为什么要做任性的妈妈

 weirenmudouxiwangbangzijidehaizijiaoyudeyouxiu，yushihenduomuqinshifendeniaizijidehaizi，shenmedouyaozijiqinliqinwei，zheizhongwusidexingweikanqilaishihenweida，danshiqishishiduihaizidefazhanyingxiangshihenbuhaode。 huazhenqinggan xiaobianrenwenmamayoushihouyinggaixuehuizisirenxing，zuogerenxingdemamarangzijidehaizijiechuyixiexindedongxi，buhaipatamenfancuo。

一、为什么要做“自私任性”的妈妈

1、nvrenzuigaojibiedeyouxiu，jiushizuohaoziji

 zhiyoumamazisirenxingyidianer，huodekuaileyixie，chuangzaowenxindehuanjing，haizicaiyoukenenghuodegengduodexingfu。suoyishidangshihouzuoyihuirenxingmamahaishishifendebiyaode。

2、yanghaiziyaohuaqian，danbunengzhihuaqian

 yourencengjiangnvxingderenshenghuafenweisangejieduanbaokuo（jiehunqian，jiehunhou，shenghaizihou）。hunqian，zuikanzhongziji，huihuahenduoqiandaban，tishengziwo。zijibiandeyouxiu，caihuiyudaogenghaoderen；jiehunhou，zuikanzhongzhangfu。laogongyouxiu，zheigejiacaiyoumianzi；weirenmuhou，zuikanzhonghaizi。peiyangyigeyouxiudehaizi，shihoubanshengzuizhongyaodeshi。

duiciwobingburentong，dancongyouwahoulaishuo，womentidaomama，naohailizuixianfuxiandexingrongci，huoxujiushiwuside。

 keshi，wusiburenxingmamademamazhendeshihaizixuyaodema？xintaixuejialixuecengzai《dangwoyujianyigeren》zhongtandaoguozheigewenti。dangtazijixiangxiyifudeshihou，mamahuishuo：nixibuganjing，hailangfeishui，haishijiwoyiqixileba。

 dangquchaoshigouwu，tatiaoxuanzijixihuandejiyangdongxi，mamahaihuisaijitayiduilingshi，ranhouqueshuo：niquyitangchaoshidehuafei，biwoyigeyuedouduo。dangtashituguanxinmama，dedaodehuiyingqueshinikanshuquba，buyaoguanwo。

 tademamajiuxiangshiyigeshengren，meiyouzijidexuyaoheganshou，danquehuibaoyuan：woweihaizifuchuneimeduo，taqueconglaibuguanxintiliangwoyixia。tafenxidao：mamadeneixinjiduqueai，duidedaoaiyijingjuewang，suoyiyaotongguoxishengziji，laimanzuwo，jianjiedimanzuta‘neizaidexiaohai’，ershijishang，wo‘qiangzou’leneige‘neizaixiaohai’deai。zheiyangduizijidehaizilaishuobingbushineimedehao，youshihouhaishiyaozuohuirenxingdemama。

3、youxieaikansiwusi，queshishanghai。

 zhengruronggesuoshuo：fumuduihaizizuibuhaodeyingxiang，moguoyuranghaizijuedetamendefumumeiyouhaohaoguorizi。mingqueqinzijiexian，dongdeshishituichu，neime，ruhezuoyigezisirenxingdemama，tishenghaizidexingfuganni？

 zhiqian，zhuyuchendemamahuobaoquanwang。zhumamazaizongyijiemushangtanyan：woshiyongzijideshengmingquduidaierzide，wanquanmeiyouziwo。meitianlingchensidian，jierzizhulitang，yizhujiushishinian；erzifadeweiboheduanxin，tadouyaoqinshouchaozaibenzishang；shenzhi，erzidemeiyiduanganqing，tadouhuiganyu。

tadezongzhishi：wulunerzizoudaonali，douhuijitagewennuandechufang。

 dongtian，beijingjimaocaibuhaomai，tachaoleyipen，zijishebudechi，quanliujierzichi。keshi，erzibingbuxiangchi。tayoushangyankuqingxi：weilejinizuocai，shoudouliekoulea。

 tameishijianguanxinbanlvdeganshou，shenzhicongweikaolvguozijideshenghuo，zhishizhuanzhudiaizhehaizi。zheizhongwusideai，queyouqianwandunzhizhong，yadeerzichuanbuguolaiqi，wufajujue，zhengtuobude，zhinengtongkudichengshouzhe。

 mamawodoushiweinihaodeyiqiangqingyuan，zuizhongbierzishuochumeifaguole，wohuibeinigaosidehenhua。tangruomamanengzisirenxingyixie，zhuyuchenshibushifanermeizheimelei。

 zhenzhengdeaibushibaohuyukongzhi，ershifangshou。zhengrulijianneishouge：「xiaoniaoshuizaiwoshenpang，jiuxianghuaertufenfang，sheiyebunengshanghaita，woyaobaohutafeixiang

yuyixingxiangchudeguochengzhong，nishibushiyehuiyudaolingnifannaodenanti？zhuomobudingduifangxinlidaodizaixiangshenme？