如何追女孩子?教你一个绝招——攻身计

 henvhaiziliaoshenme？gongshenji-----zheishizhaoshi，zheidianerxiabianbaokuodedabufenzhuinvshengjiqiaoquanshizaigongxinyongyouyidianhudongjiaoliuhenuanweidejibenzhizhongjinxingde，qiejiqiukuai，renmenguidingwen，wenzhongqusheng。ruhezhuinvhaizi？zhuinvhaidejiqiaoyounaxie？

 henvhaiziliaoshenme？gongshenjideguanjiansuozai：nvxingshilixingxiaodongwu，yaorangnvhaizhenshiaishangleni，haiyaorangnvhaiderentijienani。ruhezhuinvhaizi？zhuinvhaidejiqiaoyounaxie？

 jiuhaosi“zuibianshuobubi，danshirentihuanshihenchengxindema”，danchunxingdeneixinjienashimeiyouyongde，zhinengxinshendoujienale，suanshiaishangleni。

yaopingbennengfanying，qutiaodongnvshidelixingshenjingxitonghechongdong，zhenzhengzuodaobaozheng“bennengfanyingxiyinzhu”。

1.外观设计一定要开朗太阳，越整洁越讨人喜欢

“wangshangtouxiangtupianpiaoliang”+“xianxiatuiguangzhenrenbanyouqichang”

 “shuobailedejuede，jiushishuoyouhuoli，yidanniduinvxingzaochengleyouhuoli，tajiuhuikongzhibuledexiaixihuanni，erqietafeiyisuosi;eryouhuolidezaocheng，diyijuedehenguanjian。”

 yincinikeyigoujianliangcengmian，yishixianliaodeneishihouwangshangtouxiangtupianyaotaiyangkushuai，youshenghuo;ershixianxiatuiguangdezhenrenbanyouqichang，youpinwei，dongshenghuo。zenmeyangzhuinvsheng?

 zuiguanjianbingbushiniduoshuai，zhishiniduoyongxinzaizishendewaiguanshejishoushishang，henvhaiziliaoshenme？ranglingyifangganjueniyeshigeshandaiziji，dongshenghuo，youzhiliangdenansheng。ruhezhuinvhaizi？zhuinvhaidejiqiaoyounaxie？

zhongyaodejuedeshi：zhengzhizhonglveweidaidianxiaohuai，zhengerbajinghanyoudianbuzhengjing，lingwaibuzhengjinghaibuweihaizhengerbajing。

quanbudezhengtixingxiangshejihepeidabixuhehubenrenqichang。yundongjianshendoushishifenqianglietuijiande。

zheidianerdezhongyao，xialieliangbubixucaiyong。

2.顺水推舟和正确引导另一方项目投资(時间，活力，情感，化学物质)

yishu：“tongxiangnvshidexin，gengkuaidefangshishiyindaonei。”

huacaolibucao，yincijiarufangfafeichanghao，nvhaifeichangrongyihuibuxiaoxinaishangnide。

3.吊桥效应VS镜面玻璃效仿，塑造心有灵犀

xianjianyixiangxijieshaoyixiazhei2gexintaixuexiaoying。

 diaoqiaoxiaoying：“zhimingxintaishehuixuejiaasealun(arthur aron)yiqianzuoguoyigejingdiandexianchangshiyan：fenpeiyiweipiaoliangmeinvdaogaoxiaonanhaizizhongzuoyigediaochatongji，bixunanhaizimenjinxingyigejianyidewenjuandiaocha，suihouyijuyizhangzhaopianbianyigeduangushi。

 nanhaizimenbeifenchengsanzu。 diyizuzaiqingjingdeshengtaigongyuan，dierzuzaipianailaogudeshiqiao，zuizhongyizuzaifengxiandexuankongzhandaoshang。

meinvzhanquanbunanhaizihuiyingwanwenjuandiaochayihou，doubazijihelianxidianhuagaozhiletamen。

 yubiede2zuduibi，zaifengxiandexuankongzhandaoshangbaomingcanjiadiaochatongjidenanhaizijipiaoliangmeinvtongdianhuaderenzuizhang，ertamensuobiandexiaogushiyedaliangdidaiyouqingaidesecai。

dangrenchuyufengxiandeqingjinglishi，huiqingbuzijindixinlvjiakuai、huxijicu。

 yiner，zaifengxiandexuankongzhandaoshangjieshoudiaochadenanhaizigengfeichangrongyixingfen。tamenjizijideshenglixuezhuyaobiaoxianxunzhaoyigeshihedebiaoshu：

