父母爱情怎么挽回婚姻

　　fumuaiqingzenmewanhuihunyinfuqiganqingpoliedekunjingbingbuyidingshiyiyezhijianlailinde。youkenengshirifuyiridezhengzhi、zhangqixinghulvedejingshenxuqiu、panbiandeliefeng，huozherichangshenghuoyalixiadeyuelaiyueyuan。dangyifangkaishizhiyi“zheiduanganqinghaiyouxiwangma”shi，shijishangyijingzoudaolexuanyabianyuan。danwanjiuhunyinbingbushikaoyiju“duibuqi”huo“zaijiwoyicijihui”jiunengshixiande，zheixuyaoxitonghuasikao、mudexingxingdongyuchizhiyiheng。benwenjiangcongshehuixinlixue、goutongdejiqiaoheguanxixiubuduicekaolv，weinintigongyitaokeluodishijiejuefangan，bangzhuniwanliumianlinposuidehunyin。

　　yi、wanjiuhunyinqian，xianwenyixiaziji3zhongqingkuang

　　zaizuochurenhexingweiqian，nixuyaoxianpingjingxialai，mianduihunyinlideguanjianfenqi。

　　“fuqiganqingpoliedegenbenyuanyinshisha?”

　　biebanantijianyiguinawei“sanguanbuhe”“waiyu”huo“meiyouqian”。womenxuyaoshenrufenxi：

　　实例：

　　laopomaiyuanlaogong“conglaibuguanzhujiazhong”，danlaogongjuedeziji“pinlemingyangjiahukoujiuyaoai”。shencengcimaodunshishuangfangjiu“yiwu”degainianbuyiyang——laopobixuqingxushouhou，laogongjuedewuzhitiaojianjiuyaoaideyizhongtixian。

　　yuyangoutongjiqiao：shibushizhangqixingtaobimaodun，huozheyongchizequdaibiaoshu?

　　jingshenxuqiu：shibushiyouyifangzhangqixingbeihulve(rushenai、beizhongshi、beirenlijie)?

　　jiazhiguanchongtu：shibushizaijiaoyuhaizi、shanyangfumu、qiancaifenpaidengguanjianwentizhongcunzaiyagenmaodun?

　　“niyuanbuyuanyiweixiufuguanxifuzeren?”

　　fuqiganqingpolieyibanshibicigongtongzuoyongdejieguo，danwanliushixuyaorenxianmaichudiyibu。ruguobayiwusuoyoutuijianjilingyifang(ru“quanshinixingzihencha”“nimamazongtiaoboshifei”)，zhihuirangduifanggengjiajiandingleliqujuexin。

　　重要心理状态：

　　“jishiduifangyouwu，woyeyuanyixiangaibianziji，yinweiwoyaowanliuzheiduanganqing。”

　　“nishifounengjieshouzuihuaidedasuan?”

　　wanjiuhunyinbingbushi“yidingnengqudechenggong”chengnuo，fanershi“woyuanweixiufuguanxifuzhunuli，danjieguokenengburuyuqi”。tizaotiqianzuohaozhunbei，nenggoubimianyinguoduxiwangerqingxushikong。

　　qishixiangzhuishangyigenvsheng，zhiyaohuixianliao，jiuhuiyoubachengjiyuzhuishangta。youyuchuduixiang，benzhijiushiyige“tan”zi，henvshengtanshenghuo，jiaoxin、tanweilai，zhixunigentatouyuan，caiyoufazhandekongjian。jiarunibianshizuibaben，xianliaogangtiezhinan，neijiulaiwodegongzhonghao~xunailaoli，gongxiangniyifen，dingjiandeliaotiansiweidaotu，shinibawoliaotianguanjianqiaomen，heshiyaofengqudian，heshiyaogaoqingshangdeliaotian，yucitongshirangniyitaodingjianxiaoshouhuashu，shinijiejuebutongdechangjingdeduihua，doukeyidexinyingshou，henjiandanjiunengjiangnvhailiaonadaoshou。

　　er、wanjiuhunyinde5geguanjianyinsu

　　diyibu：lengqueqiguanlifangfa——zhongzhisunhai，fujiankeguangoutongjiaoliu

　　mashangtingzhi3zhonggerenxingwei：

　　jiuchanbuqingxunwen(ru“nijiujinghaiaiwoma?”“kebukeyibuxianglihun?”)

　　chizemaiyuan(ru“quanshinihuidiaolezheigejiating!”“nicongweixiangguowodeganjue!”)

　　xiaojibeiguan(ru“wobugouhao”“liquwonihuiguodegenghao”)

　　开设“冷却期”：

　　zhiyaoduifangqingxuguoji，zhudongyaoqiu“dajiadoulengjingjitian，linshibushuozheijianshiqing”，fangzhimaodunjihua。

　　yong“feibaoligoutong”zhongxinqidonghuihua：

　　fumuaiqingzenmewanhuihunyingongshijisuan：“wozhuyidao……(keguanshishi)→wojuede……(xintai)→womenxuyao……(yaoqiu)→niyao……(yaoqiu)”

　　实例：

　　“zuijinyizhoudajiachaolesanci(keguanshishi)，woganjuehenpibei(xintai)，woxuyaoyigenengningjinggoutongjiaoliudeziranhuanjing(yaoqiu)，niyaojinyeyiqichuquchidunfanliaoliaoma?(yaoqiu)”