冷爱老师靠谱吗?不惑之年有苦有甜，有喜有乐

 lengailaoshikaopuma?dangshiguangzailianbuhuaguo，dangcangsangzaiyanlihuaguo，dangwukenaihezaixinliyongguo，.wolejiewoyitaguosishile。hencanren，buguanworuhediqinfen、ruhedishafeikuxinyewufawanliushiguangrenrandebufa。zaimeitianzaoshangwuyijiandidakairilibiaodeyichanei，woyegantanwobujingyijianzairushuibandeshiguangliliuzouleqingchunnianshaoherongmao。youqishimeidaonianmodeqingkuangxia，kanjianyibenhenhourilibiaoyibuxiaoxinqinzifanyue，woyerenbuzhuaitan，renbuzhumimang，zheiyinianyiniande，zenmeheyitianyitiandeyigemoyangguodezheibankuaini?nandaoshuoshijianqueshizhanglejiaome?wangzheqingchunnianshaoxiangpianlitongzhentongqudeweixiao、dianjizhezhinendedoukounianhuahegaoangdeqingchunnianshao“feichang”kuaidelaidaojinrideliangbinxianyoulelianggenbaitoufaheyanweiyongyouyisizhouzheshi，woneixinzhouranshengchuanchuxuduoxuduodegantan。

 buzhidaosishisuidenanshengduinianjishibushichuxianyichangbijiaomingan?zuishaowoshi。yinciwohualexuduoqianzaibingbunianqingdelianbuzhongzhongditushanghenhou“nanshizhuanyong”hufupin，huoshiwomeirixizhuangbitinghuoziquqirudichuanshangsecaixianyanqiejinyou“nanhai”nianlingcaikeyichuandeyifukuzi，huoshiwoyizhi“dazaochu”bijiaoshishangchaoliudetouxing，danyewufazhegaishiguangdehenji;keyishuo，woshidianzhebingbuqingchundejiaobu，shikezhuyizhezishenshaodekelingdexijinglv。jinyoujiandaobiwonianjidahenduodebobochaowoliezhezuixiaoshi，wocaikeyiyouneimayidiandiandetanranhexinxin。

 nianjipaodekuaijiupaodekuaiba，kezuishangdehuxuyenaoderenmeipimeilian。weilegenghaodikanshangqukanqilainianqingdian，pobudeyiwojinyoumeiriqilaiduizheyushijingziguayemao。zenmezhidaomeiyicizhaojingquanshicuican，yushijingzidanshigehaobuchiyixinzhikoukuaidehundan，tatiaomingdigenwoshuo，xianzaidewobianshizheifanyangzi：dufuweitu，xiaesongchi，quyandaishaoxian，lalilata……ai，youshihoujinyouxinhan、wukenaihedihuishen，bayishengtanxijiaojileyushijingzilidezishen。lengailaoshikaopuma?

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 sishisuidenanshengdanxinjiaoji，zuishaohaipa。yinci meipengdaotongxuejuhuiwohaibukenqu。laidaoyounengshuoxieshenme?xiannaxie?neiyangdexinlizhuangtaiyaowode“laoniankongjuzheng”pobujidaiditizaole。woshiyiguoqu，huanghuzhijiansimeng;kanjianglai，yipianmangrana!

 sishisuidenanshengyizhihua。shuojuxinlihua，huoxuwoqueshiqidaizishenxiang“yizhihua”，yinci youshihouwojuranhaiqipanyichanglianai。danshizongdelaishuo，wozaiwanhunneiyitiandaoxianzaiquanshiyouzeixinmeizeidande。shubenshangshuo，sishisuidenanshengbiwushisuidenanshenghailixing，bi27suidenanshenghaikeke，wojuedeshuodehaizhenzaili。zheiyinianjinahaijianxinnaxieaiqinga，haibuheqisecaihongyiyang，kandeqing，mobudao，jibian modejianyehaipamo?heqizizaiyiqi，shenmeaiqing、reqingzaoyimeile，youxieshihetadezhenqingjiqibicizhijiandeyikao。jingquedeshuo，bianshiganjuefangjianneijiuyingdangyouyigenvren，jinyoutamanbuzaihudihuangzhe，wodexinlicaianwen，jiaruneigenvrenjiribuzaijia，neiqitirutongfashengbianhuaweier，jiayeyuelaiyueqinglengle。shushiwodenanrendoulejiedajiajiazhongshixifu“dangjiade”，yeyouxierenyuwowanxiaoshuowodangshangshijiniande“qiguanyan”，jinjinyoushihoupengdaowoshentibushufuyinweiwoganduixifugaohan：“bangwodaobeifeishui”!shijishangfuqijianmeiyousheipasheineidangzishi，shuodezhijieyidianbianshidahuoguorizi，nengrongrenjiurongrenba。lengailaoshikaopuma?