让女友失望该怎么挽回？

　　rangnvyoushiwanggaizenmewanhui？shifouyoushiyibuxiaoxinjiubanvpengyoujirejile，rangtaduinijuewang?

　　一、看清现况：女友为什么心寒?

　　zaiwanhuiyiqian，womendexiangaoqingchuqingkuang，shiba?nvpengyouweishenmeyehuiduinixinhanni?zheishencengyuanyinhenyoukenenggeyoubutong，danguijieqilai，dazhikefenweiyixiajilei：

　　goutongbudaowei：nishibushichangchangmangdemeikongpeizheta，huozhetashuohuadeshihounizongjinglibujizhong?

　　fuwuchengnuoweidui：nishibushiyiqianxuguoguoshengsiqikuo，jielunniutoujiuwangdeyiganerjing?

　　qianqueguanzhu：tashengbingdeshihounishibushizhishuoleyiju“duohedianreshui”，jiuzaiyemeixiawenle?

　　guanlishizhi：nishibushiyouyixiexiaowenti、buliangxiguan，rangtawufarenshou?

　　yulunyali：nishibushizuoshenmerangqihuaiyinizhongchengdudeshier?

　　kanqingxiankuang，shiwanhuidediyibu。jinyoulejiewentichuzainali，cainengshibangongbei，shiba?

　　二、挽回方法一：真心实意道歉，敞开心扉

　　haola，jiranzhidaolecunzaidewenti，neizanbiankaishixingdongqilaiba!zuixian，nihuodegezhenzhidedaoqian，rangtazhidaoniyeshizhenxinshiyihuiguole。

　　daoqianyaojuti：bielaoshuo“zhendeduibuqi，duibuqi”，neiyangtailongtongle。niyaoshijishuochunicuozaina，liru“zhendeduibuqi，woneitianbuyinggaizainixuyaowoshiguangguzhedayouxi”。

　　biaodaganshou：gentashuoninyouduomedehouhuimojihezize，rangqiganshoudaonizhenzhihetongchu。

　　lingtingtaxinlihua：daoqianyihou，biewangjijitayigeshuohuadejihui，rangtabaxinlideweiquhebumanshuochulai。niyaozuodejiushiyongxinting，bieqieduan，gengbuyaobianbo。

　　zhenchengshichangkaixinfeideyaochi。jinyourangqiganshoudaonidezhencheng，tacaihuiyuanyiweinijiyu，tingnishuohua。

　　三、挽回方法二：改变自己，提升魅力

　　daoqianyihou，jiezhejiushishentilixingle。niyidingyaorangqijiandao，nikendingshizaiweileaiqing、weilenengnimenzhijiandeguanxizainuligaibian。

　　kefuquedian：jiangneixierangqibumandequexiandouzhenglichulai，suihouyigegequjiuzheng。liru，ruguonizongshiwangdiaotadeshengri，neimejiushegetishi;ruguonizongshiluandiuwupin，neimejiuxuehuizhengli。

　　tishengziji：chukaikefuquedian，haixuyaobuduantishengziji。bulunshixuexijineng、peiyuxinxingquaihao，huoshitigaozishensuzhiherenjijiaowangjiqiao，douhuirangniyuelaiyuegengyouhuoli。

　　zhanxianchengxiao：biewangjijiangnidegenggaizhanxianjitakan。liru，zaipengyouquanfenxiangnidexinchengguo，huoshiqingtayiqicanjianidexingquzhutihuodong。

　　jilao，genggaibingbushiweilemanzuta，gengshiweilebianchenggenghaodeziji。dangwomenbiandeyuelaiyuehaoshi，taziranjiuhuikanjiannideliangdian，zaicibeinidadong。

　　四、挽回方法三：烂漫进攻，此情不移

　　rangnvyoushiwanggaizenmewanhui？nayigenvshengbuxihuanlanmanni?zaiwanhuideguochengdangzhong，hebulaigelanmanjingong，rangqixiangqidajiayiqiandemeihaohuiyi。

　　zhizaolangman：jitasongyifenteshudeliwu，birutayizhixiangyaokouhong、tacengxiangqideshuji，huozheyishuxianhua。yebuyongtaizhengui，danyidingyaoyongxin。

　　zhuiyigudi：daitadajiayiqianquguodechengshi，lirudiyiciyuehuidekafeiting、yiqipashangdeshan、kanlededianyingyuan。zaigezhongshuxidehuanjing，dajiabijiaorongyizhaodaocongqiandejuede。

　　biaobaiqingshu：zaizheiyangyigedianzihuadeshiqi，yifengshouxiedebiaobaixinkanqilaishifenbaogui。jiangnideqingyiheyongqixiexialai，gentashuoninyouduomedezhenxita，duomexianghetayiqizouxialai。

　　lanmanbushiweiyi，dantaqueshinengkuaisuzengjinnidejianju，rangqiganshoudaoniyongxinhezhenqing。