有没有人在花镇咨询,婚后如何经营婚姻才会幸福呢?

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一、婚姻生活必须运营，但运营是彼此的，从不是一个人的事情。

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二、婚姻生活必须大家共同成长，假如仅有一方在发展，另一方舍弃发展，留到原地不动，最后舍弃发展的一方终将淘汰。

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三，婚姻生活里彼此仅有旗鼓相当，才可以做真实的同伴，携手并肩往前，相互运营好婚姻生活。

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