shilianhuoduohuoshaowomendouyudaoguo,dangwomenyudaolezenmeban?dangnihaiaizheneigeren,yidinghuixiangshilianruhefuhe?dangnixiangbaituole,yidinghuixiangshilianruhezouchu?huazhenxiaobianweinijieda。
一、失恋如何复合?
youyuzijideyuanyin,youhuozhenixiangzhongxinwanhuiyiduanaiqingdeshihou,woxiangniyidinghuiwen,shilianruhefuhe?henjiandan。
1、让彼此冷静一下
shilianruhefuhe?shouxianjieshouxianshi,zhongduanlianxi,jizijilengjingqi,wendingqingxu。tingzhiheduifanglianxi,wanbukekukuaiqiu,gengbunengsichanlanda。aiqing,heyouqingyiyang,shiqiqiubulaide。nichuxiandeyuepinfan,duifangjiuyuexiangtaopao,shenzhiyuelaiyuetaoyanni。guodubiaodaxuqiugan,huizaiwuxingzhongjiangdizijidejiazhi,rangduifangjuedefenshoushizhengquede。jizhu,houtuishiweilegenghaodeqianjin。keyishidangbiaodazijidehuiyihenanguo,dandiandaoweizhi,bukeguodu。shuobuyaozailianxile,jiuzunzhongta,zanshiduanlian。tashuozhinengdangpengyouyiyangxiangchu,yezunzhongta,jiudangpengyouneiyangbaochijuli。zheiduanshijian,qingxushibijiaojidongde,xianjizijiyiduanlengjingdeshijian,rangxintaipinghexialai,shizhetouruzuoxiexihuandeshiqing,rangzijimangliuqilai。xianhuifuyigezhengchangdeziji,cainengzuochuzhengquedeshiqing。
2、反思自己
shilianruhefuhe?jiezhefansizishen,zhaodaowenti。fansizijizaizheiduanguanxizhongyounaxieshiwu,zhaodaowentideyaohai。zhiyouzhaodaowentisuozai,caiyoukenenghaohaojiejue。ruguohetahaiyoutongxun,keyijianyaodegaosutanidefansijielun。biaoshinilijietadejueding,queshishizijibuhao,niyishidaolewentisuozai,bingjuedingzaijinhounulixiuzheng。biaomingzheixiejiuzugoule,xianbuyaotifuheyaoqiu,zhixuyaorangduifangzhidao,niwanquanlijieta,jiuxingle。jiexialaiyaogaizaoziji,weirihouduitajianliercixiyinzuozhunbei。youneierwaidegaibianziji。biru:huanyihuanfaxing、gaibianzhezhuang、changshixinshiwu、xuexindongxi、jiaoxinpengyoudengdeng,rangzijihuanranyixin。bingqieouer“bujingyide”rangtakandaonidegaibian。dangnikaishizhongxinxiangshouzijideshenghuo,bingqieguodefengfuduocaiyouziyouweideshihou,duifangkenenghuizhongxinshenshihenidefenshou,shenzhikaishihuaiyizijidefenshoushibushitaicaolvle。
3、重新发起攻势
zhongjianlianxi,zhanshiziji。shilianruhewanhui?yizhanxindemianmao,zhongxinjianlilianxi。rangduifangganjueziran,keyizhizaoyixie“buqieryu”,zhizaoyixiebujingyidejiaoji。gengxiangshizhudingdeyuanfen。zaiourandejianmianshi,yidingbuyaojizhebiaoluzijidefuhexuqiu,yebiekeyixianshizijidegaibian,buyaorangduifangganjuedaoyali,jinjinguanxinyixiataguodezenmeyang,huozhenimenyiqianyoushenmegongtongdehuati,doukeyiqingsongdeliaoyiliao。ruguotabingmeiyouxianluchukangju,guoduanshijian,keyishizhezaiyue。youyiwuyidejingguoyiqiantianmiyuehuidedifang,bujingyidetiqigongtongdemeihaohuiyi。zheixiezhuiyi,huirangtachanshengqingxugongming,rangtamanmanzhongxinduinichanshengqingganxuqiu。ruguoshanzhangwenzibiaoda,keyixiexinbiaodazheixieyisi。taiduyidingyaolengjingpinghetongqingdali,qiebukeshijiayali。
4、bawojihuijiajinfuhe
huifulianxizhihou,zhiyaonibubiaoxianchupobujidaidejinbi,duifangyibanbuhuituranzaicixiaoshi。ruguoyouwanhuidekenengxing,zheishihouwangwanghuichuxianyixiehenhaodejihui,qiebukecuoguo。biru,zaitaqingxudiluodeshihou,huoxuhuijinifayitiaoduanxin。huozhe,zaitatingdaonimencengjingshuxideyishougedeshihou,chudonglejiyishenchudemouchurouruan,yushifayitiaodongtaishufaxinqing。zheixieyouyiwuyidezhudonglianluo,shuomingtazaineishixinzhongduinirengranyouzhehuainian,shenzhiliulian。dangranyaozhuajinjihui,zaitachuyuzheizhongqingxuzhuangtaishi,jishilianluo,shenzhikeyiyuetachulaishenqingbiaobai,zuizhongfuhe。1、lianaibeifenshou?qinglukanke?
