花镇觉得没效果可以退款吗，那麼如果异国恋出現危機如何解决?

 yiguoliankenengshizuibuyiyeshizuiduoderentichufenshoudetanlianaile，xiangjiandaobushang，huazhenjuedemeixiaoguokeyituikuanmayidangoutongjiaoliubutaihaofeichangrongyichanshengfenqi，zaocheng tichufenshou，xuduo qingkuangxiazhengchaolejianyimianjiuhaole，neimayiguolianchuxianweijiruhejiejue?zhengchaolezenmebanni?yiqikanyixia。

保持好异国恋一、防止长期的冷暴力

 yiguolianyuanbenjiuqianqueliangrenxiangchudeshijian，qianqueshouhou。jiaruliangrenzhengchaohoulengbaoli，feichangrongyirangyifangganjuehanxin。youyuzhangqiwufadedaoshouhouhewennuandebiequxintaijiuzaichuxianfenqideqingkuangxiazuifeichangrongyibaofa，zhangqidelengbaolihaowuyiwenshishiliaobuji。pengdaolefenqi，qiebukeyilengbaoli，yaolijiyulingyifangjianlilianxihegoutongjiaoliu，fuweilingyifangdexintai，bicipingjingxialai，buxuxiangjinbubiyaodefenqibabicikeshoudeyiguoliancuikuale。

保持好异国恋二、当众解决困难

 jiejuekunnanzuihaoshidefangshibianshilingjulichuli，nixuyaodejinjinyizhanghuochechepiaohuoyizhangfeijipiao。yicihurandechuxian，yigeyiwaizhixi，ranglingyifangxinliquanbudebumanyihebiequdouhuodeleanzhuangheshifangchulai，quanbudefenqiyouyuzheiyicidepengmianzaiwuxingzhongzhongjianjiuxiaoshile，liuyoudenantijinyouruhequkaixinnanyiwanghuaididuguozheiyicinannengkeguidepengmianjiyu，ruheranglingyifangduopeibanzishenerjiejinwanhui。

保持好异国恋三、给另一方大量信任感

 jibian jiejuekunnan，liangrenzhongjiandejianjuyebuhuijianshao，shijianyizhangyouhuigutichuya。huazhenjuedemeixiaoguokeyituikuanmayinci jiejuekunnandeyagenfangfashijixianghudaliangxinrengan，rangtayouguishugan。zhiyouzairichangdezhangjulijiaowangzhongweichilianggerenqinggandeguanzhudu，genjurouhedeyudiao、guanxindehuahexingdongranglingyifangganshoudaolaiziyuanfangdeyifenshizhongburongyizhongduandeai。jibian “shizhong”zaiyuan，yaoshixinliyongyouguishuganhexinlaigan，jiuburongyizaochengjiedihetaochu。

保持好异国恋四、认真沟通交流

 youyuzhangqixingwaidi，nifajueliangrenqingganebianshi，nixuyaogaozhita：“wolejienixianjieduandegongzuoyali，yinweiwolejienimeiridoufeichanglei，zaineibianshifenbuyi。wonengrangnixuduo delejie，keshiwobuyuanyizongrongdajiadeqingganneiyangebianxialai，woyaozhichengdianxialai，jinguanwoyebuzhidaowokeyichengduozhangshijian，keshiwomendeguanxidequepengdaoletiaozhan，zaijianjiandixiajiang，xiwangwomenyiqilaixiangbanfachulizheigewenti。”

 zheijuhuanengrangtazaochengjinpogan，yetigaolenibenshendejiagouhejiaotanbuju。ziran，kaizhanjiaotandeqingkuangxia，jiaruliangrenkeyidangzhonggoutongjiaoliugengqiang，keshiniyidingyaogaohaokongzhiqingxu。