夫妻不和化解有用吗？要怎么化解？

 youwangyoujiuwenfuqibuhekeyilihunma？qishifuqiliangrenruguohenrongyiyinweiyidianxiaoshiqingjiuchaojiabuxiudehua，neijiushihennanzuodaozhenzhengdehemuxiangchude。neibuhemudejiatingjiuwangwangjihaizidejiankangchengzhangdailaizhuduobuli，danshilihunyeshihuizaochenghaizichengzhangdetongnianyinying。neimefuqibuhehuajieyouyongma，youyoushenmefangfaquhuajie？

一、夫妻不和化解有用吗？有什么方法去化解？

1、双方停止抱怨

 ruguowomenduidaishenghuo，zhixiaodeyiweidebaoyuan、duidaizijidelaogonghuozhelaopo，buzhidaozenmequzunzhongheaihuduifang，ershibutingbaoyuandehua，shihennanhuodeduifangdelijiehezhichide。cishiniyaoxuehuitingzhibaoyuan，nulirangduifangzhichini、erbushiyuanduini。

2、不盲目试图改变对方

 womendoushidulidegeti，ruguoniduiduifangdemouxiexingweihuozhezuofabumanyidehua，buyaowangtuqugaibianduifang，keyihaohaodigenduifangzuoxialaitanyitan，erbushizhijieyongminglingdeyuqirangduifanganzhaonidexiangfaquzuo。zheiyanghenrongyidaozhishuangfangfashengchongtu；yebuyaoshituergaibianduifang，rangduifangchengweinilixiangzhongdeyangzi，zheishihenbuxianshide。

夫妻不和我想离婚吗

3、明白生活是一面镜子

 ruguoniduihunyinshenghuozongshigezhongtiaoti、kebo、bumanzudehua，shihennanzhenzhenghuodexinlingdepingjingde，gengjiananyixiangshoudaochangrenbandexingfu。yaozhidaoshenghuoshiyimianjingzi，niduitaruhe、tajiangruhedaini。duidainidelaopohuozhelaogongyirushi，nixiangduifanghaohaodaini、nijiuyaoxianhaohaodaiduifang。

4、善于反思和学习

 shenghuozhongdehenduozhexue，xuyaoyouxinrenqufaxian。dangwomenzaihunyinzhongyudaokunan、fannaohecuozheshi，womenxuyaonulixunqiujiejuedebanfa，cishiyaojinkuaicongshiqingfashengdegenyuanzhongquxunzhaodaan、qunulifansi，bingjinkuaixuexijiejiudebanfa。xiangxinjingguofuqishuangfangdenuli，weilaidehunyindaolujiangnenggouzoudegengwen、genghao。

5、在婚姻中学会积极疗伤

 youdeshihouwomenbeilingyibanshanghaile，danshiduifangquemeiyouyishidaozheiyidiandehua，womenjiuxuyaozijixianxuehuiziwoliaoshang，ruguoshangkouyizhidoubuchuli、henrongyifanong、zuizhongxingchenghunyindeduliu。yincidangwomenzhudongweiwomentianshishangkou，weizhengjiuhunyinernulidehua，womendehunyinshenghuocaigengduoyizhongbaozhang。

夫妻不和我想离婚吗

6、始终对另一半心存感激

 aiwomenderen，womenyaoganxieta（ta），buaiwomenderen，womenyeyinggaiganxieta（ta）。buguanduifangduiwomenshiyizhongzenyangdexintai，womendouyaoshizhongbaoyiganendexinduidaiduifang。dangwomenshizhongshanyixiangdai、zhenchengfengxiandeshihou，lingyibanshizhonghuibeiwomendadong，zuizhongfuchuzhenxinyuwomenxieshougongtongmaixiangmeihaodeweilai。

fuqibuhekeyilihunma？xianshishiyishangdefangfahuajiebuhedeqingkuang，ruguoshizaibunengjiejuezailihunyebuchi。