为什么这么多人不愿意等

 wobukenjiniyigeren，yigerendaorenhaichenfu，zheigeshilaiyuanyuwuyuetiandewobukenjiniyigeren，tingguozheige，shiduoshaorenyaojuedenanguo，shijizhongbuxiangyaodengderenxuduo，buxiangyaojilingyifangshijianderenyexuduo，xiabian jiueryanshuoganqingdeyixieshier。

一、为何那么几十人不想要等

 xuduorenbuxiangyaojilingyifangshijian，yiduanqingganjiucuoguo，shiduoshaoyuanqiyuanluo，zongyoushiduoshaocajianerguohuishou，shiduoshaoshenglisibie，zongyoushiduoshaoenyuanqingchou;shiduoshaoqianchenwangshi，zongyoushiduoshaomuranhuishou。renshengdelumianshang，renmenjieshilimiandecongcongguoke，kezhenshizhibudeyouyoushiduoshao?

 bingbushigaobudongaihu，yixieyuanfenzhongjiuzhangdu，huozhuantoutianshanghuochaneifanghua。laideshiyoushihou，zoudeshibiran。meiyoupaoxia，zennengyouzhe，meiyoujingyan，zennengtiaoxuan。xiaosaerhuo，kanshijianlengre;chenzhelengjingeran，jiushiyundanfengqing。yuanlaixiyuan，yuanquyiqiesuiyuan。yiqiesuiyuanbuhuigaibian，buhuigaibianyiqiesuiyuan。yongyuandouzaishiguangli，buyanyouhanxin，youxinsijueqing;aideguojilianmengli，meiyousheibaoqianshei，zhinengsheigaobudongdeaihushei。renyizhineiyang，youzhedeneishihoubuzhidaozhengui，shiqucaihouhuibuyi。

 “enaiyizhijianyi，jiaowangquenan，bingbushinidejiububicouhe”，dangdaiaiqingjiuruzheishougequgecishangshu:enaifeichangrongyijiaowangqueshimeibanfa，bingqiedaduoshubukenkeshouxialai。ziguyilai，dajiayaoqiuchonggao、chunzhen、xingfudeaiqing，yinweiaishirenshengzhongduiwaikaifangdezuixuanliduocaidexiaohuaduo。danzaishifengrixiadejinri，shouliyuyudeqinfan。

 dangdaiaiqinghaoxiangzoulaidaochakou：yibufenrenxinchaolaidaowujuwushu，yibufenquerengtaobuxieneixinshenchudeshufu。dangdaiaiqingyaoqiufangshixingshiduoyang，juyoukaifangshi，tebieshizaizaiyierxianchengshi，youweishubushaodenvsheng，doubashengao、piaozi、fangwu、cheliang、weizhi，zuoweizhaonvpengyoudejichuyingjianshebei，shiqipingwennaishouxingdafudujiangdi。xianjieduanliyidezongshuchixuzengjia，shidajiajuededangdaiaiqingxiangshuijingzhipinyiyangmingan，yibushizhangqigushou，zhishibukezhuomodediedang。

 大部分的人到应对他人的情感问题时，都是看的很明白，可是一旦有关自身的情感问题，就会猝不及防，