吵架后女生的心态所想的是什么

 liangrenjiaowangxiangchu，zaisuonanmianyoujianyibuxiangtongshiniaimianzi，chuxianneiyangdezhuangkuangxiahenyuanyichuxianzhengchao，yejianghuishifancuowuhuoshishizaiwobuliuyiqueshuocuohuadeneishihou，relingyibanshengqi，yeshijianghuidaozhizhengchaode；neimazhengchaohounvshengdexintaishiruhedeni？shiguoyihoujiuyougangkaishidanyouta，jiujingzaban，nenggourangtayibushengqi，ruhehongtagaoxinga？

一、跟女友争吵以后，如何哄她高兴获得宽容

1、认真哄哄她

 yuanshihuanjieliangrenzhengchaola，jiaruniyaoxianghewozaicijiaowangxialai，nibixuyaolejiezhengchaohounvyoudexintai，dangnibawolezhengchaohounvshengdexintai，neimanihaiyaozhuyaobiaoxianchuxixin，miandaiweixiao（shenchushouhaibudaxiaorongren），bixuyaojianchibuxie，rangtalejie，nishizhongshitawanqiangdezhuxingu，zhengchaohounvshengdexintaixiangdewojuedeyefeichangjiandan，jiushixiangniquhonghongta，nvshengdexinquanshijiaoweiruande，wenroudexianjingduinvrenyiyangyougongxiao；dangzhengchaohounvyouxintainanshoudeneishihou，qianwanbuyaozaizhengchaodeneishihouzhuyaobiaoxianchuxinbuzaiyandemoyang，buranzongyoujianghuihuizuomeiyoulezheiyiduanganqing。

2、了解她的心

 zaizhengchaohounvshengdexintaishiruhede，renmenyingdangyaoqingxi，zailianqingqinei，wojuedenvnvhaijiajiahuhudeshengqiyoushishimeiliyoude，zhibuguojiushishuorangnisafadia，jiashangyidiudiudejiaozong，quanshinenggoulejiedema，shiguoyihou，zhibuguojiuxiangkanyixianidexintai，cikebixuyaozhenxinshiyizhiqian，qiewushuokonghualuanlishi；qingganshibixuliangrenquweihubaoyangde，meiyoudianjichudexinlaihexixin，youzenyangjingdezhushijiandemolian，yinciruguonilejiezhengchaohounvshengdexintai，nibianburongyizaiganjuexintainanshoule，zhongjiuzishenshinanhaizi，honghongnvpengyoushizaiyiqiezhengchangdanshideshile。

3、不要再冷暴力

 zhengchuzaireliandangzhengchaohounvyouxintaixiangdeshinihonghongta，jiaruzaizhengchaodeneishihou，qianwanbuyaomenbuzhisheng，yebukeyihuishenjiuzou；neiyangzongshirangtajuedewobukaopu；bixuyaoxuehaojijichengrencuowu，wulunsheidousheicuozaixian，nikeyigaoqingchugennvrenshimeiyoudadaolikejiangde；haikeyihurandejinbaota，wulunruhexiazhetengni，qianwanbuyaofangkaishou，zaishuoxierencuodehuahuoshishinuanxinqinghua；dengtazainihuaizhongxuanxiewanhou，yejiuyuguotianqingla；haiyoudianerjiushishuoyaolejie：nvshengdouxiaishuofanhua，qianwanbuyaozaishengqideneishihouyongxin，renzhennijiushule，jianghuihuisangshita

4、认真关怀她

 guanlianzaoyihenjinmi，naizhitongjushenghuoyiqi，qianwanbuyaorenweiyunizaiyiqi，baxinherentidoujiaodaoni，tajiuburongyilikaini；ai，zhenduiyigenvhaieryanhenguanjiande；yincijiaruqueshiaita，neimapingchangyaoduitadaliangdeguanzhuhezhaoliao，jiqixixin，rangtalejieniduitadeqinggan，jinjibubifazhanqushichengyongxiashensisuo，shijianjiulejinijianghuihuisangshita；dangtashengqile，nenggoujinbaotazaierpangshuoxienuanxinqinghuahuoshishijiewenta，nvrenergenzitongchangquanshijiaoweiruande，zainidexixingenzhenxinshiyixia，jianxintahaihuikuanrongnide；qicijiushishuozuomouxiepingchangtaduiniyouganjuezuode，maiyixietaxiaidelipin、shipinlei，duliyibuchouyanzheixie，zuiguanjiandejiushishuoyongshentilixingrangtagaoqingchu，niyeshihenzaiyitade。