失恋如何复合？反思是关键

 shilianhuoduohuoshaowomendouyudaoguo，dangwomenyudaolezenmeban？dangnihaiaizheneigeren，yidinghuixiangshilianruhefuhe？dangnixiangbaituole，yidinghuixiangshilianruhezouchu？huazhenxiaobianweinijieda。

一、失恋如何复合？

youyuzijideyuanyin，youhuozhenixiangzhongxinwanhuiyiduanaiqingdeshihou，woxiangniyidinghuiwen，shilianruhefuhe？henjiandan。

1、让彼此冷静一下

 shilianruhefuhe？shouxianjieshouxianshi，zhongduanlianxi，jizijilengjingqi，wendingqingxu。tingzhiheduifanglianxi，wanbukekukuaiqiu，gengbunengsichanlanda。aiqing，heyouqingyiyang，shiqiqiubulaide。nichuxiandeyuepinfan，duifangjiuyuexiangtaopao，shenzhiyuelaiyuetaoyanni。guodubiaodaxuqiugan，huizaiwuxingzhongjiangdizijidejiazhi，rangduifangjuedefenshoushizhengquede。jizhu，houtuishiweilegenghaodeqianjin。keyishidangbiaodazijidehuiyihenanguo，dandiandaoweizhi，bukeguodu。shuobuyaozailianxile，jiuzunzhongta，zanshiduanlian。tashuozhinengdangpengyouyiyangxiangchu，yezunzhongta，jiudangpengyouneiyangbaochijuli。zheiduanshijian，qingxushibijiaojidongde，xianjizijiyiduanlengjingdeshijian，rangxintaipinghexialai，shizhetouruzuoxiexihuandeshiqing，rangzijimangliuqilai。xianhuifuyigezhengchangdeziji，cainengzuochuzhengquedeshiqing。

2、反思自己

 shilianruhefuhe？jiezhefansizishen，zhaodaowenti。fansizijizaizheiduanguanxizhongyounaxieshiwu，zhaodaowentideyaohai。zhiyouzhaodaowentisuozai，caiyoukenenghaohaojiejue。ruguohetahaiyoutongxun，keyijianyaodegaosutanidefansijielun。biaoshinilijietadejueding，queshishizijibuhao，niyishidaolewentisuozai，bingjuedingzaijinhounulixiuzheng。biaomingzheixiejiuzugoule，xianbuyaotifuheyaoqiu，zhixuyaorangduifangzhidao，niwanquanlijieta，jiuxingle。jiexialaiyaogaizaoziji，weirihouduitajianliercixiyinzuozhunbei。youneierwaidegaibianziji。biru：huanyihuanfaxing、gaibianzhezhuang、changshixinshiwu、xuexindongxi、jiaoxinpengyoudengdeng，rangzijihuanranyixin。bingqieouer“bujingyide”rangtakandaonidegaibian。dangnikaishizhongxinxiangshouzijideshenghuo，bingqieguodefengfuduocaiyouziyouweideshihou，duifangkenenghuizhongxinshenshihenidefenshou，shenzhikaishihuaiyizijidefenshoushibushitaicaolvle。

3、重新发起攻势

 zhongjianlianxi，zhanshiziji。shilianruhewanhui？yizhanxindemianmao，zhongxinjianlilianxi。rangduifangganjueziran，keyizhizaoyixie“buqieryu”，zhizaoyixiebujingyidejiaoji。gengxiangshizhudingdeyuanfen。zaiourandejianmianshi，yidingbuyaojizhebiaoluzijidefuhexuqiu，yebiekeyixianshizijidegaibian，buyaorangduifangganjuedaoyali，jinjinguanxinyixiataguodezenmeyang，huozhenimenyiqianyoushenmegongtongdehuati，doukeyiqingsongdeliaoyiliao。ruguotabingmeiyouxianluchukangju，guoduanshijian，keyishizhezaiyue。youyiwuyidejingguoyiqiantianmiyuehuidedifang，bujingyidetiqigongtongdemeihaohuiyi。zheixiezhuiyi，huirangtachanshengqingxugongming，rangtamanmanzhongxinduinichanshengqingganxuqiu。ruguoshanzhangwenzibiaoda，keyixiexinbiaodazheixieyisi。taiduyidingyaolengjingpinghetongqingdali，qiebukeshijiayali。

