追女生如何使用好欲擒故纵的技巧?怎么样追女生？

 zenmezhuizijixihuanderen？xianrujin，「yuqinguzong」zheigecizaoyibeishuolanyonglanle，keshijishangdaliangderenzhenduizheigecishibanpingzicuguangdang，zhinenggezhongdashenzhenzhengzuodaolingwu「yuqinguzong」dejingcuisuoshu，jinerzuodao“yijibizhong”deshijixiaoguo。zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？zhuinvhaijiqiaonaxiehao？

 zenmezhuizijixihuanderen？meiyicixuduorenlaigenwoshuozheige「yuqinguzong」ruheshiyong，woyaogaosuni。zheigewupin，jinguanshigelaozhao，danshihenjingdian，yonghaolajuedaduoshurendoukeyong，danshinibixuguancheluoshizaishijideshilili“yibubianyingwanbian”，erbingbushinazhetongyigefangshitaoru。zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？zhuinvhaijiqiaonaxiehao？

 ruhezhuinvsheng?banpingzicuguangdang，xueyibujingdenanhaizi，feichangrongyibeilingyifangjiechuan，suihouganjue“wobuzhenxinshiyi”，niyizhizaitaoluta。

先说错误的部分。

yibanrenlejiede「yuqinguzong」，dayueshixuyixianfangkuanta，shitashifangyalifangbei，chongzupulu，suihouzaibatazhuazhu。

 zaiqingganlijiushi，xianrangtaxiguanxingni，suihougeyiduanshijianxiguanxingzhihouquanshenertui，suihouranglingyifangannaibuleyueni，niyizhizaibawojihui，nadaomeizhi。

yinci，youxierenjiuneimeganle。suihoubuchenggongle。

这儿上一事例。

woshangputonggaozhongdeneishihoudeyigexiongdi，xiairenmenbandexiaohua。neishihoutajiudadingleliuyizhui。

yinci，tagangkaishiwangshangzhaogonglve，zhaodao“yuqinguzong”。

buqingchutajiujingruhelejiede，ganleyixilietajuede“yuqinguzong”deshiqing。

 liru，nvhaishuohenxiaihexiangjiaoniunai，tajiumeiridoukejianhuodongjinvhaimaiyigexiangjiaoniunai;lingwai，meirizaigudingbudongshijiandoujilingyifangfa“zaoshanghao”“shuowanan”zheixiewenhao，zenmezhuizijixihuanderen？meiridouhuigudingbudongdeshijianchuxian，zhaotaxianliao。zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？zhuinvhaijiqiaonaxiehao？

jiushizheiyangjianchibuxielejiejinyouliangyue，taganjuezuijiashijileisile。jiugangkaishizhongzhijinvhaimaiyinpinhefazaozhongwananle。

 jieguo，nvhaibingmeiyouganjue“bushihe”。zhishiwenlewenqi，fashengshenmeshishiqing，tameilinvhai。zhihounvhaiwanquanmeilitale。

tazheicaipushanglaigenwoshuogaizenmeban。

woneishihouqueshi...zhenfule。

“niqueshigaoqingchuyuqinguzongdehanyijiujingshishenmema?”

「yuqinguzong」dejingqiaodedifangqujueyu：yi、cengcigan;er、xiguanxing。san、gaoshiyongjiazhigaobidexing。

zuoyousandian，tanadianyebuzhan。

1.fenhaomeiyoucengcigan，doumeiyouzaojiuchuyixiejiyuranglingyifangxianglaizhangwoniyulejieni;

 2.xiguanxingbingbushidanchunxingdezaoshanghaoheshuowanandewenhaoa，zheileizhinengjiqirenyiyangfangshi，shijishanghemeirixiaoxituisongdegezhonggeyangguanggaocimeishachabie，zhangrendoumeiyouhuifunideshiyongjiazhia。neiyangdexiguanxing，yefenhaoliantongchubulaixintaiqifu。

