高中男生不和家长交流怎么办?孩子究竟喜欢什么样的家长

 andaolishuo，fumuyingshizinvzuiyuanyiqinjinderen。keshijishang，yuelaiyueduodegaozhongshengduifumubuzaixinren，shenzhibuyuanjishuofumuxinlihua，shenzhibuyuanyihuijia……gaozhongnanshengbuhejiazhangjiaoliu,zheiyifangmianshuominggaozhongshengyouyushenxindebuduanchengzhangfayu，duliyishiyijiziwoyishikaishizengqiang，changtubaituojiazhangdeyueshuyuguanjiao；lingyifangmian，keyishuoshichuantongdejiazhangzhuanzhihejiatingjiaoyuzuofengzaochengde。

一、理解尊重子女型

 gaozhongshengzuikewangfumunengzhenzhengzoujinzijixinli，lejiezijidesixiangdongtai、xinuaile、xingquaihao，congerzhichi、lijiezijidexuanzehezhuiqiu。kexihenduofumubingbuzhongshizheiyidian。tamenzhiguanxinhaizidechengji、shenghuo，quebuqulejiezinvfengfuduocaideneixinshijie。weishenmegaozhongnanshengbuhejiazhangshuohuale，zheiyouhendayuanyin。

二、不摆家长架子型

 duiyuzinvlaishuojiazhangjishitamendebaohuzhe，youshijishitamendezhixinpengyou；tamenjizunzhonghaizidedulixinghezhudongxing，youshiyibiyaodeyindaohejiaoyu。yiweigaoernanshengzihaodishuo：“wotebiejingaiwodefumu，tamenhewodeguanxiyuqishuoxiangjiazhang，gengxiangshitiegemen。congxiaodaoda，babachuchadeshihou，mamajiuhuishuo：‘nanzihan，quankaonile。’wojuedezijiteyouzerengan，erqieguoduan、jianqiang。”gaosanshenghuijiabuhejiazhanggoutongzenmeban，zheishiyizhongjiejuefangfa。

三、赏识自己型

 xuduojiazhangzaijiaoyuhaizifangmianduoshaoyouxiewenti，buyuanyiyongshangshideyanguangzanyangzijihaizideyoudian，ershihenbudeyongfangdajingquxunzhaozijihaizidequedian，gengkepadeshichuchunabierenhaizidezhangchuqubizijihaizideduanchu。gaosanshenghuijiabuhejiazhanggoutongzenmeban？yiweigaosannanshengduiwojiang：“womalaoshuozheibuhaozheineibuhao，dongbudongjiunawoyutatongshidehaizibijiao：renjiamoumoukaoyibaifen，niweishenmejiukaobashifen？renjiazheiciqimoyoushiquanbanpaimingdiyi！woganjuehenyumen。zinvshixuyaogulikendingyijishangshide。fumuchuyu“jijiang”demude，yongbierenzuoliziweizijihaizishulibangyang，jieguoquedaozhihaizizixindebengkuihesangshi，chanshenglezibeixintai，daozhilegaozhongnanshengbuhejiazhangjiaoliu。

四、真正关心子女型

 henduofumugengduoguanxinhaizidexuexichengjiyushentizhuangkuangdeng，`erduizinvdexintai、gexing、sixiangguanxinbugou。erhaizizhongshideshihouzhe。buzhiyiweixueshengbumandishuo：“wofumuzheinashiguanxinwoya！tamenguanxindejiushishu！zuoyexielema？kaoleduoshaofen？yihuijiajiushiliangjuhua，chucizhiwaitamenshenmedoubuganxingqu。”gaozhongnanshengbuhejiazhangshuohuale，zheishiqizhongdeyigezhongyaoyinsu。

 gaosanshenghuijiabuhejiazhanggoutongzenmeban？womenxuyaozhidao，renyurenzhijianshixuyaogoutongde，youqishipeiyanghaizijianquanrengehejiankangxintaidezhongyaohuanjieshiyufumudegoutong。qishi，gaozhongshenghechuzhongshengxiangbi，yijingyoulejidadebutong，tamenyoulegengqiangdeziwoyishi，xihuandulichuliwenti，buyuanyijiazhanghelaoshiguoduoganshe，erjiazhangwangwanghuihulvelehaizizaizheiyijieduandexiangfa。yiranyonglaoguandiankandaihaizi，yonglaofangfajiejuewenti。duiyuhaizibiaoxiandeyanfanqingxu，dabufenjiazhangbushizhaoyuanyinxiangbanfahuanjie，ershifanfushuojiao，shenzhicubaoganshe，jieguodaozhihaizidenifanxintai。