4、bawojihuijiajinfuhe

 huifulianxizhihou，zhiyaonibubiaoxianchupobujidaidejinbi，duifangyibanbuhuituranzaicixiaoshi。ruguoyouwanhuidekenengxing，zheishihouwangwanghuichuxianyixiehenhaodejihui，qiebukecuoguo。biru，zaitaqingxudiluodeshihou，huoxuhuijinifayitiaoduanxin。huozhe，zaitatingdaonimencengjingshuxideyishougedeshihou，chudonglejiyishenchudemouchurouruan，yushifayitiaodongtaishufaxinqing。zheixieyouyiwuyidezhudonglianluo，shuomingtazaineishixinzhongduinirengranyouzhehuainian，shenzhiliulian。dangranyaozhuajinjihui，zaitachuyuzheizhongqingxuzhuangtaishi，jishilianluo，shenzhikeyiyuetachulaishenqingbiaobai，zuizhongfuhe。1、lianaibeifenshou？qinglukanke？

二、失恋如何走出？

1、按实际情况出发

 yourenhuiwenshilianruheanwei，nikeyirangtashilianzhihouyidingbuyaozaibaoyourenhehuanxiang。qishidaduorenshilianzhihouzoubuchulai，doushiyinweiduiqianrenchongmanhuanxiang。tamenjuedeyaoshizijizaizuodianshenme，duifangjiuhuizhongxinhuidaozijishenbian。shishishidaduoshulianqingjieshuzhihoudoumeifazaipojingzhongyuanle，yiweidebaozhehuanxiang，zhihuishizijijiujiezaishiliandetongkuzhongzoubuchulai。yexuzheishihounihuijuede，yaoshiwanyinimenshihenshihedeyiduini？jiuzheiyangcuoguotaikexile。neimezaifenshouhou，bufangwenwenziji，ruguonimenjixu，xingfuzhishumanfenweishifendehua，nimenzhijiandexingfuzhishuhuiyouduoshaofenni？ruguofenshuzaibafenzhixia，neimejiujianyinifangshouba，nishihezhaodaogenghaode。yinweinimennaodaofenshouzheiyibu，nimendeganqingkendingcunzaiyixiewenti，ruguonimenzaiyiqijixudexingfuzhishubingbushihengao，neimezhongxinzaiyiqihou，neixiewentihuiyirancunzai，nimenyexuyouhuixiangfangqi。

2、bazijideshiqingzuohao

 shilianruheanwei？quannidepengyouhaohaogongzuo，haohaoxuexi。yexunihuishuo，shilianle，xinqingyipianzaogao，genbenmeiyouxinqinghaohaodequzuohaozijigaizuode。xinqingbuhao，keyitongguoyixiefangshiqudiaozhengzijishilianhoudexintai，danshizheijuebushizongrongzijibuhaohaoxuexihegongzuodejiekou。nikeyijinliquzuozijixihuandeshiqingrangzijideqingxushengqilai，yidingyaorangzijixingdongqilai，qiebuketaiyonglanxiaojidemianduizijideshenghuo。

3、时间留给自己

 shilianzenmeanwei？dangtashilianhou，tahaishihuijingchangxiangqita，zheihenzhengchang，yunxuzijiquxiangta，huainianta。danshiyeshizuohaodierdiansuotidaode，zuohaozijigaizuodeshiqing。yexuyourenhuijuedezuohaozijigaizuodeshiqinghejizijishijianzouchulaiyouyidianchongtu。tamenbingbushiduilide，zuohaozijigaizuodeshizhixingdongshangyaoxingdongqilai，erjizijishijianzouchulaishizhicongxintaishanglaishuode。takeyiyibianxiangzheqianren，yibianhaohaogongzuo。buyaokeyideyidingyaohenkuaiwangjiduifang，yebuyaotaibeiguan，juedezheiduanganqingnizaiyewufashihuaile，yaoxiangxin，yiliangnianhou，dangnizaizhongxinmianduizheifenganqingshi，tayidinghuigenglixingdekandai。

4、xuehuijianqiang，xuehuichengzhang

 yourenhuiwenshilianzenmeanwei？qishikeyigentashuo，meiyiduanganqing，buguanzuihoudejiejuzenyang，yebuguannimenxiangchudeshifouyukuai，xiangxinzaizheigeguochengzhongniyidingyoushouhuo，niyaoquzongjiezheixiechengzhang，zheiyangdangnixiangqizheiduanganqingshi，nihuiduoyixiezhengmianqingxu，ershaoyixiebaoyuanzhizeyufennu，dangnizhengxiangmianduizheifenganqingshi，nijiuhuigengtandang，yegengyouliyunizouchulai。