花镇咨询投诉,远嫁十有九伤，面对老公出轨该怎么办

 laogongchuguilewogaizenmezuo?chuguinanrenbingbudaibiaozhechedidepanbian，huazhenzixuntousuzuoweilaopozuixianyaobaochilizhi，jishijieguobudahao，yebuhuitaiganga。xiabianjiujiaonijiejuelaogongchuguiledesigeliucheng。

一、剖析丈夫出轨的缘故：

1.男生由于主观因素而外遇

 rujinzheishehuifazhansichudouchongmanleyinyou，bininianqingpiaoliangdenvxingyeshiwuqibuyou，xuduodehunwaiqingrenzongganjuewanhunyihoujiumeiyoujiehunqiandeneileireqingle，yincijiuxiangweizijizhaodiancijixing、kuaile。zaizaijiashangzaifuqishenghuocengmiannikaolvbushangta，tashunlichengzhangdijiuchuguile，zaipenyouyanqiandaigepiaoliangmeinv，tahaowuyiwenganjuebeishuangyouqingmian!

2.出轨男人是被媳妇逼的

 shuozheijuhua，zuoxifudenihenyoukenenggaibuxiangtingle，danzheiqueshibianshikeguanshishi。huazhenzixuntousuhenyoukenengnitaixiguanxingjialinanshengdecunyoule，duitadeguidingyefenwaideyanke，xinshuishangjiao、bukeyixiyan、bukeyiyinjiu、bukeyichulaiyongcan、bukeyiquktvzheixie，nizaoyichedihushiletadebixu，zaimeiyoushouhou、zanyang、kuanweidenvxingyanqian，taziranyaobikaini，daowaibianquzhaoqitanvxingle。

二、寻找合适挽留外遇丈夫的方式

1.停，看，听，随后慎重地付诸实践

 jiaruniyongyixieshijianhaohaoxiangyixiangzishendehunyinshenghuo，hezishendaodiyoushenmeqidaiyubixu，niyejiuhuixunzhaoheshizishendehuida。neimezuohuoxuyaohuashangyixieshijian，bingqiehenyoukenenghuishifentongchu，keshizheiyiqiebixukaonizijilaizuojueding——yigeniganxinqingyuandejuece。youguoduodenvxingzaizuojuedingshi，xiguanxingqufuyulaogonghuobiedeyouquanweixingderen，rujinzheiyijuecekenengshitamenzizhuzuochudediyigedajuece。

2.更改交往方法，构建优良的家庭环境

 juedaduoshufuqiguanxichuxiannantideyuangushijiehunhoujiaowangfangfacunyouzhenanti，shencengciquzhangwozhangfusuoxu，chengxianwennuanshifangyalidejiatingfenwei，buzhuize、buzhiyi，lazhexiaohaiyiqipeizhangfuquwan，duizhangfuweijiazhongzuodemeiyijianshi，doujiyuyijianfankui，zanyangta，yikaota，shitajuededaoniduitadeshangxi。

3.找技术专业的挽留人员协助

 jiejueyayigandetongchuxintai，xiufuningjingxinli。yuzixunzhetaolunhunyinqingkuang，pouxihunlianwenti，keguanxingpingdinghunyinshenghuopinzhi。renqingzhangfuchuguidezhenshiyuangu，jiejuexinlidenaonuhezenghen。shijishang，xuduozaoshouhunwailiandehunyinshenghuobingmeiyoulaidaoguanlianliekai、feiliyibunengdechengdu，xuduoqingkuangxia，lijinghuifu，lijinghelidegaijinfuqiganqing，tishengfufuhunyinjingyingdeguannianhegongzuonengli，hunyinshenghuodepinzhifandaobiyiqiangengqiang。