怎么追女孩子？大学里想要自我提升怎么办?

 zenyanghenvhailiaotian？ruguodaxuemeiyouyichangmengdongdeaiqing，xiangxinduiyumeiyouzaidaxuetanlianaiderenlaishuoshibijiaoyihande，danshiruhezaidaxuelizhuiqiuzijixihuandenvshengni?zhuinvhaifangfanaxiehao？zenmezhuinvhaizi？

首先是找到一个好的目标。

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创造的适当机会

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幽默大方

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让她认识你

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带她去看电影，给她一份小礼物。

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让她看到你积极的一面。

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请她一起学习。

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表现出温柔和体贴

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表白

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