外遇后怎么挽回婚姻

　　waiyuhouzenmewanhuihunyin，liangdifenjuhou，xuduofuqikenenghuijuedehunyinshenghuozaoyihuashanglejuhao，wanliudegailvjihuweiling。zheizhongguannianshijishanglaiyuanyuliangdifenjusuodailaidewulijulihejuliganshuangzhongxiaoying。

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　　yinci，liangdifenjujinjinhunyinlideyigejieduan，zhenzhengjuedingwanhuihunyinshizhifuqiliangrenyuanbuyuanyimianduikunnan、chuliwenti。

　　er、liangdifenjufufuxiufuguanxideguanjiansuozai

　　(yi)gerenzhixingliyuxixin

　　wanjiuhunyindediyibushiwenziji：woshibushizhendenenggouweizheiduanganqingfuzhuxingdong?bushaorenzailiangdifenjuzhihouxianruyizhongchongtudeqingkuang，yifangmianqidaiwanjiuhunyin，lingyifangmianyouyinweibierendedanmohuoziyidebiequerxuanzelexiaojidengdai。liru，laogongqidailaopohehaoruchu，danshitaquebuyuanzhudongzhao，zongshixiangzhe“dengtajijizhaowo”。zheiyangdexintaifanerhuirangguanlianjinyibuehua。

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　　(er)zhimianwentiranhouzhaodaojiejuefangan

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