有被花镇骗过的吗，到底挽留初恋情人的方法是啥

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挽留初恋情人的方法一、客观谈一谈那时候分手的原因

 chulianqingrentichufenshouhuifuhexingma?wulundajiatichufenshoushiyouyuwujiezhuzhangjulizhuzhengzhizhuhuaibeikaoshi....xiangfuhexingjiuyidingshangtandaogaizenmejiejueyiwangzheixieqijian，nixuyaohuaibeihaolingtalingrenmanyidehuiying，tacaihuianxindekaolvdaozaicixiangchu。

挽留初恋情人的方法二、找寻再相见的机遇

 guonianhuoguojiehuolingyifangshengri，haiyipenyoushenfenyiqichifanqinghehenyiqiezhengchang，youbeihuazhenpianguodemaxiangbihuranyaoqingyejiaobushengying。wanyiyituozaituomeiyouheshidejierizuojiekouni?nenggouyaotaquxiaidezuixindianying，gexingdexunhuiyanchanghuoyouxingquaihaodezhanlanhuideng，jianjiexinganshizhezuizhangwotaderenshini。

挽留初恋情人的方法三、学会放下以往

 nanhaizigenchulianqingrentichufenshouhaihuijixufuhexingma?fenshoufuhehoudeganqing，haowuyiwenchanzazheduiyiwangdeyixiebaoyuan，naizhibiequdexinlizhuangtaizaizheiqizhong。buguanshishenmeyuanyinzaocheng detichufenshou，dougaozhizishenhelingyifangyiqiezhongxinzailai。

挽留初恋情人的方法四、不必旧事重提

 tichufenshouyiqiandeyuangu，zishenbianshimeifashuodeqingde“maohedun”，yinci wuxuzongdanxinyiyiwangdewangshi，jirancongtoukaishibidingshilijingxinlideyifankaoliang，yiweizhezhequanxindegangkaishi，yaoburanzongshishiyiwangfenqidechixu。

挽留初恋情人的方法五、给另一方信任感