3.songnaihewenan，zishenyunide“gaoshiyongjiazhigaobidexing”bushiguagoude;

yiner，taneiliangyuezuode，dabufenjiushishuo“xiamang”。

 haipeiyanglenvhaidebuliangxiguan，ganjuetazuodequanshi“lisuodangran”de，zuizhongnage“duanlian”，doushiduanliande“wuyuanwugu”meiliren。

zuizhong，haodeshijixiaoguomeiyou，meizhiwanquanmeilitale。

rujinwoyegaosudajia，zheige「yuqinguzong」desidacengmianruheyunyongjiaoweihao。

1.层次感;

nikeyirangnvhaimobutounijingchanglianluotadezhenzhengyongyi。

bubiguoduopuludeyaoqiugan，keshi，nikeyipulushidangdeyaoqiugan。

xuduorenyaoganjue，ruguonichixujinvhaifaxiaoxi，nvhaixunsujiunengcaidaoniduitashiyouqude。

taitianzhen，danshibiewangji，nvhaishi‘cai’de，zainiyutabiaobaiyiqian，tashijishangdoushibuquedingxingde。

baohanbuquedingxingshibushinizhiduitayouqu，shifoulingwaizhuihenduoren，niduitadeyouhaodulaidaonaxieshuiping，tashibuqingchude。

 yiner，ninenghetahudongjiaoliu，dangzuopenyouyiyangdegongxiang，xianliao，ruguozaoqidajiahudongjiaoliuyouliangdehua，haijidenenggouyoushihoufangjinyixiexiaonuanwei。

jiushishuorangnvhailejienishijishangzhenduitashiyouyixingpengyoudexiyinzhude，shiyounacengmianfazhanqushideyixiexiaoyiside。

 rendouxihuanxihuanzishenderen，ruguonigangkaishiyixiexiangtabiaodachuyidiandianzhuomobutoudejuededeneishihou，tayejiufeichangrongyiwangnagefangweiquxiang。

liru，yikaishinvhaiduinimeishenmeyinxiang，danshiyouyigerenshuo，zuixihuanta，tajiuhuibujingyizhongtishengduinideguanxin。

tips：buyuanhuiyingdeneishihou，xuezhe“xiuse。”

二、习惯性。

shuobaile，feichanghaolejie。

 jiushishuorangtaxiguanni，liru，zaigudingbudongdeshijianzhaotaxianliaoshiduide，danshixianliaodeneirongbukeyixiangwoxiongdineibanzhifawenandehua，yaoliaomeirideshenghuo，richangshenghuodexiaoyisideshier。

rangtachanshengyunigongxianghehudongjiaoliudexiguanxing。

 gongxiangshihuiyoutihui，zheigetihuijiushishuoxintaizijintouru。yidanxiguandaodianxintaizijintourudehua，jiuhuichanshengxintaishangdeguanxingli。

liru，jinvhaiqigekeainicheng，tajienadehua，meitianjiaota。

tashi“xinmao”，doushisuzaotiaojianfanshe。

zaoqizhengqueyindaolingyifangdexintaizijintouru，zhonghouqiduanliandeneishihou，caikeyizaojiulingyifangdexintaiqifu。

三、高使用价值，高必得性。

 zaihudongjiaoliuquanguochengzhong。niyidingyaonidingqingjing，ranglingyifangganjueniyeshiyougaoshiyongjiazhide，danshi，zhinengta，nicaihuifeichangdekandai，yiner，zhengqueyindaolingyifangzijintouru，rangtagaoqingchunideshiyongjiazhilingwai，ranglingyifangganjuenichushoubide，jiuhuigengweixiangyaoyunihudongjiaoliu，erqiebuganfangkaishou。

 wozheierjugejianyideshili。cebianzhanxianzishendeshouyixingpengyoureliehuanyingshuiping。huoshi，niyutayijingshuohua，youyigemeizhiyiqizouguoeryan，“tamenshuole，nidexxxdejiangleba。haolihaia。”

zheixieleiside，tayidinghuiganjue“yi，niyeyougaoshiyongjiazhidelingyimian，henbuzhangyang，doumeitingnishuoguo。”

 sidixiahemeizhihudongjiaoliudeneishihou，biaodachutazhenduizishendeduoyangxing(shuodehanxuyixie)，rangmeizhitishengganqingzijintouru，jiushishuoqudechenggongdeyidaban。

 zenmezhuizijixihuanderen？ganqingmeiyougudingbudongdejingong，yixiefangfabukeyishengbanyingtao，yuqinguzongzheizhaoqueshihenjingdian，ruguoyonghaola，queshinenggouzuodaoshibeigongbandeshijixiaoguo。