处对象令人觉得到累咋办，花镇情感咨询是诈骗吗

 weihechuduixianghuiganjuelei?ninengsuikoushuochushuochenglingyifangtaixiaohaiziqi，lingyifangrangzishenmeianquangan。huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianmadanshijishangyagennantihuanshichuzaizheier。

处对象令人觉得到累

 youguanzheigewentideyixiangdiaoyanhuiyingzhong，wangmintidaoweiheganjuechuduixiangfeichanglei，erzaiqizhongbuquegezhonggeyangyuanyin，laiganshouyixia：

1、yiguolian，changchangkanbujianmobudaotihuibushangxiqi，lingrenganjuehenlei。

2、yizhiwohongta，zishenxiangnanhaizi。

 3、dangzhaobuzhetashi，wushiwukezaixiangta，dumiaorunian，zongsuanyongyouxinxi，youyouqijianjiemingle，woyeganjue，queshishisuoranwuwei，neimexiangtayounaxieshijiyiyi。

4、benlaiyoumubiaoqueganjuexiangdanshenwang。

 5、meiribixutongdianhua、faxiaoxi，jiufangfohuibaogongzuo，jiaruyitianmeilianluo，jiuxuyaoshuonimeiaitale，youqibubian，youqilei。

6、yipengmianbingbushiqinbianshimo，yaobubianshikaifangjian。

 7、ganshenmedouweitaxiang，weitazuo。dandaotoulaijiushuohewozaiyiqiyouqibiequ，wo!aitaaidebazijidoudiule，zuizhonghuandezheijuhua。

8、guandeguoduofandaofeichanglei，yanxiandanshendesuiyi。

9、jiandaoshuainandeqingkuangxia、zhengchaodeqingkuangxia、lengbaolideqingkuangxia。

10、xiabanhuijiahaidebeitaxiazhetengdeqingkuangxia。

 zheizhongyuanyintingshanglaihaoxiangshenpanglianrenchangmaiyuandehua，dantanlianaizhendeshiyijianhenjianxindeshierma?weishenmeyixiekanshangqu“meinaozi”derenquenengzaiganqingzhongdexinyingshou，erzheixiezaiganqingshanghuaxiaofeichangdajinglideren，zuizhongqueyitichufenshouerjieshuni?zheiyexunengbiaoming：lianaizhongjuebudanshishijianhehuoli，ergengbixuyizhongjiaoganqingqingshangzhishangdewupin。

 qingshangzhishangzheidongxi，meiyigerendoushiyou，zhanxiangaoaizhifen。qingshangzhishangshourichangshenghuojingyandeweihaijiqijutixiangchuzhongdeyingyonggongzuonengli。chuduixianghuiganjuelei，daduoshushizishendeqingshangzhishangchulenanti，zhibuguoshi，tamenyigezhonggeyangfangshizhanxianchulaieryi。

感觉处对象累，或许自身便是生产制造疲倦的空穴来风

 xuduo yuanzhuolilundianjizheyongganqingjiejiuzishen，quexiangbudaotafandaobianchengfulei。shenghuojiushizheiban：nidexianjizijizuojiajianfa，jianqufuleidexintai、bubiyaodeyali、caogaodeqingxu、buruyidegongzuo，suihouzaijizijizuojiajianfa，baohanrangzishenzaichuduixiang。xianbazijishulihao，zaiquaitaren，jiuburongyirangxianghudoulei。

容忍和强制更改他人，都是会为感情产生压力

 jianguoguoduorenhuaizhegengxingaizaolingyifangdexinlizhuangtaizaichuduixiang，huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianmabuzijuedilaoxiangbazijidexinnianqiangjiayulingyifang，ganjueshiweilingyifanghao，tanlianaibubianshiyaoyiqichengzhangma?shide，danyidingyaoranglingyifangganjueganxinqingyuan。younvhaishuo“yaofeijinxinjiqurongqiabici，queshifeichanglei”，keweiheyaofeilisixuqurongqiani?xianghulijiecaihuichuxianmoheqi，rongqiazongshiyoumoca。jixianghuduiyixiedeshineikongjian，liangrendoushihuishushi。

 younvhaishuo“woshizheiyangderenzuodea，kanjianlenanti，buyuanchuli，yebuyuanqugenggaitaren，danneiyangdejieguoshiwomenfenshoule”。zhongshijuebushiduobi，zhishigenjuyouxiaodegoutongjiaoliu，ranglingyifanglejie。

想象的谈恋爱与实际有差别，也会感觉累

 meiyigerenxinlidoushihuizhuzheyigewanmeilianren，danrichangshenghuodabufenbudakenengwancheng。jiaruxiwangtaigao，zaochengdebupinghengxinlizhuangtaijiuyueda，ganjuelingyifangyuekanyuebukanbuguan，qinggandangranfeichanglei。