追女孩方法：追女生四件套，让她爱上你

zhuinvhaifangfanaxiehao？zenmezhuinvhaizi？jianyuzuijinyuelaiyueduodenvhaizhuiqiuziji，zhiliangyeyuelaiyuegao。zenyanghenvhailiaotian？fenxiangyitaopaoniusijiantao，zheiyangnizaipaoniudeshihouyekeyibiandecongmingyouya，zheiyangnijiejiejiukeyigengrongyixihuannile。

首先，注意聊天时间

zenyanghenvhailiaotian？ruguonimeizenmehetashuohua，nikeyimeisantianjitadayicidianhua。ruguonihetatanguojici，nikeyimeiliangtianzhaodaotayici。meiciwohetashuohua，wodoujianyiyinggaizaitaxiuxideshihou，biruwanshang8dianhuozhezhoumozhongwu。ruguotazhudonghenishuohua，neimenikeyizhijiehetashuohua。zhuinvhaifangfanaxiehao？zenmezhuinvhaizi？

qingzhuyi，meiciwomenhetajiaotanshi，ruguowomenliaodehenyukuai，neimewomenhuijixujiaotan。ruguofanyingzhengchang，neimewomenxianchetui，xiacizaitan。

第二，善于发现美。

shouxian，nibixumingbaishijieshiyuande，youhaoyuhuaizucheng，jiuxiangtaijiyiyang，tayeyouyiyinyiyangzucheng。

zhiyaoyoubuhaodeyimian，jiuyidinghuiyouhaodeyimian，yejiushishuo，wulunfashengshenme，kendinghuiyouhaodeyimianhehuaideyimian。zhiyaoniyuanyibaochinaixin，zhaodaohaodeyimian，nijiuhuichanshenggengduodexinxinhuodongli，zheiyangnijiukeyizaixiayicijizhongjinglijiejuewenti，youhuanideshenghuo。zenyangzhuinvsheng?

liru，dangjintianzaoshangtingdianshi，wohuijuedezhongyuyoujihuizhuanzhuyuyuedushiyijianhenbangdeshi。

liru，dangwoyudaoyigezhijiwoyigebiaoqingdenvhai，wohuijuedezheigenvhaiyuanyijiwohuibao，zheibiaomingtaduiworengranyoujibendexingqu，ranhouwokeyigengzixindihuida:“nikeyijiwogengduokeaidebiaoqing，yinweikandaonidebiaoqinghuirangwogengjiji。”

liru，ruguoneigenvhaibuhuidaowoshenbian，wohuirenweiwohuiyougengduodeshijianquyueduhexuexi。dangwoxuedaogengduoyouqudezhishishi，wohuizaihetaliaotian，zheiyangtahuigengrongyixihuanwo。

第三，学会倾听

liaomeiyezhishishehuijiaowangdeyigexiaofenzhi。shejiaodemouyibufenshicongtarenneilihuodejiazhiganheguishugan。jiazhishinichuangzaodejiazhinenggoubeitarenrenkedeganjue。zenyanghenvhailiaotian？liru，niweigongsichuangzaoleliyi。dangtongshichengzannizuodehaoshi，nihuiyouyizhongjiazhigan。guishuganshirenmenxuyaodeganjue。liru，dangmeigerendouxiangrangnizaiktvbaoxianglichanggeshi，nihuijuedebierenxuyaoni。

weilerangnigenghaodijibierenzheiliangzhongganjue，nixuyaoxuehuiqingting。

如何倾听?

ruguoshixianchanghudong，nibixuzhencheng。biaodachengyidejiandanfangfashizhuanzhuyuxianghujiaoliu，birufangxiashouji、youxihegongzuo。zhuinvhaifangfanaxiehao？zenmezhuinvhaizi？

danglingyigerenshuohuashi，nideyanjingyinggaizailingyigerendeyanjinghezuibashanglaihuikan，nideshentiyinggaixiangtaqianqing，ouerdiantoubiaoshinitongyitashuodehua。

weilegenghaodilijieduifangdexuqiu，nixuyaoduoshuozheiyangdehua:

“wonenglijienishuodehua。”

“继续。”

"nimanmandishuo，woxuyaogengduodilejieyixiejutiqingkuang."

