxushiqingxukongzhinenglijiaocha，yexushirengemeiliyoudaijiaqiang。yishidaozheizhongbugouhou，bunengtaobi，fanershijijizhudongditishengziji。xuexipeixunyouxiaogoutongfangfa，tishengqingxukongzhinengli，suzaoyigexindegerenaihao，tigaozijideneizaixiuyanghewaizaixingxiang。zheibudannengrangnizaiwanliuqianrenshigengjiazixin，yehuirangnizaijiexialaideganqingligengchengshu。

　　第二步、切断联系，生产制造新鲜感

　　(yi)duanzanxingduanliandesiluzaifansihuanjie，shiduduankaiyuqianrendeguanlianshifeichangbiyaode。bingbuyiweizheyongyuanbuzailianluo，fanershijiduifangyixieshijianyukongjian，rangbicidounenggouzaijuliedexintaizhongjiefangchulai。liru，nikeyizhongzhijingchangduanxin、dianhuasaorao，buhuizaizaishejiaopingtaishangguoduguanxinlingyifangdongtaihua。

　　(er)yunyongduanlianqiziwotishengduanlianqinei，zhiliyutishengziji。canjiayixiepeixunneirong，tigaozijidezhuanyenengli;yueduwenzhangyouyideshuji，tuokuanzijidezhishicengmian;jianchibuxiejianshenduanlian，suzaolianghaodeshenxing。ruguonizaiduanlianhouturanchuxianzaiqianrendemianqian，yizhanxindemianmao、genghaodexingxiangfasheng，nengrangduifangyanqianyiliang，zaicizaochenglingyifangdetansuoyuwang。

　　(san)xinxiangandeshengchanfangfayoushihouzaigongtongpengyoumianqianbiaoluyixienifenfaxiangshang、duoziduocaideshenghuogushi，danbuyaotaiguoyuyouyi。liru，gongxiangyizhangnijianshenfanglihanliujiabeidezhaopian，huozhecanjiayichanggaodangwenyihuodongdezhaopian，danshibuyaopeiguoduowenzimiaoshu。rangqianrenduiniderenshengchanshenghaoqi，xianglejiegengduo。

　　第三步、怎么挽回一个人的核心——复建诱惑力

　　(yi)waizaixingxiangdebianhuarenshishijuedongwu，waizaixingxiangdebianhuawangwangnenggouchanshengzuimingxiandechongjixing。huanyigeshishangdefaxing，xuanzeheshiyangshidexinfushi，zhongshijifuhulihemeitisushen。zheixiegaibianbuyongguoyukuazhang，danshirangrenjuedenihuanranyixin。biru，nanshengnengcongqingxinduanfahuanweigengjuyougexingdefaxing，nvshengkeshizhebutongleixingdezhuangronghefuzhuangdapei。

　　(er)neizaiqizhidesuzaochukaiwaizai，neizaiqizhiyiyangzhongyao。suzaoleguandexintai，kuanyidairenhelijiebieren，zhanshichuwenzhongchengshuyimian。zaihebierenxiangchuzhong，biaoxianchulezixinyuyouhao，rangqianrenjiandaozijidechengzhangbianhua。liru，zaishejiaohuodongzhong，tanrandiyutarenjiaoliu，gongxiangyouyisidejianjiehegushi，zhanshichunideqizhi。

　　(san)zhanxianxinxingxiangdexingshiruguonizaitishengzijicengmianqudeyidingchengxiaohou，yaoqiaomiaodezhanxianjiqianren。nengtongguogongtongpengyoudebujingyitanji，huoshizaiyixieshejiaomeitishangshidufenxiangzijideshenghuodiandiandidi，danshibuyaoxiandebijiaoyouyi。biru，zaipengyouquanfenxiangyipianzishenkanwanyibenyouneihandeshubenhoudeganwu，huozhezuogongyidezhaopian，rangqianrenzaibuzhibujuezhongkandaonidexinxingxiang。

　　第四步、修复联络技巧

　　(yi)tiaoxuanheshideshijianduanlianyiduanshijianhou，ruguonijuedezijizhunbeihao，erqietongguogezhongtujinglejiedaoleqianrenqingxuyebijiaowendingshi，jiukeyixuanzexiufulianxishangle。zheigeshijidetiaoxuanhenzhongyao，liruzaiyigeteshudejieri，huozhelingyifangshengrishi，tuisongyitiaoyoujiandanyouzhenzhidezhufuduanxiaoxi。