yiyouyupiaoliangmeinvdefengcairangzishenqingmiyiluan

eryouyuxuankongzhandaodefengxianrangzishenxinruzhuanglu。

zheierzhongbiaoshuchangyoudadaoli，danyouwufaqueding。

 zaineiyangmohubuqingdeqingjingxia，yibufennanhaiziduizishendeshenglixuehuanqijiuhuikaizhanbuzhengqueguiyinyu，jiyuanbenshifengxiandeziranhuanjingdaozhitamenxintiaoguosu，dantamenquerenweishipiaoliangmeinvdefengcaiyinfa。

 zhengyouyuzheiban，zheizhongxuankongzhandaoshangdenanhaiziduipiaoliangmeinvzaochengledaliangdeaihao，daliangdibodalepiaoliangmeinvdedianhua。zheijiushishuozhimingde“diaoqiaoxiaoying”。

镜面玻璃效用：

 “zaiziworentongshehuixintaixuezhong，dajiabayinweitarenduizishendexintaiwanruyimianjingzinengzhaochulaizishendepinpaixingxiang，bingcongererchanshengziwoyishideyinxiang，zheizhongqingkuangchengzuojingxiangxitongxiaoyong。zheiyixiaoyonglaizikulide“jingzhongwo”jichulilun。”

renyaofeichangrongyiduihezishenleisiderenzaochenghaogandu。

yinci，youhuishidexiaofanglihetiaoxuanhejiudedifangshifenguanjian。

 zheijiuguidingniyulingyifangzaiyouhuideneishihou，jinliangquxiaofanglingyifangdeshuohuayudiao，cuoci，zishi(liruxianglingyifangtuidongbeizi，helingyifangyiyangfujinshiyanjingdeng)，lingwai，tiaoxuanyouhuinenggoutiaoxuanmotiandaloutanxianwu，guiwuzheixiediqu，yongtishengxinlvdefangfalajinxianghujianju。

4.近挪看看

nvhaiquanshimiantiandexiaodongwu，yinci，zhongyaodelajinjianjubixuyouqianrushen，heyuqinguzong。

dizhiguanjianzi：hengchuanmalu，youhui，zhaixiaoshineikongjian，sirenyingyuan，bar，yichun

weizhixushu：“nidexiufahenmei”，“ninhaoxiang”，“nideshouzhitoumiaotiao”

 zuoyoudeyixieguanjianzihexushubixuzonghexingshixing，nenggouyizhaoshangbiandeliuchengyibubulai，conghengchuanmalugangkaishi，youyuchelairenwang，qianzhelingyifangdeshou，suihouguoledamaluzaihendazirandesongshou;

 youhuideneishihoubanglingyifangdakaizhuoyi，suihoucongduimenzuowei，nenggougenjushuo“kanshouxiang”zheixiefangfa，zhuandaolingyifangdebianshangzuozai;

 bujiutijideguiwu，benrenwuzizheixiezhaixiaoshineikongjiandeneishihou，ninenglveweiyouyidingdebiaoda，dangnvhaiyouyidingdexiwangdeneishihou，jinbao，zaisongshou，suihouyijuzhuangkuangzaijinbao;

 zuizhong，nenggouyunyongyichun，zaiyixienuanweidechangdi，ktv,barzheixiejuhuihuodongdeneishihou，jiangchuyixieroumadehua，tuidongjianju。

“ziguyilaiqingshennanliu，weiyoutaoluderenxin;shanmenghaishibuqizuoyongchu，haidejinshanyinhaitian。”

 renmenhuanyigeshijiaoxiangzhe，renyurenjiaowang，quchuyikezhenxinshiyiyiwai，naxiemingbiaozhun，neimu，fansudadaoli，naxiebingbushizhaoshuni?

招数，到底是什么?

 zhaoshu，shishishangshizhihejiaocaimeishenmechabie，shizhuduodeqingchanglaoqianbeimenyiluzoulai，zoudeduole，jiubianchengzhaoshu。danshishitongjifenxichuyizhongbijiaofeichanghaodetaojinhufangfaeryi。

quanbuzhaoshudezhongyaohuanshirenzhen。

yiyangtaoxintaofei，jiarububawofangshi，neimataolaitaoquyizhihuileide。

 ruhezhuinvhaizi？zhuinvhaidejiqiaoyounaxie？dongdezhaoshu，renmenhaiyaoyijuzishendejutiqingkuangkaizhanjuyifansan，zhongjiumeizhishibuyiyangde，zhaoshuyeruguohuode。