"nisuoshuodeduiwohenyoubangzhu。"

“wohengaoxingninengfenxiangsuoyouzheixiexiangfa。xianzaiwogenglejienile。”

tingwanzheixiehuahou，tahuigengduodibiaodaziji。zaitabiaodawanzijidexiangfahou，niyeyinggaijitayixiejianshexingdejianyihuozherenzhenbiaoyangta，biru:

"rangwoshuowodeyijian，baerbaerbaerbaerbaer"

“woyiqianyudaoguozheigewenti，suoyiwoyinggaizaodianrangnifenxiangta。woxiangwoyijingzuole。”

第四，学会分享

xuduorenhuiwen，womenyinggaitanxieshenme?

shishishang，shejiaodezuizhongyiyishihuoquliyi。zheilidehaochukenengshizailiaotianzhongshoujixindebiaodafangshi，huozhededaojiandandebiaoyang，huozhexuexiyixiechuangyejingyan，huozhelejiemougexingyedezuixinxinxi，huozheshifangyixieyali。

genjuzheizhongshehuiyiyi，zaiyutarenfenxiangjiazhizhiqian，nibixurangzijibiandeyoujiazhi。

怎么做?

wodejianyishiniyinggaibasuoyoudeshijiandouhuazaiwanyouxi、shuayahekankanshushangdebaguashang。

ninengxiangxiang，dangnilijieleyiqie，qitarenhuiyuelaiyuexihuanheniliaotianma?yinweinizongnengjibierendailaihaochu。

jugelizi，yigenvhaiganggangsongleyiquanpengyouquhexiawucha，suoyinikeyihetasuibianliaoliao"cha"deyishu。niyekeyijiaotaruhechulizhaopian，rangtamenkanqilaigenghao。ranhounikeyirangtabayuanshidehuajijini，nikeyizaiwanchengkehoubatamenjijita。shenzhinikeyihetatantanniquguohuozhezhidaonagedifanggengshihexiawucha。

lingyigelizishiniyizhitandaowanshangshiyidian。nikeyijitayixieshuimianjianyiyijiruhezuogehaomeng。

weilequebaogongxiangjiazhishihelide，nixuyaoyiduizijiyouyidefangshiduitarenyouyi。zheishishenmeyisi?

yejiushishuo，dangnichuyutarendehuanjingzhongshi，nihuiyuzijifenxiangshenmeyangdejiazhi，ranhounihuiyutarenfenxiangshenmeyangdejiazhi。

liru，zailiaotianshi，duifangturanshuotahenmang，neimenibixuxiang，ruguotahenmang，nixuyaofenxiangshenme，youshenmejiazhi?

zhiyaoninaixindisikao，nizongnengzhaodaonixuyaode。

dangwomangdeshihou，woxuyaodeshirangduifangmingbaiwoxianzaizhendehenmang。

yinci，wozuizhonghuizheiyanghuida:“neinixianmangba。ruguonixuyaowodebangzhu，qinggaosuwo，womenyihouzaitan。”

nikeyiwenwo，zaiduifangaishangwozhiqian，nifenxiangleduoshaojiazhi?

shishishang，zheishibuxuyaotanjiude，yinweimeigenvhaidejinglihejinglidoushibutongde。youxierenkenengfenxiangyixiaobufenjiazhi，tayuanyihenichengweipengyou。youxierenkenengfenxianghenduojiazhi，ertazhishiyoudianxihuanni。

nibixunongqingchudeshi，ruguonixiangrangtagengkuaidixihuanni，nizhinengzhuanzhuyufenxiangjiazhiguan，yinweidangnihetafenxiangyuelaiyueduodejiazhiguanshi，taziranhuiyuelaiyuexihuanni，tayuexihuanni，nimendeguanxijiuhuiyuemiqie。

dangran，fenxiangjiazhiyeyouyigexianjuetiaojian，neijiushi，zaifenxiangjiazhizhiqian，nixuyaojiejuesuoyoudejinjiwenti。zheiyoudianxiangcishanjia。zhuinvhaifangfanaxiehao？zenmezhuinvhaizi？weilezuohaoshi，nibixushouxianquebaonideshenghuoyouchongzudeshiwu。liru，ruguonijintianbixujiaban，neimeniyinggaixianwanchenglunban，ranhouhetaliaotian，weitatigongjiazhi。shangmiantidaodesijiantao，zhiyaoniyuanyinaixindibatadaidaozhishiheshijiandetongyi，taziranhuiaishangni。