刚谈恋爱的恋人应当如何交往，花镇咨询有效果吗

 gangtanlianaidelianrenyingdangruhejiaowang?gangtanlianaideqinglvzhijian，duixianghudelejiechuyuyigejiaodideshuizhun，keyishuoyihoudejiaozhangyiduanshijianquanshitanlianaidemoheshijian，ermoheqiqineidejiaowangyoulie，huazhenzixunyouxiaoguomazejuecezuihouganqingshifazhanqushihuanshiwanbi。gangtanlianaidelianrenjiaowangyaozhuyishenme?zheijiulaixiangjintanyitan。

刚谈恋爱的恋人应当如何交往

 cengyouweixinlixuezhuanjiaxiedao，gangtanlianaidelianren，congzuikaishideganqingdaowanshan，wubilijingsigehuanjie，zheijiushi：bingcun、fanyilai、dandu、xianghuyicun。

第一个环节：并存

 tashilianaijieduan，wulunrenhechanghezongqidainengnizaiyiqi，yeshigangtanlianaidelianrenyijinglijingdehuanjie，yibanlaishuowei3geyuexianqi，danhoubianyehuichuxianfanfuhuogengti，zheiyaozaiyulianrenjianjiaowangdeyixieyaosu。

第二个环节：反依赖

dengganqingpingwen，yifangxiangduoyidianshijianzuohaozijixianggandeshi，zheishihoulingyifangbianhuijuedebeilengdan。

第三个环节：单独

tashidiergehuanjiedechixu，guidingdaliangziliziqiangdeshijian。

第四个环节：相互依存

 zheishihouxindejiaowangjiqiaochengxing，dajiazaoyibianchengzuiqinmiwujianderen。dajiazaiyiqihuxiangzhaogu、yiqikaipiguishuyudajiarenshengdaolu。dajiazaiyiqiburongyixianghuzhijianjiban，erhuixianghuzhijianfazhan。ta(ta)jiuhaoxiangnidejiaren。

 keshi，xuduo tanlianailianrendouguobuqudierhuodisanjieduan，tiaoxuantichufenshou，zugoukandelianrenjiaowangfangfadebiyaoxingle。bujiutanlianaidelianrenjiuxuyaotizaoyuliaozheileigailv，tiaoxuanheshixianghudejiaowangfangfa，caikeyijiangaiqingchixu，huoyunyingdegengqiange!huabuduoshuo，zheierjiulaichuxinzhaoyixieganhuozhishifangfagongnicanzhao!

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1、极速的进度

 ruguoniyikaishizhuiruqingaishi，henyoukenenghuiyouyuchuchangganqingdecijixingershenxianjinlai，yutadediyiciqianshou，diyiciyongcandoushiyouhenyoukenengshinijisujuederichangshenghuodebuyiyang，cike，hebuxiantingyitingbufa，kanyixiabierenduitadedianpingshizenyangde?jiarudagaishangyunideguandiantongyang，neimashizhezhejinyibufazhanqushiba，huoxuninengyouchuhuyiliaodehuode。renzhenguanaizheiyiduanqinggan

 zhenduiganqingzhongdereneryan，huiyouyuniantoudebuyiyang，jiashidebuyiyangdengyuangufashengzhengzhi，beinaonumengbiledanaoyincijiangchurangzishenhouhuimojideyuju，naizhishibujingyishoushangdeyuju。suiranzhihouhehaola，keshierfashengleyizhihuiliuyoujiyili。yinci quanjiezhuweizailianaizhongdelianren，jibian neishihouzhuangkuangzainaonu，haiyaosisuoyihouzaikaizhanhuihua。

2、适当生产制造意外惊喜

 youshilianrenjianshuoguodehua，youyifangfangzaixinlile，erqiejiangzheijuhuafuzhushijian，shidangdeshengchanzhizaodianxiaojingxi，kenengjidajiaderichangshenghuochanshengyuyuehegaoxing。

3、说花言巧语

 wulunshinanhaizihuanshinvhai，yaoshishizailianaizhongderendouxiaitinghuayanqiaoyu，yinci bubikoumennidelangmandehua，aiyaoyingyongshuochulai。henyoukenengjinjindajiadeyijutiexindehua，wulunzhenduinanxinghuanshinvxing，womenyaoxuehaodaliangdequguanzhuaixixialingyifangde，ranglingyifangnenggouganshoudaonidebiyaoxing。

4、喜好兴趣爱好

 lianrenbiciquanshiyouzishendexihaode，lequxihaoshinenggourangdajiabiciyongyou daliangdegongtonghuatide，jiarudajiabicixiaizuoshenmeshiqing，neimalingyifangyingdangquzhangwode，bingbushiyoujuhuachengweiaiwujiwuma。

5、互相激励

 duojilingyifangyixiezizunxinheqingmian，youshidajiaxianghuzaipenyoudeyanqian，shijishanglianrenbicizaijianghuahuoshibanshideqingkuangxiayingdangkaolvyixialingyifangde，bingqiebiru，zuoweinvhai，zaitarendeyanqianyidingyaoweizijidenanyouqingmiande，duoduodekuakuazijidenanyou。

6、学好交心

 lianrenbiciyingdangduoduodedekaizhanneixinshangdegoutongjiaoliu，womenbunengyouyutanlianaideshijianjiulejiufeichangshaojianghuajiaoxinde，shijishangyoushinanrenhenvrengengguanjiandeshilingtingxialingyifangdeneixin，rangqinglvzhijiannenggougengqiangdequzhangwolingyifang。

