广州花镇情感,单女的生涯空间是相对狭窄的

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“积极”奔单女比男多

 “tangruoshuoguoqudedanshenchaoduoshipobudeyizhuguanxingxingshi，jinjinduanzanxinggerenxingwei，neimacicidanshenchaodetedianbianshijijizheqingchuzengjiale。”shanghaishishekeyuanwenxuesuozhuliyanjiuyuanchenyayashuo，youxuduodiaochadouchengxian，quanshidedanshennvsheng(xiatongchengdannv)gengyuanyixuanzedanshen。biruzaozai1996nian，lingdiangongsidediaochajiuchengxian，qidaidanshendedachengshidanshenqingnianrenzhongduojiannvshi;guangzhouhuazhenqinggan2005nian，beijingshi30～wushisuidedanshenzhezhongnvshichaoyue6cheng，shanghainvxingzhongrenkedanshendegengdadao82%;2007nian，shanghaishidequyangdiaochachengxian，danshennvshengzengzhangfudubinanshilvegao，zaiyixiediqushuliangshangchaoyuelenanshi，qielishiquyuejinde，danshendekeyixingjiuyueda。

单女：要过独立的保存

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