挽回婚姻：婚姻裂缝怎么挽回

　　hunyinliefengzenmewanhui，niuniuyuqizijiehunbanian，aiqingyizhibucuo，danyouyigewentizishizhizhongyingxiangzhetamen——xiaohai。niuniudefumunianjidale，youqixiangbaosunzi，meicijianmiandoushihuicuitamengankuaishengyigehaizi。keniuniudelaopoduishenxiaohaizheijianshiqingbingbushirezhongyu，yifangmianshiyinweigongzuomang，yalitaida，lingyifangmiantashuozijimeiyouzhunbei，naizhiyoudianpadanfujiaoyuhaizideyiwu。

　　niuniuzaizhongjian，jintuiliangnan。yibianshifumudeqidai，meitianhuijiadouyijingbeitaolao“buxiaoyousan，buxiaoyousan”;lingyibianshilaopodexintai，tayijingquedingrujinbuxiangshenghaizi，shenzhiyoukenengjianglaiyebuxiangyao。shijianyizhang，niuniudeyalijuda，bamadeducuyeriyipinfan，yekaishichizelaopo“zisizili”，zheilingniuniuneixingengbuhaoshou。

　　zuihou，zaijiarendemingxianshijiayalixia，niuniuzuochuleyigequeding——liyi。tajuedezheizhongjimanzufumudexinyuan，hainengranglaopobaituo，buhuizaichengshouli。kelihunzhihou，niuniucaiyishidaoyagenmeiyoufangxiazheifenganqing。tahuiyiqiyuqizizaiyiqishenghuodediandi，neixinyulaiyuhouhuimoji。tayijingyishidao，zijidangshidejuecetaicaolvle，yagenmeihaohaoyuqizigoutongjiaoliu，yemeiyouwanquanzhanzaitadejiaodukaolvwenti。

　　rujin，niuniuxianghehao，danshitabuzhidaogairuhezhangkou。tadanxinlaopozaoyiduitajuewang，yehaipafumudexintaihuishishierbiandegengjiafanza。taxianrudanxin：daodiyinggaizenmewanliuzheifenganqing?zenmeyangcainengranglaopozaicijieshouta?yougaizenyangyingduifumudeqidai?

　　1. 先平静下来，考虑清楚自己究竟想做什么

　　niuniudexianwenziji：xianghehaoshiyouyuqueshiailaopo，youhuozheshiyouyulihunzhihougandaogudan?jinjinzhishiyinweijiazhanggongzuoyaliliyi，rujinhenhouhui，neifuhexingyihounantihaizaia!xiaohaideshiqinggaizenmeban?babamamaneiliruhetanbai?zheixiewentidoudekaolvqingchu，yaoburanfuhexinglehaishiyicuozaicuo。

　　2. 找个时间，与妻子聊一聊

　　hunyinliefengzenmewanhui，niuniunenggouzhudongzhaolaopo，yuetachuquchidunfanhuoshiheyibeikafei，bieyishanglaijiutifuhexing，xianliaoyiliaoxiankuang，kanyixiatadetaidu。ruguotayuanyiliao，niuniuzaimanmanbiaodaguandian，liru：

　　- “lihunhouwoyizhizaixiang，ganjuezijidangshitaichongdongle，bingmeiyourenzhenkaolvnideqingxu。”

　　- “wohouhuile，huoshirenweiniduiwozuizhongyao。”

　　jilao，taiduyaozhenxinshiyi，bielaoshuoyade，derangtaganshoudaoniyeshizhendexiangwanliu。

　　3. 面对孩子的难题，别躲避

　　xiaohaideshiqingshitamenzhijiandeguanjianfenqi，niuniudeyuqizizhenchengtantao。liru：

　　- “womingbainiduishenxiaohaiyougulv，wojiulijienigongzuoyali。womenkeyiyiqishangyi，kanyoumeiyouzhezhongdefangfa。”

　　- “ruguonizhenbuxiangshenghaizi，woyeyuanyizunzhongnidexuanze，zhongjiulianggerendeganqingcaishizhongyaode。”

　　jiaruniuniuqueshiailaopo，jiuyaoxuehuituoxie，erbushiyiweidishuncongfumudeqidai。