他是在玩暧昧，还是想交往

yourenwendao： duiyuneixiezhixiangzhaogezhengshinanpengyou，erbushiwanaimeihuozhaoxingbanlvdeguniang，ruhepanduanduifangdeyituni？

 xiamianshishitiaotameineimexihuannidejixiang。mingzhongrenheyitiao，douhenyoukenengbushixianggennijiaowang。yaoshifuhesantiaoyishang，neijihunengkendingbushixiangjiaowang，zijikanzhebanba。

一、如何判断男人是在玩暧昧还是想交往

1、 主动提出上床

 zhenzhengxihuannidenanren，jihubuhuizhudongtishangchuangzheishier，gengbieshuohouzhelianpisanfanwuciquanshuonigentashangchuang。ruguoyounanrenqiangponigentashangchuang，buyaoyinweizhongkouweiouxiangjukanduole，yiweineishizhenai，zheizhongxingweijiaoqiangjian，qingguoduanda110baojing。

 duifangbutibudaibiaotabuxiang，butishiyinweipapohuaizijidexingxiang，sheidoubuyuanyizaixihuandeguniangmianqianbiaoxiandexianghoujidediaosi，zenmeyedeshenshiyidianma。wozhidaodezuihounengwendingxialaideqinglv，yaomeshinvfangzhudongtuidaonanfang；yaomeshiliangrenqingdaoshenchu，shunqiziranjiushangchuangle。

2、 gangrenshi，yishanglaijiutianyanmiyu。

 bushiduizuibatian、henchunhenaimeidenanrenyouyijiana。ruguobiciyijingkaishishuxi，huozhedouyijingzhenzhengjiaowangle，henchunhenaimeidetianyanmiyushimeiyouwentidi，erqieshikeyicujinganqingdi。danyaoshigangrenshi，tajiuzhibaiershenqingdizanmeini，lianbuhongxinbutiaodijiangqinghua，huozhexuxiayiduichengnuo，neime，tayaomeshixianggennijieqian（huozhegancuishixiangpianqian）；yaomeshixianggennishuijue（qiezhixianggennishuijue，buhuixiangfazhanchushenmeyansuguanxi）。

3、 shangchuanghoutaidumingxianlengdan

ng，tayijingdadaozhixiangshuinidemudele，buyongjixuyanle。

4、 taiduhulenghure。

 zheitiaojiuzhijieyinyongpengyouzaipengyouquanfadeyitiaoguangboba，gerenrenweixiangdangjingzhun。“buyaomilianduinihulenghurederen，tabushiyuqinguzong，ershidanchundewuliaoshigenniliaoliangju，gengduoshihoulandedalinibale。”

5、nibiaobaihoujujueni，wulunshiyishenmeliyou。

 zhishangzhengchangdenvrendouyinggaizhidao，zheizhongshihou，nanrenbuhuixinlixiangzheyes，zuishangshuono。buguannimendeyuehuiduometianmi，buguantaweinizuoguoduoshaoshiqing，wuluntayishenmeliyoubiaoshibuxianggennijiaowang，neijiuzhiyouyigeyisi：womeineimexihuanni。

 buyaoshoumeijuhuoouzhoupiandeduhai，ziqiqirendirenwei：yexutashixihuanwode，buyuanyijinruyansudeguanxi，shiyinweitayoucommitment issues。zheizhongjiaoqingbing，zainanrenzhongdefabinglv，yuanbinixiangdedi。weilebushanghainideganqing，henduonanren（youqishiwenyinanqingnian）zhinengyangzhuangyoucibing，bingxuancheng：bushinidewentila，shiwodewenti。

6、nibiaomingxinyihou，bujieshouyebujujue。

buyaojuededuifangmeijujue，zijijiuhaiyouxiwang。bujiniyigemingquedaan，rangnixiadeng，jiuyishiweiwandejujue。

7、congbu（huohenshao）zhudonglianxini

yuelebuchulai，huozhechulaiyehenlengdanneizhonggenbenbuyongshuole。zheishishayisidoukanbuchulaizhendeshizhishangyouwentile。

 bijiaojuyoumihuoxingneizhong，shiniyuetajianmian，tamaosihaitinggaoxingde。danshi，qingjizhu：wulunniliangjianmiandeshihou，tayouduoreqing，duiniyouduohao，danjihumeicidoushiniyuedeta，neitajueduimeineimexihuanni。

zheitiaoyekeyikuozhanyixia：sanbunanren（buzhudong、bufuze、bujujue）jueduimeineimexihuanni。

8、wangluoliaotiandeshihou，huabinishaohenduo。

 dakainimendekoukou（huozhemsn、weixin、duanxindeng）liaotianjilu，buyongkanneirong，kanyixialiaotianneirongdetijijiuxing，ruguoduifangdexinxikuangtijimingxianbinidexiao，neimetaduobanmeineimexihuanni。buyaoziqiqiren，yexushiyinweizheigenanrenhuashaoba。mianduimiandeshihouzaihaixiu，zaichenmodenanren，genzijixihuandenvrenliaotianshi，douhuishededuodaxiezichulaide，ruguobushi，jiuzhishixianggenniwanaimeieryi。

9、qingtabangmang （bingbuguofendeqiuzhu）deshihou，feichangbujiji。yixialiangzhongdoushuomingtameineimexihuanni：

9.1、mianqiangbangle，danbiaoxianchubugaoxinghuozhebunaifan。

9.2、yifeichangmeiyoushuofulideliyoutuituo。ruguoshizhenxinxihuanni，caibuhuifangguozheimehaodebiaoxianjihui。

10、mingmingzhidaonihentaoyanmoujianshiqing，zainimianqianhaihaowugujidizuo。zheitiao，qingshangjididerenchuwai。