dahuoerlejiehaogaowuyuanshayisima?rujinhenduodenianqingrendouxiaihaogaowuyuan,neimadangzishendenanpengyouhaogaowuyuangaizenmebanni?rujinwangbianjiujidahuoerjiangxia。
一、好高骛远啥意思
haogaowuyuanshayisi?haogaowuyuanjiushishuoyizhibamubiaodingdetaigao,erbutatashishidequzuo,jieguojiushishuoqueshizixinxin,yibaitudi。daxuebiyeshengmeiyoutezhang,quedianjizhexinzishangbaiwan,yiyuejiqianyuandegongzuozhongjiushishuomeiquzuoshihaogaowuyuan。nianqingrenbifandaobuhui,yeshihaojinianshaolaochengde,tatashishide。zuoyoujiushishuohaogaowuyuanshayiside1gebiaoshu。
二、好高骛远的有关
shiyihao:xiai;wu:zhuiqiuwanmei。xingrongtuolishijidizhuiqiuwanmeiguogaoguoyuandemubiao。
chuzishi《songshi·daoxuechuanyi·chenghaochuan》:“bingxuejiayanbeijinerwukuanguang,zuwuchengyan。”
shiliyixia,keshitanchaojindaodexintaizhuangtai,quejingchangfangaidajiaqulejiezheizuiyibandedadaoli。(qinmu《huadan·lianxi》)
shiyongfangfalianheshi;zuoweiyu、binyu、zhuangyu;hanbianyi
haogaowuyuandetongyicishihaogaowuyuan、jiyuqiucheng,zheizhongquanshihaogaowuyuandetongyici。
zhimingrenshibuhaogaowuyuandelizheng:dianxingxingdejiushishuodonghankaiguohuangdiguangwudiliuxiu。tazainianqingdeneishihouyejinjinbadangmingxiaoguan,qugemeilideqizi(shihuanzuoweizhijinwu,quxifudangquyinlihua。)weirenshengdaolumubiao。
danshizhihousuizhiyunshidebianhua,tayincuoyangchazuizhongjuranzoushanglediwei。yinciyejiulijidiaojiezishendejingzhundingwei,zuo1gehaohuangshang。zhihouyequeshibiancheng1gehaohuangshang。
三、男朋友好高骛远该怎么办
1、多交心交流思想
lianqingzhongdenvshenghenansheng,bixuyaoduojiaoliusixiang,youyuzhinengsixiangguanniandegoutongjiaoliu,nenggouweichizheizhonggenggaorenshengjingjiedexinyoulingxi,neiyangzhijin,tacongneineixinjiunengtihuidaonidezhenzhengxiangfahexihao,erqiegaishanhewanshanziwo。
2、做出真诚的提示
haogaowuyuanhaowuyiwenshibutaihaode,yinci,zuoweinvhaieryan,bixuyaojinkenengbaozhengkeyizhenchengtishinanpengyou,haoxindetishihuiranglingyifangjikeyiwanjiuqingmian,youkeyitihuidaonidetiexin,yijianshuangdiaohelebuwei?
3、表述自身的喜好
renmendexihao,bixuyaochongzuhezhenzhengdebiaoshujilingyifang,rangnanpengyoulejierenmenjiujingxiaineileizhongleide,wangwangliangrenkeyilaidaoyikuaier,haowuyiwenyouxuduoxianghuzhijianxiyinzhudediqu,yinci,mouxiexiaodequexianyingdangnenggouyibianlingyifanggaizheng。
4、根据案例暗示着
renmenshenpangbidinghuipengdaomouxieshili,jiangzheixieyouyuhaogaowuyuanerzhuanglenanqiangderen,neiyangdefanmiandianxing,shishideanli,jiarujiangjitamentingdehua,tabidinghuiyouyidingdejuewu,gaibianxianzhuangdexiangfahezuofa。
5、制订有效目标
nanpengyouhaogaowuyuan,wojuedejianghuigennianjihesiweixiangguan,yiban qingkuangxia,yuefanianqingrenyuefaxingaoqisheng,xingqingshangxingaoqiaoyesuanzuowukebimian,renmennenggouxiezhutamenzhidingmouxieyouxiaodefanganyumubiao。
6、恰当设置障碍
youshi,nanpengyoujianghuizuoshiqingzhuyaobiaoxiandexinxinmanmande,shifendehaogaowuyuan,neima,renmennenggouqiadangderenweiyinsushedingmouxiezuai,neiyangzhijin,shierjianghuijiubukeyijinduhenyuanman,yesuanzuojitamendaxianglejingzhong。
7、不必惯着姑息
jiarunanpengyouyizhihaogaowuyuan,bingqie,genjusuoshudegezhonggeyangfangshi ,huanshibukeyigenggaita,tazishendoumeiyougaibianxianzhuangdexiangfahetongyixingdong,neima,renmenhaiyaojianjuekaolvdaoshibushizaicixiangchu,bubiyixinguanzheguxi。
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