花镇情感咨询曝光：防止自我感动的方式是啥

 dajiaziyanziyuxiaishangtaren，ziqiqirendejuedelingyifangyexiaizishen，huazhenqingganzixunpuguangdanshizaijilingyifangtuzengfannaoeryi。tanlianaiyeshiyiyang，xuduo rendaofenshoudeshihou，yizhiwufapingfuxinqing，chixuwenyixiazijijiujingzuobuduinaxie?

 shijishang，nijuedeniweilingyifangtourulexuduo ，tayingdangbeidadong。danshishishang，zheijinjinnideziwotaozui，shiyizhongzisizilidegerenxingwei，jitachanshengdejinyouwuqiongdekunao。neimalianaiguanxizhong，ruhefangzhiziwogandong?

防止自我感动的方式一、真实掌握另一方

 xuduo renjuede，dajiatanlianaiqianjiuzaoyizhangwodechongzuchongzu，wojitadebubianshitayaoxiangdema?zheijiushiyizhongzigaozidadeniantou，juedezishenjitadebianshizuihaoshide，dancongbuguanzhutajiujingyaoxiangnaxie。

 liruyixienanhaiziguonianhuoguojie，dousongnvshengkouhong，jieguozaiyiqiliangnian，nvhaijiedaodedoushichungao。dantayaoxiangdebingbushizheiyi，jinjinnirenweitaxiaichungao。

meiyicitouruqian，dajiadouyingdangduoxiangyixianglingyifangjiujingyaobuyaozheiyi。

防止自我感动的方式二、给得多比不上给得适合

 tayaoxianggeli，niyejiububijitayiduiiphone;tayaoxiangkanjianhai，niyejiububidaitaqupashan;tayaoxiangqulvyou，niyejiububizongdaitaquniyigerenxiaidediqu。

 nidelizudianshihaode，dannijidewupin，bingbingbushitayaoxiangde，huazhenqingganzixunpuguangzheihuirangtaganjuefeichanglei。youlirunvhaibingle，nihenyoukenengjinjinzaidianhualigaozhitaduohedianreshui，dantayaoxiangdejiushinishouhouzaishenbian。nirenweizishenbiaoshuleguanzhu，dannvhaijuedenitaiguofuyanleshi。

yinci jitazaiduo，doubibushangjideshihe。

防止自我感动的方式三、学好观查另一方的意见反馈

 tanlianaibushiniyigerendeshi，bushinichenjinzaiziwogandongdequanqiuli，zhishibixuliangrengongpingdexiangchu。jiarulingyifangjiedaolipinshi，yizhifanyingpingpingdandan，huoshiyizhilimaoxingdeganxie，niyejiuyingdanglejiezheibushitayaoxiangde。

 nibingmeiyouzhenshichudonglingyifang，danyiranganjuehenkaixin，youyunizuodaolelipinchongzudadongdemudi，quewangjilesonglideshizhishiranglingyifangganjuedadong。yinci nidegerenxingwei，bianshiyizhongziwogandong。

 helideyijianfankuishi，nvhaiqueshibeinisongdelipindadongle，erqiexiangbanfajiniganshoudaoyiyangshuipingdedadong，lirusongniyijiannixiaidelipin，erbushijianyidishuoyijuganxie。