怎么样追女生？决定追女生成败的就是心态

 xuduoshihou，juedingzhuiyigenvhaichengbaidejiushixintai。tebieshiyikaishizhuinvshengshi，xuduobutaiaibameidexiongdijichudouwenbulezishendexintai。liru，nvhailijiyigebuhuini，xintaijiubengle。dashanjiqiaonaxieshiyong？yigenvrenwangwanghuixihuanyigenanren，tongchangquanshixihuanzheiyinanshengdexintai，lirulianpihoushijishangdoushiyizhongxintai。zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？henvshengliaoshenmehuati？

 shijishangshizhishangeryan，xintaishibukeyibeijiejuede，bameixintaibingfeikexuefangfalundenanti，tadepianxiangliyingshinikeyiqinfenqubianchengneibanderen，ruguonizishenjiushiyigexintailiubidenansheng，jiuzhaobudaonaxiejiejuexintaizheizhongshiqing。dashanjiqiaonaxieshiyong？dangran，zhenduibutaihuibameidexiongdi，yikaishixueyongyixiekexuefangfalunquchanshi，huigengfeichangrongyilejieheshijianhuodong。zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？henvshengliaoshenmehuati？

心态一：没KISS前就是从没获得

 neimarenmenlaipouxiyixiayikaishizhuinvshengdeshihou，renmenyaoruhefangzhengxintai。zuixianyaofangzhengdejiushideyushixintai，dongdequbaozheng：yaoshiniyutameikiss，neimajiunenggouxiangdangyuxianghumeilejieguo，zheileixintaihenguanjian，doushizhengyigebameikaichangdezhuxuanlv。

 dubianchunyizhenduinanrennvrenxintaizhuangtaidexuduokexueyanjiuhemiaohuidouhuibiaomingnvhaidexintaishijishangzainaishouxingcengmianshibinanhaizihaoxuduode，nanhaiziyibanjiaoweiaidong，jiaoweizao，zheidoushixiongxingxiaodongwuliebusuoyaoyaodegexingtezheng，yishunjiannenggoushifangchulaijixieneng。zheihuirangnanhaiziyikaishizhuinvshengshihoukanqilaijiaoweijiqie。ernvhaixiangduixingjiujiaoweichengwen，cixingxiaodongwuguanjiangongzuozhongjiushifuyang，fuyangshihenyaoxixinde，zheidoushiweihexuduonvhaibenlaihenxihuanyigenansheng，haikeyibiezhuhaojiribuhetalianluodeyuangu，huannanhaizijiumeifazuodao。zenyangzhuinvsheng?

 mingbailezheiyi，jiunenggaoqingchuweiheyounizaiyikaishizhuinvshengshihoubaozhengmeikissjiunenggousuishisuidixiangdangyumeilejiedeneileiqingkuangle。baozhengzheileixintai，jiunenggoubuzaihuhuodehesangshi，zheiyejiushinidefangfanyishi，lingwaineiyangyekeyijinideqizhibianshuai，zhanxianbuguanghuacengcigan。dashanjiqiaonaxieshiyong？shijishangnibameiduolejiuhuidongde，nvhaizaizheixingbinanhaizizuodebubihaoguoduo，jibiandajialiaodefeichanghao，meitiangezhonggeyangliao;jibiandajiachangchangchulaiwan，kanjiangezhonggeyangqingganhao，ruguonibiaoshuchuleyuejiedeniantou，tamennengsuishisuidizuoweiyunibulejie，erqieyishunjianshandiaoni，cixingxiaodongwuzheileijueqingdezhuyaobiaoxianshizhishangshiyizhongtiaoxuantizhi，doushifangfanyishi，youyuxiaodongwudefanzhishiyaoqiugaoxiaolvde，butaikenengjiushibutaikeneng，nvhaiburongyiyunixuduguangyin。

 zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?xuduoshihou，bameiyaokaoshijixingwulixueguanlianquzhichengdian，xiangshizhijinkou、kissquanshishijixingwulixueguanlian，qinlejiushiqinle，meifagenggai。kissshidiyizhan，dangnimeiyoudida，bieganjueliaodaolaijiushitaduiniyouganjue，shinizaoyihuodetale，nikeyineiyangxiang，nvhaihuixunsuzhengmingcailiaojiniduodanchunxing。zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？henvshengliaoshenmehuati？

心态二：有时候被动技能都是一种积极

 ruguonifangzhengledeyushixintai，jiunenggougangkaishijiejuezhubeidongjinengxintai。zhubeidongjinengxintaishiniyaogaoqingchuzainizhuitadequanguochengli，nijijiyubeidongjinengdeguanlian、renwujiaosehegongxiao。nikeyizhuiyigenvhai，haiyaodongdejiji，jilao：zhuinvshengzheizhongshiqing，nanhaiziwubijiji。zhenduizuixihuandeshiqing，jijiqubiaoshu，quzhengde，bingqieweizhinuliqinfenshiyingdangde，zheiyibujinshibamei。nizailibian，jijidexintaizhanxiandeshijingongxing、zhenxinshiyiheqiangong，yincibubiyounaxiezijuedezishenhenshuai，nvhaijiuwubiyaoduiniyouganjuezheileixintaizhuangtai，liubidenanshengburongyizainvhaiyanqianbaichengyifuhenniubideyangzi，fandaoshiqianxujinshende。jilao：bamei，jiushiyaoxianrangnvhaishuang。

 danyoushi，niyededongdebeidongjineng，beidongjinengdoushiyizhongjiji。zheilibeidongjinengxintaizhanxiandeshiyizhongxinggan，yuqingguzong，lengmofeng，dongdebeidongjinengbideshangjijigengyoujuede，lirunvhaijijirangnixinxi，jijixiangzheni，jijiqinni，niquanshibeidongjinengde，danzongtiquanshinizhuitaquanguochenglidehuode，yejiushiniyikaozijiqinfenhuodede，yincinizaiyifangmian，nihaiyaodongdekanxingshi，heshiduojiji，heshibeidongjinengrangnvhaijinijiji，zheibixunidongbawonagedu。zaijuedeliudelejieli，beidongjinengshiyizhongbijijigengyoufududegongji。

心态三：有木有这一女孩都一样

 mingbailezheizhong，zheieryingshuodezuihouyigexintaijiushizuohaoziji。zheierdezuohaozijishiyaozuoneigelijingmoliandechusedezishen，erbingbushizongrongdezishen。jiaruniyizhizaizhuiyigenvhaishihounishenghuolidequanbushijian、shineikongjian、xintaidengdoujinjinweiraozheiyinvhailaidehua，nihaowuyiwenshizhuibushangde，huoxudoubingbushizishenle，tazuoshenmeyaoduiniyouganjue。zheierwotiyixuduobutaiaibameidexiongdi，zaiyikaishizhuinvshengdeshihou，yaobaozhengyoumuyouzheiyinvhaidouyigeyang，bubiweiyigenvhaiyouyiqugaibianxianzhuang，liruyouyichuanzhedaban、youyizhuangku、youyiwanlanman。

 zuohaozijinenggoujinizhanxianchusuibian、buzaihu、buguanghua，dangnizishenhenyougexinghua，youzishenduishiqingdeguandianhelejiejiugengqiang。zaixintaifangmiannengzuohaoziji，nihenvhailiaotianjiuhuiyuelaiyuehenyoujuede。

 zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？henvshengliaoshenmehuati？zheizhongxintainiyizhizaigangzhuinvshengshiyaobaozheng，jiunengkongzhuzishen。zhinengkongzhu，nicaikeyiying。