怎样和女孩聊天？追女生时的5个致命误区，你中了几个?

 weihezhuinvshengneimenan?shijishangbingfeinan，shuodelilundianjiushishuocuowudeshijianaishangledongnideren，huoshiduideshijianaishanglecuowuderen。zenyanghenvhailiaotian？shuodefanchoudian，jiushishuonanshengzailianqingzhongxiangyaodechaochulenikeyinulidehuoshinikeyijiyude。nanshengzhuiqiunvhaishide5gezhimingwuqu，nizhonglehaoduoge?jiarunikeyigaoqingchunvxingdeshehuifazhanjiongjing，jiulejienishuobailedezhuiqiufangfachedigetbushangnvxingdecezhongdian。zhuinvhaifangfanaxiehao？zenmezhuinvhaizi？

一、你说白了的贴心，实际上全是罗里吧嗦的空话

 zenyanghenvhailiaotian？nanshengzaidiyicichuduixiangdeneishihou，yinweimeifaqiadangderenzhinenglizishenjiqizhangwonvhaideyaoqiu，tamentongchanghanyoujiaoqiangdebuzixinqinghuai。zhuinvhaifangfanaxiehao？zenmezhuinvhaizi？

tamenmeicaimeimao，yingduixinaidenvhai，kongjubeihuijue，yincitamenjinlidequshuncongnvhai，xianliaodefangfaleisiyixia：

男：“睡了吗?”

女：“沒有”

nan：“ruhehenwanhaibushui，shifoushuibuzhe?shifounanshoule?shifou...”

女：“并不是。”

nan：“neiwopeinixianliaozenmeyang?”

女：“无需”

nan：“neimewoniyaochixiaoyezenmeyang?”

女：“不愿吃”

nan：“neiwopeinixianliaozenmeyang?”

nv：“wohaokun，shuizhele”

男：“说晚安~”

 nanrenzirenweihentiexin，zishizaoyibazishenzuodeshideyimiandoutuofujileta，shubuzhizheichedishinanxingyunanrenzhijiandegoutongjiaoliufangfa，beinanshengcuowuderenwei，nvxingyebixuneiyangde“tiexin”。zhuinvhaifangfanaxiehao？zenmezhuinvhaizi？

 zhenshidetiexinbingbushiwuguantongyangdeweiwen，zhishinibixulejietaweihexinqingyumen，huoshiweishenmeshimian，niyingdangtiaoxuandeshilingtingtadegushi，erbingbushinidelianhuaitichuwentihetiyi。zenmezhuinvsheng?

rangtazhangkoushuohua，dajiacaihuiyouxiaogushi。

二、你说白了的烂漫，实际上是太早曝露目地

 zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?xuduonanshengzaixiangchunvhaideneishihou，yidaizhujiyujiuwen：“youshijianma?niyaoyongcan，niyaohedaliangkafei，niyaokandianshiju”。zenyanghenvhailiaotian？zhangrendougennidouhaimeihunshu，jiujiweitarenzhexianglangmanjingxi，jiujizhexiangyaoxiangyouliangrendedujusuiyue。nikeyilejie，nvhaidexinsishixizhide，shishenzhongde，shiyishenyiguide。nanshengzongdianjizhekuaixieshengchanzhizaodianlanmandeshier，kuaixiegaobai，qishishizaibubujinbi，buduandeanshizhenvhai，kuaixiezuowonvpengyouba。

 zainimeiyouxiyinzhudaolingyifangaihaodeneishihou，woxianzaisuojidequanshiyushiwubu。niderenqizhijiujingshishenme?kushuaidebiaomian?huanshishenhoudejingjifazhanzhengtishiliyihuoshipojuxixindewenrouhetiexin。jiaruyipiankongbai，neimenixianyongyouzailiao。

三、你说白了的大气，实际上是没房

 xinqingshuoshuowozhiqianchuduixiangshidezaoshouba。nianqingdeneishihou，woshiyikechiqingdezhongzi，duixiaidenvxingyefeichangdedaqi，nazhe3000dexinshui，nenggouweitahua2500。woyizhidianjizhe，kaolvtaxiangyaodeneileilanman，qixijiesongpianguidehua，xinchunjiajieyisonghongbaojiushishuo520，yiweineiyangdezhenxinshiyinulihuichudonglingyifang。shide，queshikeyichudonglingyifang，keshiwojiangguo。delianqingshibenzhewanhunqude，yidanchongfenkaolvhunyin，nvxingdejingjifazhanguidingjiubingbushijibaijiqianjiunengkaolvde。

 tamenxiangyaodeshiyigetashiyoujiezhudeshenghuo，yincitamendaduoshuwanhundejibenbiaozhunjiushishuoyoufangwu，youyigenenggouzhangqixingdingjudediqu。guigenjiedi，wodenuli，rangtadongleceyinzhixin，keshizaihunyindezhiguanzhongyaodewentishang，tayiranshifenshenzhong，jibianxiaodaxiaonaodenulizaihao，wufang，dajiadeganqingyejiangzhibubuqian，yizhiyumaixiafubi。yinci，nishuobailededaqi，yidingyaobaqianyongzairenkoushang。

四、你说白了的真心实意，实际上是给她的工作压力

 nanshengyiweizishenzhenxinshiyinuli，weiheyizhishiqutadechunxin?dangnineimewen，shijishangbujiushishuozaishuoming，nidenulijinjinyibianrangtajinzaobianchengnidenvyouma?nanshengzailianqingzhongnulideguoduotaikuai，youshibingfeihaoshier，huoxuneimeji，jiushishuozaijitayizhonggongzuoyali，tabuqingchushijienahuanshibujiena。jienanidehao，tameigaohaochongfenzhunbei;bujienanidehao，zishenfangfoyoubuquedingxingshibushiqueshiyaohuijue。

 yinci，lianqingzhong，nanshengjijinulishiyingdangde，keshibubibipotajienanidenuli。changchangxuduorengenwodiaokan，qixijiesongtawupin，tajiushishuobuxiangyao，suihouzishenyoufeidesong。youyunanshengyizhiganjue，tajienale，biaomingzishendejiyujiubianda。shubuzhi，beiqiangpojieshoudenuli，tazhuantoujiudiurulelajixiang，binggangkaishiyuelaiyueshenzhongyunilakaijuli。shibushinifanguoxiangjindecuowu?

五、你说白了的告白，实际上是想尽早撤出

 yiyanbuhejiugaobai，nianqingrenlianqingyizhihenmaozao。maozaodeshenhou，shijishangshixiaojishiluodexiangjinzaochechu，tamenjiugongbuxia，jiuxiangduyiba，gaobaishiyishi，buhaoladao。lijidegaobaidajilvshizuosidejiezou，ruguonidefengcaizaozaoyirangtayexiaidaoleni，buranzainirengweimingquedezhuangkuangzhizhongdegaobai，yeshinixuanbuzishenchechudeneishihou。mangmugenfengdegaobai，zhiyoushuoyongqikejia，qishixuanbujiaoxie。

 zhuinvhaifangfanaxiehao？zenmezhuinvhaizi？xuduonanshengzailianqingdeneishihoudoufanguozhei5zhongcuowu，tainianqingerbulejienvxingdezhenshiyaoqiu，bumingbaizhongshinvxingdeqiyeshehuizeren，yinci，yizhizaicuowudelianqingdaoshangyizhimangranzhe。datiehaixubenshenying，erbingbushimangmugenfengdequzhuiqiunijuedexiaidenvsheng。