7、人体上的触碰

 shijishangxuduo deguanjiandianshibixuliuyide，jiarunihenvyouyiqichumenshidehua，neimananhaiziyidingyaojijiquqianzhenvhaierdeshoude，changchangdequbaobaozijidenvyou，nanhaiziyexuyoushiyehuishiyouzhide，neimanvhaiyeshiyaoqianjiubingqieyaoxuehaogaoxingzheileide。

8、信守诺言，要敢负责任

 wulunshinanhaizihuanshinvhai，shijishangdajiadouyingdangyouzishendechengnuode，nanhaiziyebubilaoshizainvhaiyanqianshuoyixietianyanmiyu，womenyaogengqiangdezhenxinshiyiquyingduixianghu，bingqiezhenduizishenzuochudeshieryaoganyaodanfu，duoduodeweilingyifangkaolvdao。

9、不必尝试更改另一方

 meiyigerenquanshiyongyou zishendeyuzhongbutongdexinggetezhengde，dajiaganwanbunengyongzishendegerenxingweilaiguidinglingyifangde，gengbubiqugenggailingyifangdeyixiegerenxingweide，niyexunenggoutiyizhidao，keshibukeyiyizhaonizijideguidinglaiguidinglingyifangde。

10、学习培训管理情绪

 pengdaonantideqingkuangxia，xintaiyibangengkuaichuxian，keshixintaidepohuailihenyoukenengfeichangda，erqiexintaihuichuxianhenduozhongduoyanggailv，jiarunibukeyirenshizijidexintaierqiehelidewanshanzijidexintai，bianhuibeixintaisuocaozongerqiebeixintaisuoshang，lingwainidexintaiyehuishangdaonisuozuiaideren。yinci ，yaomingbaisuzaozishenguanliqingxudegongzuonengli，zaiyicicidexintaiganshouzhong，jianjiandizhangwobingcaokongzishendexintai。

11、当有要求的情况下，还记得说出来

 biaoshushihenzhongyaode，erruhequbiaoshu，gengweiguanjian。henduoren，dangyouyaoqiudeqingkuangxia，buyongshuochuqu，niyiweilingyifanghuidong，huoshizongguidinglingyifangwubiyaodong。tianna，lingyifangyoubushinidulidechong，nibushuochuqu，taweishenmehuidongni?suihoulaidaojinbuzhudeqingkuangxianiyouhuranbaofa，huoshibianshiyongmaiyuan、chizedeyudiaoqugenlingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，neiyangdefangfatongchangzongshirangdajiadegoutongjiaoliuyuelaiyuecha，budandabushangnisuoyaoxiangde，henyoukenenghaihuijixujiangfenqishengji。

12、学习培训表述你的体会

 ninengshuo：“nimeiyoushijianpeizhewo，yaowojuedeyoudianermishi，youdianernanshou”。erbushi：“nidaodishizaiganma，weishenmemeiyouyaowo?”ruguonibiaoshutihuideqingkuangxia，ninengchajuezijidexinlijianjiandiyehuiyuelaiyuejingxiaxinlai，yehuilejiezishenxinlizhenzhengdetihuishisha，youshiyixiebutaihaodexintaiyehuisuizhexiaotui，lingyifangyekeyinenggougenghaodilejienideniantouhetihui。biaoshutihui，yongdaizheaidefangfaqubiaoshu，jilao，lizudian，shirangaidedaoliudongxing，shiweilegenghaodirangdajiazhongjianyuelaiyuegengqiang。woshiguo，danglingyifangzhangqimeiyouyijuwenhaodeqingkuangxia，woganjueyixiemishi，chayidianjiuxianggangkaishimaiyuanle，keshiyemeiyouneimequzuo，youguoquleyihui，wonengganshoudaowoxinlishijishangzhenshidetihuishisha，suoyiwozuihoufayiwangdeshiyiju：“wohaoxiangni”。

13、分别单独的室内空间

 liangrenjinguanshizaiyiqi，xianghuqinmiwujian，danyiranbixuweixianghukongchuyidiandeshijianhekongjian，huazhenzixunyouxiaoguomayouzishendeshieryaozuo，youzishendexingquaihaohexihao。youyizhongfeichanghaodeqingkuangshi，dajiazaitongyigeshineikongjianli，qingjingdifenbiezuohaozijideshier，yiyangjuededaoshuxinyushufu。huoshishi，jinguandajiabuzaiyiqi，danrengnengjuededaolingyifangdeai，xinlirengnengganshoudaoshuxindejuede。

14、相互重视了解

 zhongshihelejie，zailiangrenzhongjiandejiaowangzhongshishifenguanjiande，danbianshihenduorenwufafeichanghaodibaozhengzheiyidian，yibandajiafeichangrongyihuichuxianxintai，xintaihuiweihaidajiaderenzhinengli，ruguonibeixintaiweihaideqingkuangxia，gangkaishizaoyinanyiyongbaochiqingxingdidanaoqukandaishierle。lejielingyifangwubiyouzishendeshieryaozuo，lejiedanglingyifangyinfanmangerlinshimeifapeizheni，zhongshilingyifangdetiaoxuan，zhongshixianghudeniantou。

15、自我成长与健全