聊天被女友发现怎么挽回？

　　liaotianbeinvyoufaxianzenmewanhui？nanrenxiaizhaonvrenxianliao，youqishixihuanzhixingyouyayouyisipiaoliangmeilinvrenxianliao，haoxiangshiyizhongbenxing，nanrenxihuangennvrenxianliaoxianluchulaiyouhuolihouyoushouzhongdulaijianyanzijidemeili，nanrenchanglezaizheiqizhong。jibianshiyoubanlvdenanren，yejingchangwuyijianbeiqitayixingshenshenxiyin，xiaiyubiedeyixingxianliao，tantanrensheng，tanyitanrichangshenghuo，tanyitanchanshengzaiaiqingshenghuozhongdesuoshi，youdeshihounanrenneixinbiehaoduodongxi，yebuhaoxiangairenshushuo，yushitajiuwuseyigezhiji，zhaoqitayixingshushuo，zheiyexushinanrendeyizhongduisuo“zhongshi”bei“lingting”bei“lejie”deaiqingxuyaoba。

　　nanrenyebuganmingmuzhangdandiyubiedeyixingxianliao，haipadadafangfangdeyubiedeyixingsidixiayouhui，zhixuqiaoqiaokaizhan，liaoguohaichangchangshanchuliaotianjilu、tongxunjilu，haipabeiairenfajue，nanrenzirenweiyangaidefeichanghao，danshishijieshangyouzenmekenengyoutongfengdeqiangni?nanrendenvrenkenengyouzhidaodeqingkuangxia。

　　zaizheigeshihou，nanrendeairenhenyoukenengtebieshengqi，wufashihuai，nanrendeairenjuedezijijiangsuoyouzhuanzhulidouyongzainanrendeshenshang，jielunnanrenquewanglezishenshuodehua，mianbulehuiganshoudaozaoshoupanbian，duiyucishifeichangshiwang。zaizheigeshihou，nanrenzhenxinshiyibuyuanyiairenqifen，gengweibuyuanzheifenganqingfashengwufaxiubudeloudong，nanrenyougaizenyangcaozuoni?yuyixingxianliaobeinvpengyoufajue，qiuyuanliang，zhei3gegenggaicaishiguanjian!

　　1.积极致歉，取出心态。

　　zaizheigeshihou，nanrenyingdangzhudongyidian，zhudongyuairengoutongjiaoliu，jiarunanrenzhishiheqitanvrenliaoyixiejimaosuanpi，xishaopingchangdeshiqing，liangrenzhishizhengchangyibanrenjiguanxi，zaizheigeshihounanrennengrangnvrenkanliaotianjilu，weicixiaochuwuhui。

　　dangran，nanrenjiaruyubiedenvrenzaiyiqiliaotian，youdianerfangma，shuoleyixiedihuiairendehenhua，huoliaoaimeile，shuoleyixiebugaishuodehuahuayanqiaoyu，nanrenjiugengyinggaihaohaofansile，yaoshenkefansheng，zheiqueshishiyizhongguoshi，jishanghaidaoairen，youbanyanzhebutimianderenwujiaose。

　　zaizheigeshihou，nanrenyingdanggaiguozixin，zhudongyuairenzhiqian，jiangneiyigegenzijiyongyou“jieshibuqing”deguanxideyixingshanchulahei，bingquebaobuhuizailaiwangle，zheiyeshizuijibendexintai。

　　2.多花时间守候女人。

　　“wojiushiyubiedenvrenshuoshuohuabale，youmeiganbiedeshi，niduiyuneimeqifenme?nishizhendetaikoumenle。”nanrenruguoyaoliangrenguanxihuidaozuichu，nanrentangruobuyuanliangrenguanxiwanquanliekai，jiuqianwanbieshuozheixiehua。

　　huoxunanrenjiangdeshishihua，shizhenhua，keshi，nanrenqiewudiguqizishenyubiedeyixingjiaowangjinmisidixiaxianliaojinvrendailaidekunraoyushanghai。nanrenyaoxuehuihuanweisikao，huanchengzishenkanjianzijideairenyubiedenanrenjiaowangjinmichangchangsidixiaxianliao，nanrenjiuzhennengrucihuoda?jiugenbenbuhuiwangzichuaicezijishifoubeilv?zaizheigeshihou，nvrenhaiyifuhenbunaifanmoyang，baoyuannanrenshandu，xinxiongxiaai，nanrennengrenshoudele?

　　nanrenkenenghuishuo，“wojiushiyubiedeyixingxianliaobale，jinjinkaikaiwanxiao，shuoleyixiebuguantongyangdeqinghuabale，jinjintiaodoubale，yemeiqueshizuochushashilai，guanyume?”qishijiushi“duiyude”，wulunnanrendecuowuduobijiaoyanzhong，huoshinvrenqueshiwuhuinanren，nanrenyaolejieganqing、hunyinshenghuojubeiweiyixing，zheizhongxingfuzhirongdexialiangren，nvrenkandaonanrenyubiedenvrenbufenbicichangchangxianliaoguanlianxiandetebieqinmi，nvrenhuibugaoxing，zheiyeshizhierbuyan。

　　zaizheigeshihou，nanrenyingdanglizhi，xixinhongnvrengaoxing，duohuadianshijianshouhounvren，zuihaojiangpeiqitayixingliaotianshizhangquanbuyonglaishouhounvren，jianjiandixunzhaonvrendeyuanliang，zaicilajinguanxi，weiyouruci，nanrencaikeyixiubunvrenneixinshenchudechuangkou。

　　3.注意分寸，与别的异性拉开距离。

　　nanrenyongyoubanlv，jiuyaoxuehuiyiqieduojianbanlvkaolvdao，yaokaolvbanlvdetiyan，qimayaobaozhengerdian：zaibanlvyanqianbixuzuodao，zaijibanlvyixieshouhou，zaijibanlvyixieguanai，guanjianshikekeyiweibanlvtuodi，zhudonglejiedexihao，changzuoyixierangbanlvgandaoxinxideshier。

　　yucitongshi，zaibanlvshenhou，nanrenyexuyaokaolvbanlvdetiyan，wulunhesheizaiyiqiwan，genbenbuguanliangrenzailiaoshenme，ganshenme，douxuyaoxionghuaitandang，bunengzuodaorangairennanguoshangxinshier。

　　liaotianbeinvyoufaxianzenmewanhui？yexunanrenyouyugongzuo、shejiaoguanliannanmianyaoyubiedeyixingxiangchu，sidixiaxianliao，nanrenyingdangzhuyifencun，yaozhuyizijideyanyu，qimayaoquebaoqiweixinliaotianjilukeyirangairenjienahuokeyirangairengaoxing，yucitongshi，nanrenzaiyuqitayixingsidixiayouyidingdewanglaizhanghu，gengyinglakaijuli，qiewuyouyuzhudong“xionghuaitandang”erhushiguatianlixiadaozhidefeiyi。