挽回婚姻怎么教育孩子的

　　wanhuihunyinzenmejiaoyuhaizidechengrendeshijie，jingchangbeiyichang“nibushuo，wobuwen”dechenmowuyanshoujiyouxisuolongzhao。henduorenzaishejiaopingtaizhangxianzheguangcaiduomudexingfukuaile，yiranzaiyeshenrenjingduziyirenpinweizhexinsuan。hunyinyuaiqing，jiuzaineizheizhongwuyindeyikezhongzhujianshiqulehuanjingwendu。ganqinglizuirangrenhaipade，moguoerzhongchenmowuyan：yishixiangguwuyan，yishiyanerweiguo。zaizhengzhizhihou，bicitongchangbiantilinshang;danzailengbaolidangzhong，bicizhijianyoushenxianwujinnanao。xuyaoxiubuliefeng，quechangchangbuzhigairuhenanyiqichi。danshi，qidaizongxiangqianfang。xiamian，womenjiangyaoyitongtansuozheixienenggouyouxiaotishengaiqingshidudeqizhao。zhongjiu，meigerendouqidaihuiyouyiweizhijiairen，xieshouxiangbanfengchuiyuda，mianxiangweilai。

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　　2.gaijinguanlianzheigexiaoqizhao

　　xunzhaoqizhaoyicujinguanxihuanjingwendu，gaijinguanlian。diyizhao：“qingtingbingfeichize”。jiazhong，zheiyirichangshenghuodegangwan，budanchongmanlehuanshengxiaoyu，yeyoushihouyunzangzhejiaoshiyujiliu。bansuizhesuiyuedexiaoshi，henduozhongnianfufuzairifuyirishenghuozhizhongzhujianshiqulexixin，maiyuanyukanbushangzhishengciqibifu。danshi，xinlingdegoutongbingbushiqujueyulianzhupaoyiyangdechize，ershiyaojingxialailingting。

　　1.1 ◉qingtingairenxinsheng

　　zailingyibandeyancishenhou，tongchangyanzangzhetamendepijuanyubiequ。biru，“nizonggongzuomangliu，bajiawuhuodoudiujiwo”，zheihuabingbushijinjinshiyigemaiyuan，gengshenkedezhideshiqidaizhenidelijieheguanxin。dianshilianxuju《wodeqianbansheng》zhongdeyijutaicishuochulerenxingzhongdeyizhongkewang：“renzheiyisheng，zuishechishibeilijie。”yiner，hebudakaixinfei，chengweiyigerenzhenqingtingdebanlv。genjulingtingyulijieairendeyanyuheneixinxuqiu，gaijingoutongjiaoliu。nideyigediandiantou、yigeweixiao，huoxujiunengxiaochuxinlidebinghe，rangganqingwenduzhujianhuisheng。

　　1.2 ◉shenghuozhongdexijiezhongdeqing

　　dierzhao：“yixingdongchanshiai，rangqingxuxingxianghua”。zhishijiangchu“woxihuanni”haibugou，shijixingdongcaikeyizhijirenxin。henduorenxiguanxingzaishejiaopingtaishangshengchanzhizaolangmanfenwei，quewangwanghulvelechufangdeyiwanretang，neicaishizhenzhengdelanmansuoshu。fuyandemanqiangrexuebibushangjutideguanaiyuxingweigenggandongrenxin。shexiang，mangliuleyitiandezhongniannanrenhuijiayihou，zuiqidaidezhibuguoshiyijuqieyide“jinshenjiashi”，jiqiyishuangzuiwennuandeliangtuo。chengrenzhuiqiudemubiao，zhengshizheiyangderunwuxiwushengdeqingxu，yizhongbierenwufalijiedepeihemoqiyufangxin。

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　　2.1.biaoshuminganlajinguanxi

　　wanhuihunyinzenmejiaoyuhaizidedisanzhao：“tulumingan，xieshoutongxing”。zaixinlideshijiezhong，wanqiangyudulihenzhongyao，danqiadangdibiaoshumingan，fanerhuizengjinbicidejuli。ruguonijuedewulichengshoushi，yiju“wozhendexuyao”tongchangkeyizengqiangduifangzhengfuyuhezhichi。shishidicuiruozhenchenggongxiang，tuidongxianghujiandeqinmiwujianlianluo。rutongneiyijuchudongrenxindewangluoyongyusuoshuo：“jieshouzijirouruo，shichengrenjiaodadeyonggan。”dakaixinfei，gongxiangbicizhijiandekuchuheyali，shitigaoqingxu、tuijinxiangliandegongluqiaoliang。buyongyanshiziji“youquehan”，youyuzhenshitulucaisuanshiqingganzhongzuiwengudeqiaoliang。shanyuyurengoutong，ganyurenrang，shiqinglvzhijianzhonglianwenwan、tuijinqingganshangdeqishidian。ruguonifangxiafangbei，chengxianzhenshideziwoshi，nijiuhuifaxian，lingyifangyezaiqiaoranzoujinnidexinlingshenchu。

　　2.2 ◉yitongzhengtiguihuajifareqing

　　zuizhongzheiyizhao，yexunengdaijinishibangongbeidexiaoguo。shijishang，yeyouyizhaojingchangbeidajiahulve，dankeyichanshengshenkeyingxiangdesilu：yitongweiyihou“gouleqidai”，xieshoubingjianguihuashenghuoxindeyiye。shezhigongtongdemubiaohezhiyeyuanjing，cushirichangrichangshenghuohuifushengji。zaifanmangshenghuozhizhong，henduochengnianrenjianjianshiquleshenghuodemubiao，naizhidanwanglelianaishideneiyifenreqing。bufangchangshiyiqiwaichulvyou，fangancehuabiejuyigedelibaitiantanxianzhutihuodong，huozheyiqiweixiaohaishedingyigechengzhangmubiao。zheizhonggongtongmubiaoheqiyeyuanjing，jiangdaozhipingdanderizizhonghuixingfu，jifaqi“dajiayiranzaixieshoutongxing”deganshou。