henvhaiziliaotiandejiqiaoyounaxie?zaimeiyouzhuinvhaizizhiqian,feichangrongyifandecuowuzhiyijiushidaodeshangdeyouguai。 zuijindelizishimai99taishenzang7,biruzuo1314gexueren,biruzuodiymeilidetuhuashudengdeng。 “teshudelaoziyijingzheimeainile,weinizuolehenduoshiqing,zhenxihuanlaozisia。 duibuqi,shiqingkenengbuxiangwomenxiangdeneiyang。 womenzhishigandongleziji。zhuinvshengjiqiaonaxiehao?zenmezhuinvsheng?
henvhaiziliaotiandejiqiaoyounaxie?xiangyiqiandexiongdidiaochadeshihou,wenwo: “ weishenzuolezheimeduoshi,nishizenmexiangde?” wodehuidashi““ woqianshangditaiduole,wozhishixiangbaodashangdi。 ” tayijuhuajiuwenwo。 “nirenweishangdixuyaonizheimezuoma? ]shide,zheizhongganqingkenengbeichengwei“tongkudexinqing”,bujinrangzijitongku,yemeishenmeyongchu,zijibuduanchuxian。zhuinvshengjiqiaonaxiehao?zenmezhuinvsheng?
二、不要用力太大
zheizhongjieshi,jutikeyizhaodaoyigewenti,xinggequefaai,lianaizongshiyongliguoduzenmeban? -worenweiliangxingguanxideyigedaanjiushiguanyushengtaihuanjing,feichangheli。 bielaoshibizheduifang,jitataidadeyali,tazongshizai“huxikunnanhaishilikai”zhijianzuochuxuanze。
三、不要活在自己的世界里
wofandeyidacuowujiushihuozaizijideshijieli,laozirenweizheishishijiediyi。 buhuichuanyifu,buhuihenvhaiziliaotian,zuozijirenweigaoshangdegongzuo,huozhezhishishenmeyemeizuo,baoluchufennukaishiqianzeshehui。 wocengjingrenweizijikanshijiedeyanjinghendute,bierenben,fuhuamandi,zhishizhuiqiuwuzhixiangshou,qipiannvren,woshizhenshide。
qishibushi。 nikenenghenxingyun,danshijishixianglaoshineiyangjianqiang,zijiyezhibuguoshiputongren,youshiyehuichengrenputongrenxinggeshangderuodian。 suoyi,ruguoxiangzhuinvhaizidehua,jiuyibandihuoxiaquba。 bazijishoushiganjing,jinliangzaifuzhuanghezaoxingshangxiagongfu。
四、会聊天
zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?buhuiliaotiandeyisi,kongpabuhuiyougongming。 diediebuxiudijiangshishi,bujiangganqing。 yinggaizhengshifeishane,jueburangbu。 yiqianbuzhidao,houlaicaizhidao。 “yingleyijuhua,shuleyihuier。
五、 避免廉价关注
meiyoushilizhichengdewenroushilianjiadeguanzhu。henvhaiziliaotiandejiqiaoyounaxie? zhongsuozhouzhi,renrounaozhong、shengbingheshuiguoduo、buchifanhenzheji、jiabanhenxinku。 lianjiadeguanxin,bushitasuoxuyaode。meiyounidexingqudehuawojiunenghuoxiaquba?
六、不要太小心
dezhixiangzaigaoshouzhiqiananyixia,xiangzai8xiaoshizhineirangrenshuijue。 diyicijianmiandeneitianwanshang,woxiangpadapadadida。 lvcifanzheiyangdecuowuzhihou,niyehewoyiyangrenshidaoxiaoshou,woxiangzijizhongjiumeiyouzhujiaodequanzi。zhuinvshengjiqiaonaxiehao? zenmezhuinvsheng?
七、注重过程超越感觉
yuehuizhiqian,womenshejileyixiliedeguocheng,baokuochiwufan,chuquwan,shuiwujue,chiwanfan,kandianying,dadadun。 naozilixiangdeshixiayibugaizenmeban,bushixianzaimeimeidexinqing。 zheishizhimingdeshangkou,“weiyuehuieryuehui”dezhutixianzaikenengwufalijie,tebiedeyuehuibenlaijiushiweiyuehuierlaideba? “yuehuizhishizhiyeshengya,zaizheigezhiyeshengyazhong,xuyaochuandanizijideshenghuofangshi,ruguozheishifenyoumeilidehua,jiuhewoyiqikuailedeshenghuoba”zheiyangdexinxichuxianle。zenyangzhuinvsheng?
八、我不知道应该什么时候追求
“gaobaishishenglidehaojiao,bushifadonggongjideqianxian。 ]yourenshuo:“meiyourenguidingnichushenghoumeiyouquanliyaoqiunvhaizi”。zheixiedoushi,danzhongdianshi“meimeibutaoyanni”。 buquerenneigedehuakenenghuibiancha。
九、不要强迫,不要低贱。
bingshanmeirenzoudaoqianmian,buganronghuataneixindehanleng。 lvchajinvmiandaixiaorong,wufarenshoujujuebeitaimeiliganjuedehuanxiang。 konghedebeihouyoukongju,haipabeijujue。 beijiandebeihouyoutanlan,guanxishangyouxianshidehuanxiang。 zheiliangjianshiwochangfan,erqiedaolexianzai,wuyishizhongzijidexinqingyebukebimiandiliuluchulai。
兄弟姐妹的话
aiqinghenqiguai,youshihouyongjinquanshendeliliangyehuibaibailangfei,youshihoushicuxindayideyanjing,zheijiuchenglerenshengdekaishi。 aishishulingde,tajiyuliangrenxinlingdejiaoliu、jingshenchongtudehuohua,yijirichangshenghuozhongzuishushideguanxi。 suoyisuoweijiqiao,jiushizaizhuizhunvshengdeguochengzhongtianjiajinshanghuadejiafenwenti,buneng100%hegee。 danshi,ruguobulijiezheiyidian,kenenghuicaidaogezhongleidian。
zhuinvshengjiqiaonaxiehao?zenmezhuinvsheng?xiangxinlianaiyeshizhexue,yousikaonenglidehaiziyidinghuishouhuo。 buguanzheigemijizhendeyouxiaohaishiwuxiao,zhiyaobeiniqifajiuzugoule。
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