怎么挽回婚姻关系

　　zenmewanhuihunyinguanxi，zheiliyouyixieduiyuruhehenidelingyibanfujianlianluodesilu，keyibangzhutishengnimenzhijiandeguanxi，bingqieweidajiabicichuangzaoyigegengjushanxin、gengjuzhichengdeziranhuanjing。

　　1.行为胜过论辩

　　fujianguanlianzuijiandandefangfajiushirangwuyindexingweilaibiaoxian。liru，changshiyongbaota，huoshinieyinietadexiguanjie。yiyang，neiniyekeyizuoyixiexingwei，liruhuranxiangyongta，huoshiqinwentadeqiane。lilixuanchengxiangyongjiushitazuiyouxiaodewuqizhuangbei，taxiangxinzhenxinshiyixiangyongdenengliang。tajiang：“jinri，zaihewoshenaidenanshengzhangqi、dichen、reqiedixiangyongyihou，woganshoudaocengjingshiqudeguanlian……tadeshoubeihuanraozhewodeshenzi，wodenaodaiyizaitadejianbangshang，rangsuoyoudefennu、kongjuganhuomeiyouanquangandouxiaohaodaijin。”

　　2.维持积极的心态

　　meiyicixiaochenzhijiandehudong，douyaobaozhengyouwucijijizhudongdeduitan。jijizhudongdetanhuabuyidingfeiyaojinjinweiraonidefuqiganqing;haikeyishiyouguannidegongzuo、dajiaqinqi，huozheyixiejiandandeshi，liruqiwenyouduohao。ruguoniyouzhejijidexintaishi，yujubianhuiliuchangziran，bingbangzhunimenzhijiandeguanximanxuefuhuo。

　　3.给与赞扬

　　genjutaolunnilingyibanzuoweiyigeren、zuoweihaizi/guinv、shenweirenfu/mama，naizhizuoweizhangfu/laopoyouduoyouqi，laifujianhetamendelianxihetuanjieyizhi。zhenxinchengyizanyangtamen，bingjinkenengduodeyindaotamen。

　　zhangwolingyibandexingquaihaobingcanyujinlai。zhenxinchengyihaoqixinlingyibandegerenaihao，youliyuzhongxindianrannimendeguanxiaiheaiqing。

　　4.在理想与婚姻中间保持稳定

　　jiarunishiyinweijuedexinzhongdemengxiangranghunyinxianzhiyipang，erzhengzaixunzhaozenyangyuairenhehaoruchu，neimenixuyaojinzaojiejuezheixiewenti。zhuiqiuchenggongzhedelixiangbenshenmeiyoucuo，danyidingyaoquebaobubirengxianidelingyiban。jiarunidelingyibannenggoujiyuniyiding，bingyuniyiqiaixinidechenggong，nidechenggongyehuigengjiatianmei。

　　5.常说感谢

　　zenmewanhuihunyinguanxi，biaoshunideqingganyouweizhongyao。dangwomendelingyibanjinizuoleyixieshier，liruzhaokanhaizi、fuqiandanhuojinizuowancanshi，yaoshuoyishengxiexie。shuoyishengxiexiekeyirangnizaicirongjinzheizhongxingwei，rangnimenzhijiandeganqinggengjiangu，yeshinidelingyibantihuidaobeishangxi。ruguonibuhuishuo，shiyixiaxieganxiexinba!

　　6.别指望你另一半能看懂你的心意

　　biezhiwangnilingyibannengkandongnidexinyi，guanzhuniderichangshenghuo。ruguogandaobixuyubanlvzaiciqudelianxi，jiugentamentanyitanniderenshengxiankuang、nideqingxu，hexuyaozuodianshenmecainengbaozhangdajiazhonghuixingfukuaile。

　　zhuanjiarenwei，tichuyixiejingguoshenzhongkaolvwentiyouliyuyingzaoshushidejiaoliuqifen。ninengwenzheizhongwenti：“shenmeshishinikunaohuoxinhan?”huoshi“youshenmeshinibierbujian，weihe?”zheikeyibangzhutamendakaixinfei，shuochuzijidexiangfa，tongshiquebaonizunzhongtamendejiexian。

　　7.始终保持好奇

　　hunhoushenghuokaishi，ninengqipanzhangwolingyibandeyiqie，congergenghaodilijietamen。weilenengbaochihaoqi，hebushuiqianyubanlvxiangfeng，wenwentamenyitianhuodezenyang，youyigehaode，yeshiyoubuhaode。zhanshichunichengxinchengyidiguanxintamenrichangshenghuofashengdeshi。