自己怎么能挽回婚姻

　　zijizenmenengwanhuihunyinnaomaodunle，fenkaile，weixinlaheile，hunyinpoliele，ladiaozishirencuole，ketaquebukenhuitoule。

　　nideairutongsuileyididebolichazi。

　　zidazailikainishenbian，nijuedezijideshenghuobiandeandan，yizhidabuqijingshen，haipashidaoleshenyedeqingkuangxia，yizhiaikantadezhaopian，queyoubuganzhuiyi，xiangyaoqulianxiduifang，youhaipatadichu，zaizheizhongdanxinkunanzhongwufaziba。

　　weishenmelaoshizishizhizhongwufawanghuaita?

　　weishenmetashuobuaijiubuai，liuxiawoyigerenchengdanzheizhongtong?

　　nandaoshuotanenggouturanbuailelemeiyou?

　　zuole6nianqingganwanhui，xiezhuqiuzhuzhewanliuhexiufuguanxibianchengleworichangdegongzuozhong，zijiyejinglilezhenxingfenshou，nengshenkedetihuidaoqiuzhuzhefenshouhoudetiyan，jiqiedixuyaofuhexing。danzaizheiliwoyaogaosunimen，jiarushijiafenshou，wanliutongchangshihenjiandande，yinweibierenyehuijiniliuyigejiyu，tazhishinafenkailaimiaoshuduizijideqiangliebuman，guizaijianchiwanliu，youwujiuzhudongjiuzheng，neishinenggouwanliude。

　　keshi，zhenxingfenshou，jiushimeiyourenhejiyu，lingyifangqueshiqujueyuxiangyaotaolini，zheiyangdeshiqing，nijiqiedixiangwanhuiaiqing，neimejiuhuidaozhilingyifangyulaiyudichuni。yifangmianjiushinisuozuodeshi，zhendebushizhenzhengxiangyaode，lingyifangmianjiushitajuededuinideganqingshifendejueran，neiyangtacaihuifangqini。suoyizheishihou，womenjiububibipobierenhenihehaole。wanhuifangfataiduotaiduo，jiafenshouyoujiaxingfenshoudewanhuifangfa，zhenxingfenshouyeshiyouzhenxingfenshoudebanfa。wanhuiganqingzhendeshiyizhongjishu，zhongdianzaiyunimenyoumeiyouxunzhaowanliudejihui，bingzhuazhuwanliudeguanjianguanjianhuanjie。

　　wanliudeshijicaozuobingbushizhuaxia，suizhezijidexingqingheganjuelai。nanduxishurucigaodeshier，dangranxuyaoyoujihuadeshishi。wojiangzhenxingfenshoudewanliufencheng5gejieduan：duandiaolianluo，xiufulianluo，chuangjianshushidu，qingxutiwenheweichiganqing。

　　第一步：冷战

　　zheiyibuzhiguanzhongyao，qianmianshitidao，takendingshixianghaoyaohenifenshou。suoyizheishihou，nizaiqulianluo，yejiuchenglesaorao。henduonvhaizibianshijieshoubulefenshoukeguanshishi，buxinrentanenggouturanbuailele，juedezijihainenggouwanliu，juedetajiukanzhongziji，yinciquchengrencuowu，qidao，jinzhuibushe，shenzhiweixieta，zaochengduizijigengjiadichu，tazhishihuirenweinidexingshiyulaiyuzuo，tahuijiandingderenweifangqinishihelide，zheibianshifenshouzhihouzishenxinqingjiaolv，yidunxiashijicaozuozaochengguanlianyuelaiyuecha。

　　jiarutafeichangqiangyingdehenishuolefenshou，neiwomenjiubiequshuaigentoule，jiduifangdouliuxiayigehaodeyinxiang，zheiyangcaihuibijiaofangbianzuojiexialaiwanliu。suoyiwojianyinicaiyonglengzhandexingshi，zhongduanquanbudelianluo，buyaozailianxita，jiusuanyijingchedibeiduifanglahei，niyeyaodongderangxintaipingjingxialai，shizijizanshifangxiaaiqing。zaizheiqijian，nijiuyinggaiqingxingdesisuonimendeguanximaodunshinaxie，fansizijizailianaizhongdebugou，younaxieshishishitabugaoxingde，qinfenjiuzhengzishendebuzu，chuliwenti，tigaozijidebenzhihewaizai。

