怎么追自己喜欢？的人论怎样去吸引一个女孩?

zenmezhuizijixihuanderen？zhuinvshengjiqiaoshiliangzi“xiyin”。nvhaibushizhuilaide，ershixiyinlaide。jianxinniyidingjushuoguonanzhuinvgezuoshan，nvzhuinangecengsha。ruguonichenggongdexiyindaota，neidajiazhongjiangedejiubushishanershisha。zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？zhuinvhaijiqiaonaxiehao？

1、展现自身的高使用价值、优势

xiangyaorangnvhaixiaixihuanni，neidaziranyaorangnvhaiyouxiaixihuannidedian。zenmezhuizijixihuanderen？yinciquzhanxiannizishen，nidefengqu、xinxin、shanjierenyi、shanxin、xiaodao、zerengan、jinquxin……zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？zhuinvhaijiqiaonaxiehao？

2、不必让女孩有工作压力

yiqianzuoguoyigediaochawenjuan，weihenvhaihuiduobiyigezhuitadenanhaizi，jiranbukeyizuolianren，zuoyigepenyoudoushifeichanghaodeya!

cankaodaanliangzi“gongzuoyali”。shide，tahenizaiyiqibudejing，nijiletaguoduodegongzuoyali。niyutadexianliao，yiyanyixingzhongbiaoludequanshiwoaini。nigengshizhui，tajiugengshixiangtao。

zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?nvhaishikaojuedelaichuduixiangde，nikeyijitayouxianzizaikaixingaoxingdexintai，dangnijitagongzuoyali，neitazongshixiangtao。

yaoliuyideshi，shizhanxiannidegaoshiyongjiazhiheyoushi。youdenanhaizishixianbai，haidoushizhanxiandishiyongjiazhi，haowuyiwenzheidouburongyirangnvhaixiaixihuanni。

zheidoushiweihejinliangbuyaogaobaideyuangu。dangyigenvhaizaibeizhuideneishihou，jiarutaduinimeiganjue，neitayidinghuihuijue。bingqiehuiduinizaochengjiebeixin，tahuidianjizhenishifouhuidatadexiangfa，tahuibennengfanyingdexiangyaoliniyuanyidian。

 jiarutaduiniyouganjue，neitadexintaizhuangtaihuihenfanza。tahuihengaoxing，youhuihenhuangkongbuan，youyutapazaoshousunhai，yongyigecilaimiaoshuneibianshi“bantuibanjiu”。zheiyangdeshiqingtadabufenhaihuihuijueni，youyumeiyouchongzudeguishugan。zheibushimolian，ershibennengfanying，tadediyifanyingjiushishuohuijue。

huoxuyebushishuobunenggaobai，jinjinnidegaobaiyaorangtakaixinqiemeiyougongzuoyali，yeyaobubaoluzijideyaoqiugan。zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？zhuinvhaijiqiaonaxiehao？

juyigefeichangjiandandegaobai，“woaini，diyicijiandaonideneishihoudouxihuandaole，zuowodenvpengyouhaome?”

jiyigedianping：jianyi、liefeng、puluyaoqiugan，jiarunvhaibushifeichangxiainiyeshibutaikenengtongyinide。

dandangnigaiyixia，“nishifouhaijiderenmendiyicijianmiandeneishihouma?tushuguan，niyizhizaiyongxindekanjianshu，weibanzhelian，fangfoyushanglenaxienandian。zenmezhuizijixihuanderen？taiyangsazainidelianbu，henmeihenmei，woxinfangfohurantingleyipai，wolengzhule。chiyileyihuihouwodasuanquxiangyaonidelianxidianhua，woyebuzhidaonishifouhuibangwo，danwomingbaijiarumeiquyaodehuawokeyihouhuimoji!”

neiyangdexushujiuhenshiji，buliefeng。nvhaishikaojuedelaichuduixiangde，takeyijuededaonixushudejiemianhenpiaoliang，juededaonideai，juedeniyeshiaitade。

suihounijiashangyiju：“wojuede，zheidayuejiushishuoyijianzhongqingba，nibuyongjizhehuiyingwo，wojinjinxiangwobeideniantougaosudajia，youyubiezhuhaonanshoule。”

zheiyijushijingcui，yuqinguzong，bupuluyaoqiugan，bujitagongzuoyali。

3、留意升級关联

youdenanhaizishadetaorenxihuan，yituozaituomeiqushengjiguanlian。xiangqiannvhaideshou，zishendeshouzhangxindouniedechuhanle，lengshikuabuchulaineiyibu，shubuzhidaonvhaizaoyidenghounihaozhangshijianle。

meiqushengjiguanliannvhaihuirenweinitaoyanta，shijianjiuleneidajiajiuzhishipengyoule。jijidian，quchudanliang，bieneishihouhouhuibuyi。

yuzhifanguolaidehaihuiyouciwaiyizhongzhuangkuang，jiushishuoyidianmaixiafubiyemeiyou，lijishanglaijiuqiannvhaideshou。xiuguainvhairangniyigeerguang，nizheichediguishuyushuawulai。

xianhetabingjianzou，kanyixiadajiazhongjiandejianju，jiaruyuanbuyaozaidianjizheshizhijinkoule。jiarujiaoweijin，youshihoudeyudaotadejianbutadegebodoumeiyouduozheni，neimabiechiyileqianzhutadeshouba!

guanlianshibixuneiyangyibuyibulaituidongde，jiuhaoxiangdayouxi，quanshixiandaguaiwubaowuqizhuangbeidegongzuojingyanshengjizhihoucaixiangqutuibossde，xiangshangqujiutuibossneihaowuyiwenhuishu。

zenmezhuizijixihuanderen？zhuinvshengbubiyiweididuitahao，aiqingbushinikeyidadonglaide。zhuinvshengbubisichanlanda，neizongshirangtaxihuanni。renmenyaodongdexiyinnvsheng，quzhanxiannidegaoshiyongjiazhiheyoushi，bubijinvhaigongzuoyali，suihounizaiquanguochengzhongliuyishengjiguanlian。