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我们如何解决这些问题?

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问题的根源是什么?

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如何“面对”这些问题?

答案是“接受”。

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meimeibuyuanyiaishangwomen，yexushiyinweiwomenduitabugoulejie。womenkeyixiangshouhetajiaopengyoudeguocheng，manmanlejieta。

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yinci，youshihou，lengjingxialai，congcongmangyumeimeixiangchuzhongxuedaogengduo。

这叫做“接受”。

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wojiejiejujueleni，suoyilengjingxialai，jieshoujujue，ganshoutadeyiyi，bingjiangqizhuanhuaweijingyan。

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mahalajiedashitidaoleyigefeichangzhongyaodeci，jiaozuo“xuke”。

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