　　(er)lianluodefangfahejutineirongguanliandefangfayaoziran、qingqingsongsong，bubijibicizaochengfudan。jutineirongnengcongyixiemeiyouyiyidehuatitaolunxiashou，liruxunwenduifangjinqikandeyibuhaodianying，huozhetuijianyijiafeichanghaodejiudian。fangzhitanjiyiwangdeaiqingfenqi，baochiduihuadeqingsongyukuaiqifen。biru，nikeyishuo：“woqianjitiankandaoleyijiachaobangdekafeiting，tadenatiekafeiyouqihaochi，niyongyouxingquaihaoma?”

　　(san)fangzhiguodureqinghuopobujidaizaihuifulianluodezaoqi，yaodiaozhenghaozijidexintai，bubibiaoxiandeguoyureqinghuopobujidai。nengrangduifangkanjiannideguanzhu，danyoubuhuirenweiniyoujiqiangdezhenduixing。zhiyaoduifangdehuifubijiaojiji，nikeyizhubuzengjialianluodecishu，danyiranshizhongbaochishidang。

　　第五步、重建信任

　　(yi)rencuobingzhenchengdaoqianjiaruzaiguoquganqinglinizuocuoleshi，neiyangxianzaishishihoujiandingdichengren。zhenxinchengyijiduifangzhiqian，buyaozhaojiekouhuotaobizeren。biru，nikeyishuo：“womingbaizhiqianwohaizaijiejueyixieshiqingshangzuodebugouhao，jinidailailesunhai，wozhendehenhouhui，xiwangninenggouqingyuanliangwo。”

　　(er)yanxingyizhibiaoxianzhiqianzhishidiyibu，gengweiguanjiandeshiyongshijixingdonglaishuomingnidegenggai。zaiheqianrenhouxuxiangchuzhong，bixuzuodaoyanxingyizhi。tongyideshieryidingyaozuodao，jinliangbuyaoxuguomeifaduixiandechengnuo。liru，nijuedehuidaomouyishijianpeibierenqukanyichangzhanlanhui，neijiuyidingyaozhunshifuyue。

　　(san)jiduifangshijianyukongjianzhongjianxinrenxuyaoyiduanshijian，buyaoqidailingyifangnengmashangzaicirenkeni。zhongshibierendeganshou，jiduifangchongzukongjianheshijianlaifenxinigenggai。zaizheiguochengzhong，duoyidiannaixinyujianchi，chixuyishijixingdongzhengmingzijichengxin。

　　第六步、有效的沟通的关键所在

　　(yi)qingtingdezhongyaoxingzaiheqianrenjiaotanshi，yaoqingting。renzhenlingtingduifangxiangfaheganshou，buyaojizheqieduanhuobianbo。yongyanshenlianbubiaoqingjiduifanghuifu，nengrangduifangtihuidaoniduitadezunzhongyuguanxin。biru，ruguoduifangzaifenxiangzijijinqidegongzuofannaoshi，nikeyizhuanxindikandaoduifang，qiadangdidiandiantoubiaoshizantong。

　　(er)biaodazijizhenshitiyanchukailingting，yeyaoganyudibiaodazijizhenshitiyan。danshiyaozhuyibiaodaxingshi，fangzhichizeheweiqu。yongpingjing、zhenxinshiyidekouqishuochuzijidexiangfa，nengrangduifanggenghaodelejieni。liru，nikeyishuo：“dangwomenneiyangzuoshi，wonengjuedeyouxieshiluo，xiwangwomennenggenghaodegoutongjiaoliu。”

　　(san)beiqianrennvyoupianlezenmewanhui？fangzhizhengchaohemaodunzaijiaoliuguochengzhong，nanmianhuichuxianyijianbuyizhidexianxiang。zheishi，yaobaochilixing，bimianxianruzhengchaohemaodun。dongdehuanweisikao，lejieduifanglichang，xunzhaobicidounengjieshoudejiejuefangfa。jiarufenweibiandejinzhang，lijizhongzhihuihua，dengbicixintaihuifuhouzaijixugoutongjiaoliu。