自己挽留方法是啥，花镇情感挽回怎么样

 doushuonanhaiziruguogennvshengtifenshou，neishijiuzhiyangdoulabuhuijia，zugoukandenanhaizitanlianaidekeguan。huazhenqingganwanhuizenmeyangshuodaowanliufangfa，zuipadeshiyoukuyounaoqiuwanhui，erzaiciercixiyinwanliucaiyoukeneng。xiabianjiulaijiaonizenmezuoba!

挽留之知彼知己

 《sunzibingfa》libianjiangdao：“zhibizhiji，baizhanbaisheng。”，yisishijiarunichongzurenshizijihelingyifang，yiqiedezhanshinidouburongyishu。neimazenyanggenju“zhibizhiji”laidadeyingzheiciaiqingwanhuiduijueni?

A.认识自己

 nilejielingyifangzenmehuiyaoxiangfangqinime?shideyuangumeiyoutadeshenshang，zainideshenshang。yexushiyouyunidegongzhubinghuoshishitaiguoquefaanquangan。henyoukenenglingyifangcai2-3gezhongtoumeiyougennijianghua，niyejiubushufule，xinfanle，gangkaishibabukaixindeyuanguguijiedaotadeshenshangle。suihoumata，zhizeta。zhizhitalaihongrenhaozhangshijian，nicaizongsuanjuedeshufule。huanweishei，shijianzhangledoushihuinanshoude，yehuileide。

B.掌握另一方

 dajiajiaowangshijianzhangleyihou，niyoumeiyouzhenshiquzhangwota，quaitani?haoxiangniyemeiyoubaozhengxuduo shier。tabixurentong、jiliheqinpei，ertongchangmeiyicinidouyouyuzishenquefaanquanganzheiyigeyuanyin，erjiangchulexuduo shangxindehua。naizhiyixiehuashifourentadesuoyou。zheishitahuishifenbushufu，zuoweinansheng，taziranburongyibiaoxianchulai，keshiniyongyuanbuzhidao，tazaoyizaixinzhongrangnifafenle。yinci dajiadetichufenshou，caitichufenshouyiqianjiuzaoyimingquele。

一切从改变现状刚开始

 yiqiannidewanliuquanshixinjishitakuanrongni，xinjigenjugenggaiwaibuziranhuanjinglairangzishenneixinshushi。shubuzhizheibushihaofangfa。youyuwaibubingbukeyirenpingnidebenrenxinnianxianggenggaijiugenggai。erlingyifangwangwangfangqini，yeshiyouyujuedeniyoushenmewenti。yinci yaoxiangbaituokunjingconggaibianxianzhuanggangkaishi。nilejie，dajiazhongjianwangwangneimeduonantidezhijieyuanyinshiyouyunimeiyouanquangan。ermeiyouanquangandehoubianshiyikebuzixindexin。ruobushibuzixin，yebuhuidanyoutahuifangqinile。yinci yaobaituozishenxinlidebuzixincaixing。

 zuixianbubiqumangmupanbi，genrenmangmupanbishizuihuabulaide，qiangzhongyeyouqiangzhongshou，yishanyeyouyishangao，nishizhonghuijuededaobuzixin。cizhiyaozhenxidangxia，ruoshilaoquxiangyiwangdexingfu，ninengfeichangrongyiduishixiaxinhan，ruoshilaoquxiangjianglai，ninengganjuejiaolvqingxu，ninengdanyou。zuizhongyaodeshi，nixuyaorangzishenbianchengzishenrichangshenghuodeguanlizhongxin，neiyangnicaikeyizhaodaohuanle。

行動比方式关键

 wogennishuolexuduo fangshi，keshijiaruniyizhizaiwanliudeqingkuangxiarengjiuburongyizuo，burongyishuo，huazhenqingganwanhuizenmeyangshizhongmeiyouyiyi。wogennishuoxianliaodeqingkuangxiayaoduokuata，yaoduojilita，niquerengranzaixianliaodeqingkuangxiaqumaiyuan，quzuoxuduo sunhaitadeshier，zuizhongyiranhuihuihuainidewanliu。yinci wojinishuoxuduo fangshi，bibushanggennijiushuoyige，keshinilaixingdong，zaixingdongzhongfaxianwenti，suihouqudiaojie。