前夫想复婚婆媳不和怎么办？，这四点帮你经营婆媳关系

 zaizhenggedajiatingzhong，poxiguanxishizuibuhaodiaojiede，henrongyiyinweiyixiejimaosuanpidexiaoshiqingeryinfapoxidazhan。qishiyeyoubushaodejiating，shiyinweipoxiguanxibuhao，zuizhongdaozhifuqideganqingdepolie，hunyinyejiuciwajiede。dangranyeyouhenduofuqirengranyouganqingxiangyaofuhun，danshiqueyouhenduogulv。

一、婆媳间有分歧或矛盾时，需保持冷静，避免争吵

 buguanshipopohaishixifu，youmaodundouyingdangjishitichulai，erqiebaozhengzijideyuqibijiaopinghe，jinliangbuyaonaoqingxu。ruguoshizaishibijiaoshengqihuozhejidongdehua，qingzaishuangfangqingxudoubijiaopingjingzhihouzailaishangtaojiejuewentidebanfa。congxintaixuedejiaodushanglaijiang，ruguozaiqingxubijiaoxiaoji、qianglie、baozaoshizhaoduifanglilundehua，shuangfangshihenrongyidaozhichongtushengjide。yidanpoxizhijianyoudianxiaoshijiuzhengchaodanaoqilaidehua，shihenyoukenenghuiyinfayuelaiyueyanzhongdewentide。

二、双方积极地经营婆媳关系，做好物质与精神双方面的结合

 zuoweierxi，yaodongdexiaojinggongpo；erpopozuoweizhangbei，yaodongdeaihunianqingyibei。yinpoxibuhenengfuhunma？bifangshuo，erxichuleyaozaiwuzhishangxiaojingpopowai，haiyingdangzairichangshenghuodexiangchuzhongzhuyiyupopogaohaoganqingfangmiandejiaoliu，jinliangxiaochuliangrenxintaishangdegehe，pingriliyeyingdangduoguanxinzijidepopo，zuodaoxuhanwennuan，zaipopoyouxuqiushi，haikeyijinliangzhaogudaotalaorenjia。yaozhidao，renxindoushirouzhangde，bugantayiqianzenyangduini，danshizaijingguozhangqidexianghumohezhihou，xiangxintaduinidepianjianhuimanmanxiaochu，shenzhishizaorijienani，banishiweijialibukehuoquedeyifenzide。

三、若是婆婆和媳妇之间不能解决问题的，还需发挥儿子的中介作用

 yaozhidao，poxiguanxibenlaijiushiqinziguanxihefuqiguanxiyanshenerlaideyizhongxindejiatingguanxi，erzishizheizhongguanxidezhongjianqiaoliang。ruguozaipopohexifuzhijianyoumaodundehua，erzijiubixuzhenduipoxiliangfangjinxingbuyiyangdediaojiebanfa。qianfuxiangfuhunpoxibuhezenmebancishierzikeyicaiquyidingdecelve，bangzhupopoyijixifugaibianzijiduiduifangdeyixiepianjian，birushuoqiaolimingmuyipopohuozhexifudemingyijiduifangmailiwu，zheixieyouzhuyubangzhupoxizhijianxiaochuneixindepingzhang，shuangfangkeyizaorihehaoruchu。

四、婆婆和媳妇双方尽量不要对对方抱有够高的期望值

 yexuyouxienianqingrenzaiguomenqianhuihuanxianghezijidezhunpopoyidingyaoxiangchuhao，danshiguomenhoufaxianshizaishixinggechayijuda、xiaofeiguannianchageshiwanbaqianli，shizaishihennanhedelai，cishigaizenmebanni？niyoubukenenglimahuandiaoyigexinpopo。zheizhongxianshiyumengxiangzhijiandejudaluochashizaishihenrongyilingrenshoushang。yinci，jianyinindaoburuyikaishideshihoujiuzhijiejiangdiduiduifangdeqiwangzhi，zhengsuoweituiyibuhaikuotiankongma，yexuzhengyinweinimenduiduifangdeyaoqiubugao，jieguoxiangchuqilaigengrongyiyixieni。