　　youdenvshengzaifenshouzhihouyouyuchongchizhebugan，xintaibengkui，pinmingdilianluonanhaizi，bingbushiweilewanhui，jiushiweilesuoyaozaijingshenshang，xuyaonanhaizideguanzhukuanweilaihuifuzijideqingxu。zheibianshizishenbudongzhaoguhaoziji，yaorangqitarendefangshiduizijidexinqingchengdan，neiyanggennizaiyiqidenanhaizijiuhuihenxinku。

　　jiandandeshuo，lengzhanjiushiweile：

　　1.bimianyinxinqingjiaolvxinjiwanliuerfanxiacuowu，shitagengguoduanfenshou。

　　2.xuehuizhaoguziji，guanlizijideqingxu。

　　3.jijiqingxulengjingxialaihou，zaiduiyuganqingjinxingfansi，jiuzhengzishendebuzu，fangzhixiayicizuochuzheiyangdecuowu。

　　4.ruguojingguosikao，biegaosuwoyaowanliu，neiyanglengzhandezheiduanshijian，jiudengtongyujizijiliuxialeyigejihui。

　　5.zaizheiduanshijianli，nengzuoxuduotigaozijideshier。

　　neidaodigaiduanlianduojiucaiheshi?yousuobutong，yibanlaishuo，duifangxiaojiqingxuyueduo，lengzhanshijianyuezhang，zhidaozaiduheniyoulianxideshihoubuhuineiyangdichu。

　　zuizhongyaodebushijutiyaoduanlianduojiu，fanershiniyizhizailengzhandezheiduanshijianganleshenme?nikebukeyifajuekewanhuixinhao，jishidibawozhuwanliudejiyu。

　　第二步：复仇联盟

　　youyixiezhaowoliaozixunwanliudeqiuzhuzhe，zaoyijinglianxiguobiedelaoshizixunguoqule，dabufenzhenxingfenshoude，douduzailefuchoulianmengzheiyibu，yizhizaizheierbuchenggong，suihoubiedelaoshikeyijuededajialengzhandeshijianyebugou，meiyouzhaodaowanliudetupokoudeng，zheiyinggaishiyongcuofangshi。

　　nimencengshiqinglv，yuanyiwei“talejieziji”，tamingbaiyigerenzuozheixiedoushiweilewanhui，neimenidezhaoshubeikanpole，meicifuchoulianmengmeiyouchenggong。

　　zijizenmenengwanhuihunyinfuchoulianmengjiqiaoyouxuduo，wobianfenxiangyigejingchanghuizaiwanhuizixunzhongchangyongdefangfa：1pengyouquanjianshe，2gentaxunqiubangzhu，3tigaobicizhijiandeguishugan。

　　1.pengyouquanjianshe，yaozailengzhanqineizuochulaidetishengziji，yougongzuo，kanshu，wudao，yujiajianshen，yundongjianshendeng。mudeshizhanxianzijichusedeyimian。nicaishiyuanlita，jiuhuobuxiaqu。nijiuyinggairangtamingbai，likaiyihouniguodefandaogengqiang，rangtaganjuezijizhiqiancuokannile，yuanlainiyeyouruciyouxiuyimian。neimezheishihou，neinijiushixiyintale。

　　2.zhaoyigekexuehelidejiyu，gentaxunqiubangzhu。zheibianshixuyaozijizhudongjingongle，qiejiyaoguanlizijiduiyutadebixugan，yidingbuyaorangtarenweinishiweilewanhuita，buranzhiqianzuodoudashuipiaole。

　　shenmeshikexuehelidexunqiubangzhuni?biru，tashanzhangweixiushoujiweixiudiannao，huoxunihaiyaolianxitabangzhuxiuyixia，jiushuoshoujihuodiannaoduizishenzhiguanzhongyao，danzijiduirenjiabuxinlai，haipajiaojitarenxiu，shenpangnengzhaodaode，jiuweiyounile。