二、失恋如何走出?
1、按实际情况出发
yourenhuiwenshilianruheanwei,nikeyirangtashilianzhihouyidingbuyaozaibaoyourenhehuanxiang。qishidaduorenshilianzhihouzoubuchulai,doushiyinweiduiqianrenchongmanhuanxiang。tamenjuedeyaoshizijizaizuodianshenme,duifangjiuhuizhongxinhuidaozijishenbian。shishishidaduoshulianqingjieshuzhihoudoumeifazaipojingzhongyuanle,yiweidebaozhehuanxiang,zhihuishizijijiujiezaishiliandetongkuzhongzoubuchulai。yexuzheishihounihuijuede,yaoshiwanyinimenshihenshihedeyiduini?jiuzheiyangcuoguotaikexile。neimezaifenshouhou,bufangwenwenziji,ruguonimenjixu,xingfuzhishumanfenweishifendehua,nimenzhijiandexingfuzhishuhuiyouduoshaofenni?ruguofenshuzaibafenzhixia,neimejiujianyinifangshouba,nishihezhaodaogenghaode。yinweinimennaodaofenshouzheiyibu,nimendeganqingkendingcunzaiyixiewenti,ruguonimenzaiyiqijixudexingfuzhishubingbushihengao,neimezhongxinzaiyiqihou,neixiewentihuiyirancunzai,nimenyexuyouhuixiangfangqi。
2、bazijideshiqingzuohao
shilianruheanwei?quannidepengyouhaohaogongzuo,haohaoxuexi。yexunihuishuo,shilianle,xinqingyipianzaogao,genbenmeiyouxinqinghaohaodequzuohaozijigaizuode。xinqingbuhao,keyitongguoyixiefangshiqudiaozhengzijishilianhoudexintai,danshizheijuebushizongrongzijibuhaohaoxuexihegongzuodejiekou。nikeyijinliquzuozijixihuandeshiqingrangzijideqingxushengqilai,yidingyaorangzijixingdongqilai,qiebuketaiyonglanxiaojidemianduizijideshenghuo。
3、时间留给自己
shilianzenmeanwei?dangtashilianhou,tahaishihuijingchangxiangqita,zheihenzhengchang,yunxuzijiquxiangta,huainianta。danshiyeshizuohaodierdiansuotidaode,zuohaozijigaizuodeshiqing。yexuyourenhuijuedezuohaozijigaizuodeshiqinghejizijishijianzouchulaiyouyidianchongtu。tamenbingbushiduilide,zuohaozijigaizuodeshizhixingdongshangyaoxingdongqilai,erjizijishijianzouchulaishizhicongxintaishanglaishuode。takeyiyibianxiangzheqianren,yibianhaohaogongzuo。buyaokeyideyidingyaohenkuaiwangjiduifang,yebuyaotaibeiguan,juedezheiduanganqingnizaiyewufashihuaile,yaoxiangxin,yiliangnianhou,dangnizaizhongxinmianduizheifenganqingshi,tayidinghuigenglixingdekandai。
4、xuehuijianqiang,xuehuichengzhang
yourenhuiwenshilianzenmeanwei?qishikeyigentashuo,meiyiduanganqing,buguanzuihoudejiejuzenyang,yebuguannimenxiangchudeshifouyukuai,xiangxinzaizheigeguochengzhongniyidingyoushouhuo,niyaoquzongjiezheixiechengzhang,zheiyangdangnixiangqizheiduanganqingshi,nihuiduoyixiezhengmianqingxu,ershaoyixiebaoyuanzhizeyufennu,dangnizhengxiangmianduizheifenganqingshi,nijiuhuigengtandang,yegengyouliyunizouchulai。
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