怎么进行合理挽回，花镇挽回成功案例有吗

 laidaozhenxingfenshoudeshuiping，bushikeyiyingyongsipilailiandefangfade。jiaxingfenshouhuanshiyoukenengshiyouyuxintaishangdeqifu，yishichongdongshuotichufenshou。danshizhenxingfenshoudabufenbianshizaisunhaijileiyihoushenzhongkaolvmingquetichude，huazhenwanhuichenggonganliyoumajiaruzishenmeiyougenggaidehua，zhenxingfenshouduanshijianshibukenide。zhenxingfenshouheshiyuyijuhua“niruguozuobulezuihaodeziji，jiuwufadedaobirujingengqiangdejieguo。”

 sipilailian，shishishangshibipotarenjienazheiyihaibugouhaodezishen。yonggebuhaotingdiandexingrongbianshi，nijiangtarendiuqidefeiqiwu，jiushidiuhuibierenjialibian，sanfansicineiyang，nijuedebierennengbufanganma?mouleifangmianshangeryan，fenshouzhihousipilailianderenshijishangshilejiesipilailianshimeiyouyongde。danshifenshouzhihou，xinlikongchuqudeneiyibufenjiupoqiexiwanghuodelingyifangdedafu，yinci huiqusipilailian。youhuoshi，ganjuezishenshenmeshidoubuzuo，neimejiuqueshiquandoumeiyoule，yinci caihuibuduandiquzuoxienaxielaiqidaolingyifangdafu。yinci ，yaoxiangbufancuozheiyibu，zuixiandediaojiezishendexintai，diaojiezishendexinlizhuangtai。

忌宽容大度恳求

 jiaruniyeyiqianshiguowanliu，niyoumeiyoutingguoxialiejiyuanqiaohedehuihua?“woyounaxiezuodebutaihaodediqu，wogaizenmeyang?”nijiaowoganshenmewohaizuo，woquandoutingnide，woqiunibielikaiwo。”“wobunengmeiyouni，meiyouniwonengsi，qiunibuyaoxuanzelikai。neiyangdehuihua。zheijiushishuobailedekuanrongdadukenqiu，haoxiangkenqiulingyifangtongqinghebushineiban，meiyouzizun。jiusuanqueshikenqiulailingyifangdehuishou，yejueduibuhuishiyinweiaierhuishoude。kenqiushimeiyouzizunxinde，meiyouzizunxinjiumeiyouzishen，yigemeiyouzishenderen，ruherangtarenquai。

qici，kenqiuhuijiadejueduibuhuishiyiduangongpingdeganqing，bugongpingdeyiduanganqing，shimeifachijiuzouxialaide。

忌以性吸引爱

 nanhaihenvhailuojisiweishiyouchabiede。zainvhaideluojisiweili，xinggenaishibukequeshaode，danshizhenduifeichangdayibufennanhaizieryan，xingshinenggougenaifenlide，yinci ，jiusuannitangzaichuangshangruhetaohaota，tahuanshiyoukenengbuaini。

忌一哭二闹三吊死。

 youyizhongrenfenleshoushineiyangde，zaiweixinpengyouquanfayixiaxunsimihuodeyuju，jiuliru“zheiyangzihuozhumeishenmeyisile。”“woxinzaoyiqushile”“neiyanghuozhuhaibibushangqushileni。”zheihaisuanzuoxintaixiangduiwendingdeqingkuangxia。buwendingdeqingkuangxia，bianhuirangnitongdianhua，ku，nao，rangniqinqijiarentongdianhua，ku，nao。zaibijiaoyanzhongdiande，bianhuinaozijin。shuoshihua，dajiayueduzixundeqingkuangxia，shuomoumoumounvhaibeiyiqihoutiaoloushenwangle，henduorenhuichizepaoxiatiaolouzishanvdehuaxinnan，danshidajiabuganjue，huizishaderenhenkepama?conglingyizhongshijiaoeryan，keyixiangqizijinbingfuzhushijianderen，shiyouqinengaizuanniujiaojian，xiangnantihuijiaoweijiduanderen。

 shijishangyongsunhaizijilaizuodaomudiderenshihenkongbude，cicitaxiangqiyongzijinlaiweixieni，huazhenwanhuichenggonganliyoumaguizhidaoxiayicitashifouhuiyaoxiangponiyansuan，zhixinglihaineimaqiangdeshuo。

忌把活力放到应对另一方的新感情的身上

 “chuguinanrendisanzhe，shanvrenyingduidisanzhe，congmingdenvrenyingduinansheng。”shuodequeshishizaili。youyigezhenzhishi：jiaruyiduanqingganchuxiannanti，neimahaowuyiwenbicishiquanshicunzaidewentide，butaikenengjinjinyifangdecuo。jiusuanshidajiatuomadechenshimeibeipanhunyin，chenshimeisuirancuodeheren，danyebujinshichenshimeideyuangu，ruoshilaopomeiruotianxianshanjierenyijiajingheheyouming，chenshimeihuibeipanhunyin?ziran，chenshimeideqizizhipopinkun，zheiyiyeshinanyigenggaideyaosu，keshibingbuyiweizhe，zheibukeyishifenshoudeyuanyinzhiyi。