好高骛远怎么办

 dahuoerlejiehaogaowuyuanshayisima？rujinhenduodenianqingrendouxiaihaogaowuyuan，neimadangzishendenanpengyouhaogaowuyuangaizenmebanni？rujinwangbianjiujidahuoerjiangxia。

一、好高骛远啥意思

 haogaowuyuanshayisi？haogaowuyuanjiushishuoyizhibamubiaodingdetaigao，erbutatashishidequzuo，jieguojiushishuoqueshizixinxin，yibaitudi。daxuebiyeshengmeiyoutezhang，quedianjizhexinzishangbaiwan，yiyuejiqianyuandegongzuozhongjiushishuomeiquzuoshihaogaowuyuan。nianqingrenbifandaobuhui，yeshihaojinianshaolaochengde，tatashishide。zuoyoujiushishuohaogaowuyuanshayiside1gebiaoshu。

二、好高骛远的有关

shiyihao：xiai；wu：zhuiqiuwanmei。xingrongtuolishijidizhuiqiuwanmeiguogaoguoyuandemubiao。

chuzishi《songshi·daoxuechuanyi·chenghaochuan》：“bingxuejiayanbeijinerwukuanguang，zuwuchengyan。”

 shiliyixia，keshitanchaojindaodexintaizhuangtai，quejingchangfangaidajiaqulejiezheizuiyibandedadaoli。（qinmu《huadan·lianxi》）

shiyongfangfalianheshi；zuoweiyu、binyu、zhuangyu；hanbianyi

haogaowuyuandetongyicishihaogaowuyuan、jiyuqiucheng，zheizhongquanshihaogaowuyuandetongyici。

 zhimingrenshibuhaogaowuyuandelizheng:dianxingxingdejiushishuodonghankaiguohuangdiguangwudiliuxiu。tazainianqingdeneishihouyejinjinbadangmingxiaoguan，qugemeilideqizi（shihuanzuoweizhijinwu,quxifudangquyinlihua。）weirenshengdaolumubiao。

 danshizhihousuizhiyunshidebianhua，tayincuoyangchazuizhongjuranzoushanglediwei。yinciyejiulijidiaojiezishendejingzhundingwei，zuo1gehaohuangshang。zhihouyequeshibiancheng1gehaohuangshang。

三、男朋友好高骛远该怎么办

1、多交心交流思想

 lianqingzhongdenvshenghenansheng，bixuyaoduojiaoliusixiang，youyuzhinengsixiangguanniandegoutongjiaoliu，nenggouweichizheizhonggenggaorenshengjingjiedexinyoulingxi，neiyangzhijin，tacongneineixinjiunengtihuidaonidezhenzhengxiangfahexihao，erqiegaishanhewanshanziwo。

2、做出真诚的提示

 haogaowuyuanhaowuyiwenshibutaihaode，yinci，zuoweinvhaieryan，bixuyaojinkenengbaozhengkeyizhenchengtishinanpengyou，haoxindetishihuiranglingyifangjikeyiwanjiuqingmian，youkeyitihuidaonidetiexin，yijianshuangdiaohelebuwei？

3、表述自身的喜好

 renmendexihao，bixuyaochongzuhezhenzhengdebiaoshujilingyifang，rangnanpengyoulejierenmenjiujingxiaineileizhongleide，wangwangliangrenkeyilaidaoyikuaier，haowuyiwenyouxuduoxianghuzhijianxiyinzhudediqu，yinci，mouxiexiaodequexianyingdangnenggouyibianlingyifanggaizheng。

4、根据案例暗示着

 renmenshenpangbidinghuipengdaomouxieshili，jiangzheixieyouyuhaogaowuyuanerzhuanglenanqiangderen，neiyangdefanmiandianxing，shishideanli，jiarujiangjitamentingdehua，tabidinghuiyouyidingdejuewu，gaibianxianzhuangdexiangfahezuofa。

5、制订有效目标

 nanpengyouhaogaowuyuan，wojuedejianghuigennianjihesiweixiangguan，yiban qingkuangxia，yuefanianqingrenyuefaxingaoqisheng，xingqingshangxingaoqiaoyesuanzuowukebimian，renmennenggouxiezhutamenzhidingmouxieyouxiaodefanganyumubiao。

6、恰当设置障碍

 youshi，nanpengyoujianghuizuoshiqingzhuyaobiaoxiandexinxinmanmande，shifendehaogaowuyuan，neima，renmennenggouqiadangderenweiyinsushedingmouxiezuai，neiyangzhijin，shierjianghuijiubukeyijinduhenyuanman，yesuanzuojitamendaxianglejingzhong。

7、不必惯着姑息

 jiarunanpengyouyizhihaogaowuyuan，bingqie，genjusuoshudegezhonggeyangfangshi ，huanshibukeyigenggaita，tazishendoumeiyougaibianxianzhuangdexiangfahetongyixingdong，neima，renmenhaiyaojianjuekaolvdaoshibushizaicixiangchu，bubiyixinguanzheguxi。