在表白墙上如何表白​？表白怎么说？

 xihuanyigerenzenmebiaobai？zuowei1gexinubuxingyusedezhonghuaminzu，yiwangshichuziyu“lijie”burongxubiaobaiqiang，jiarujinriyoubianweichuziyu“jishuxing”buyingdangbiaobaidehua，neimazuihoudejieguojiushishuorenmenzhongjiuburongyibiaobaile。ruhebiaobai？biaobaizenmeshuo？

 jiaruyouhuishizheimenzaoxingyishudehua，neimabiaobaijiushishuomeiduanmeihaodeguanjian，xihuanyigerenzenmebiaobai？biaobaibenshiqingtouyiheshikaixinde1gegoucheng，shibiaoshubingfeisuoqu。ruhebiaobai？biaobaizenmeshuo？

 worenke，jinguanyoushihouwuxubiaobaiqiangyekeyirangliangrenyiqi，keshi，zongzhiwojiushiganjueyoudianquehan。biaobaiwojuedeyoudianxiangdahua，duineirendaqidijiangchunidetihui，ranhou，gairuhejiuzaiciruhe。

biaobaiwojuedeshifenchengerzhongde：zheizhongshiguanliandebiaobai，zheizhongshiganqingdebiaobai。

 gangkaishijibudongnvren，yebushuxizishen，dangxinshenbotaoxiongyongzhijidanaoquezongshijianyidezhilaizhiwang，yincishengbanyingtaoxiangxiangzhong“yingdangshuodehua”，jiubianchengjinyaoguantoudeaiqingshiyan，

哪些“我喜欢你”

“我就是用心的”

“zuowonvpengyouba”，dengdeng。

 wojuede，zheidouguishuyu“guanlian”debiaobaiqiang。wojuedechunsuidenannvguanxizhong，tamenyizhixianjiena“ganqing”zaijiena“guanlian”。ruhebiaobai?

一、只表述对往日的体会

 xihuanyigerenzenmebiaobai？bubiaoshuduijianglaideqiwang。zhibiaoshu“niyiqianjiyuguowode”huoshi“renmenxianghuqinshenjingliguode”dailailewonaxiedejuede，erbingbushiguiding“zaijiyu ”huo“zaiqinshenjingli”。ruhebiaobai？biaobaizenmeshuo？

 nvshengyizhilixing，tamenzhongjiuduiyiwangyikuaierdeqinshenjingliyouzhongfeichangdeganqing，huoxushaoshaocuirenleixiadedadong，jiunengrangtayougongmingdianbingdadong。

congneitiaoshundaihaikeyikandechu，ganglejiejiubiaobaidenanduxishushitingdade，youyudajiazhongjiande“wangri”guoshaole。

二、先争得短期内关联，再争得长期性关联。

buzhengquede：“wojiangzhongjiuzenyangzenyang……”

qiadangde：“wozhixiangyaorujinzenyangzenyang……”

 buqingchuniyoumuyoukanlewozhiqianxiedegaozi，zai‘liangxinglejie’libian，zaiqizhongyouyigehenguanjiandejianjie，jiushishuonanshengpianxiangzongtimubiaojieguo，yejiushishuojianglai，nvxingpianxiangquanguocheng，yejiuzaiyu。

 niyaodadongta，jiububiqugoulejianglai，neijinjindajiayibanxianliaodetanlunhuati，buyiyongzaibiaobaishang，taduizheiyibingbushihenyoujuede。

三、用客观性阐述替代主观性分辨。

 ba“ni”dui“ta”deyilaixushucheng“ni”dui“dajiazhongjianyiqianyouguodeqinshenjingli”deyilai。xiangduilaishuo，“qinshenjingli”bi“ta”yaogengkeguanxing、gengdandu，yejiugengfeichangrongyizaocheng“ta”detonglixin。

jiaruganjuezuoyouneirongtaichouxiangxing，jiuxiangzhezhouxingchideyiduanzhimingdubai：

“yiqianyoumeiduanchengzhideganqingfangdaowodeyanqian，yemeiyouaixi。zhizhisangshiwojiuhouhuibuyi……”。

毫无疑问不容易是

“yiqianniyizhizaiwoyanqian，woquemeiyouaixi，zhizhinizoule，wojiuhouhuibuyi……”。

zishenjuedeyixiaxia，shifoucuirenleixiadeshiyidoubutongle。

四、表白的功效是关联的推动并非关联的达到。

 buyaozaishoulianxujugezhonggeyangaiqingdianyingweihai，juedeyihuijingcaidebiaobaiyihoujiuwanshiruyile，danyishizhuxingquebingbushineiyang。

 meiduanguanliandezuizhongchanshengtongchangshibixuhenshucibiaobaide，meicishidangdebiaobaijinjinbadajiadeguanliantuidongyidian，yichengbubiandeshierneijiushizaoxingyishushengdong。guanniandaoqishi，ninenggouzhendingziruodibiaobai。

五、真正而精确的表述。

jibiankanqilaipingdanrushui，shijixiaoguoyeyuanyuandiqiangguoshengbanyingtaotarenshanmenghaishideaiqingshiyan。

1gewangminsidixiabangwodeqiuzhuxinzuoweishili，neirongjichu：

zheinvshengmantaorenxihuande，bierenzaoyiyounanpengyoule，yinweiwomeiyoubiededegongjian。

wobujingyiquzuodisanzhe，quanshi1gedaxuede，weihaizhenshitaibutaihao。

jinjinxiangyaoshidudefangfaxiangtabiaoshuwoduitadexiai，rangtalejieyoushiernenggouyaowoqingtu，bangzhu。

dengtahenanpengyouliekaideneishihouwojiushishouweihouxuanrenkeyile。 ——qiujiaogaoshou。wogaigaizenmeban?

 xiangduinishuodeshi，zheiyixueshengbangwodeqiuzhuxinwojuedejiushishuomeiduanshidebiaobai，shaojiarunshi，chedinenggouyuanfengbudongzhuangaojineigenvren。

这就是我的改动提议;

“shizhongdouganjuenimantaorenxihuande，keshinizaoyiyounanpengyoule，yinweiwojiubukeyiyoubiedegongjianle。

woyebujingyiquzuodisanzhe，quanshi1gedaxuede，weihaizhenshitaibutaihao。

jinjinwoyaogaosuniwoduinidexiai，rangnilejieyoushiernenggouyaowoqingtu，bangzhu。

yaoshinigennanpengyouchunantideneishihouwokeyishishouweibeixuankeyile。”

henjiandanmeiduanxunqiubangzhu，zuoyouxiaojiedejigebiaozhunzhenghaodoukaolv：

1.xianzhengdeduanqineiguanlian——“rangtalejieyoushiernenggouyaowoqingtu，bangzhu。”

2.zhibiaoshuduiwangridetihui——“zheinvshengmantaorenxihuande”。

 3.yongkeguanxingchanshutidaizhuguanxingfenbian——youyushixiangwochanshuanjian，yincizhenghaozhenzhengkeguanxingdixushutaduinvshengdejuedejiqigennvshengdeguanlian。tongchangneiyangwojuedegengfeichangrongyidadongtaren。

 ruhebiaobai？congzheiyishijiyiyishangeryan，yingduixinaidenvsheng，dangniqueshibuzhidaogairuhebiaobaideneishihou，nijiushiyixiabataxiangxiangcheng1geyixingpengyouzhuansuzheiyishierxiangtongdeshuochuqu，jiangniyaoduipengyoushuodehuajiangjitajiuhaola。zheiwojuedejiushishuoshidebiaobai。