如何保持姐弟恋情，花镇情感咨询师骗局吗

 ruhebaochijiedilianqing?yaoxiangbaochihaojiedilianqing，xiangbiyibandeganqinggengyounanduxishu。huazhenqingganzixunshipianjumaxiabianjiulaijiaonijigefangmianqingganchijiudeqiaomenba!

学好表述自身的爱

 meiyitianyingduixianghudeqingkuangxia，bixugaozhilingyifang，jinrideniyuzuoribi，genghaokanle。bingqieyeyaoxuehaoyongbuyiyangdeyuyan，buyiyangdejuziqubiaoshu，tongyizhongyuyanshijianzhangle，yehuilingrenzaochengyanjuangan。xuehaomeiyitianbixujilingyifangbuyiyangdejiligoutongjiaoliudeng。

要自尊自爱、信心

 jiarunizijiyebushandaiziji，neinijiunanyijianxintarenhuiaizheni。zizunxinzaishenxinjiankangdenannvguanxizhongchongfenfahuizheguanjiangongxiao。jiarunikeyiqiadangdiduidaizishenpengdaodecuobaihebenshendequedian，neinijiuhuizhenshixiaizishen，jinertianmanxinxin。yigexinxinbingqiexiaoyoujiaolvdeyouxiurencainengzhenshixiangyouyuairendeganqingjiqiganqingdailairichangshenghuodekuaile。

真实钟爱另一方

 yidingyaorangshandaizijiderenlejie，niyeyiyangaizhelingyifang。shenxinjiankangdenannvguanxizongshicunyouyuhuxiangzhiaiderenzhongjian。youderenjuederichangshenghuozaiyiqideairenyizhibaaiguazaizuishangyoudianerguodu“xiaoziqingdiao”。quebuzhidao，ganqingnenggoupianranerzhi，haikeyiqiaoranerqu。zhenshihuxiangzhiaideairencaihuixiangbandaolao，xianghushangxi，youzhexianghuderenshengmubiao。yingduineiyangyiduiairen，ganqinghuibeidadongdeburenxinlikai。jilihechengzandeyujubudannenggoutigaohuxiangdexinrenganhezunzhong，lingwaiyezaiwuxingzhizhongchuangjianzhelingyifangdexinxin。

投入两个人交往的時间

 nixiangyaoweimoushitourushiduoshaoshijiankaoliangniduiqigaoduzhongshishuipingdeguifanzhiyi。zainiyuzishendeairenxianghurichangshenghuodeqianqi，ninengbennengfanyingdiyouxianxuanzefenpeiyulingyifangdejiaowang。bansuizheshijiandeliushihegongzuozhong、richangshenghuodefanmang，dajiaerrenjiaowangdeyouxianxuanzeshuipinghuibujingyijiandijianshao。jiarunibuyuanhuashijianyuzishendeairenjiaowang，dajiazhongjiandejianjubianhuiyuezouyueyuan。changchangyuzishendeairenqinqinwowohaowuyiwenhuifangqinicongyebiedezhutihuodongdeshijian。danzhenduiyigeshixianrenshengjiazhirichangshenghuodereneryan，zheidianxiangmutouziqueshisuanbulenaxie。

沟通交流很重要

 lianghaodegoutongshiweichinannvguanxishenxinjiankangfazhanqushidejiben。lijinggoutongjiaoliu，nideairencaihuizhangwonidegexinghua、niantou。airenzhongjiandecuxitanxin，huishidajiajindaoxianghudeneixinshenchu。yaoxiangwanchenglianghaodegoutong，xiangyaonidakaixinfei，chengzhi、jingquedibiaoshunideniantouhetihui。lingwai，haixiangyaoninaixindilingting。

有争执要吵出去

 zhengzhishinannvguanxizhongyigebunengquefadegouchengbufen。niliyinglejiedao，meiyigerendoushiyouzishendegexinghua，niziranhuizhuyaobiaoxianchuyutarendebuyiyang。nibuyongdanxinzishenyulingyifangdechanshengfenqi。yichengxiangdaidezhengzhihuitigaoxianghuzhijiandegoutongjiaoliu，lajinxianghudejianju，dadaoshuangfangdounenggoujienadedegongshi。chulizhihou，xiayicizaizhengchaodeqingkuangxiabuyaoqutiguoqu，tiguoquhuiranglingyifangjuedeyizhizhuazheyidianshiermeifangyiyang，neiyangshibutaihaode。

抚摸也很必需

 airenzhongjiandefuqishenghuohuichuxianqiyoufu，danduifumodeyaoqiuqueshizhongruyi。yanjiubiaoming，huazhenqingganzixunshipianjumarenmenjiaruwufadedaofumo，huizaiyoushideqingkuangxiayaowang。fumohuijianshaorenmendexinlv，shirendedanaoshifangchulairangrenzhendingdehuaxuewuzhi，gouqirenmenzhuiqiuwanmeiyixingpengyoudexiongxingheermeng。renmendehuxiangfumohaihuijixuchuansongkuanwei、shiyong、weihu、jilidengxinxineirong，tarangrenshifangyali，yelingrenjidong。

学好浪漫惊喜

 shengchanzhizaoyixielanman，lirurenweiyinsudezishendingyixiechuantongjieri，lirudajialianaiyibaitian，diyiciqianshoujieri，zheixie，genjuzheizhongchuantongjieri，laigoujianyigebuyiyangdejuede，neiyangxianghudoushihuiyousuoqidai，caikeyiyizhiweichizhuzheiyishenmigan。

面对现实的转变

 meigerendouchanshengyixiezhuanbian，gengshizheizhongzhuanbianshinannvguanxiweichizhemeili。bansuizheshijiandeqianyi，nixuyaojienaneiyangyigekeguanshishi，bingbingbushimeiyigezhuanbiandoushihuishunzhenideqidaikaizhan。zhuanbianhenyoukenenghuishiniyuairengengweiqinmiwujian，yehenyoukenenghuijidajiachanshengtongchu。taguidingnidiaojiezishendesiweimoshiheshenghuoxiguan，sheqiyixienihenlejie、henzhongaidewupin。

把另一方当做一般的爱人