异地恋怎么办，异地恋怎么相处

 yidilianzenmexiangchu？yidiliandebenzhishiyizhonglianggerenbunengjingchangjianmiandeguanxi，zheizhongguanxishijiyushuangfanggongtongdemeihaohuiyierweichidelantuhuoyuanwang。

danwulunzheiduanguanxiduometianmi，tayeshixinxiande，neimewomengaizenmebanni？

 yibanlaishuo，shuangfangzaitongyilingyuhuoxiangsidehuanjingzhongdoushihaode。bijing，tamenkeyitongguohulianwanghuoshoujijinxingjiaoliu，tamenkeyilijiemeitianyudaodewentiheyouqudeshiqing，xianghujiaoliujingyan，weichiganqing，danzheirengranbushiyigezhangqidejihua。

 ruguoshuangfangdehuanjingbutong，neimewozhinengmeitianheniliaotian，bunengliaobiede，yinweinibudong.ruguoniganjuebudao，suizheshijiandetuiyi，nihuigandaobeishang。

 zheigeshihou，ruguoniyoulingyigejieri，biru520。qixideng。，huozhenishenbiandepengyoutiaolianggeci，shenzhikandaobierenzailubiansagouliang，nixinliyouqidaihuozhebijiao，neimewentijiushizheizhongdaohuosuohuibaofa。

 yidilianzenmexiangchu？dangran，zheishishuangfangzaizhengchangqingkuangxiayudaodechangjianwenti，gengduodewentikenengshidisanfangdecharu。womenjingchangtanlunyidilian，zuihoufenshoudeyuanyinshiyifangdegaibian，danzheibujinjinshiyidilianfenshoudeyuanyin。

 xuduozhangqideguanxijiushizheiyangjieshude。yinci，disanfangdejierubingbushiyidilianfenlidegenbenyuanyin。zuozherenwei，yuanyinrengranzaiyushuangfangziji，yezaiyugaibianzhuyideyifang。

 zongjieyiduanganqing，bushima？“congyanzhikaishi，xianrucaihua，zuihouzhongyurenpin”。ruguoxinggeyouwenti，chizaohuiyouwenti，buguanshizaoshiwan。youshihouwentibiwanchuxianhao。youqishiduinvshenglaishuo，qingchunhenzhongyao，bunengdanwu。

异地恋在做出决定之前，需要明确三点

 diyi，nizhendexihuanzheigerenma？nixihuantashenme？nibuxihuantashenme？ruguoniyouzheilianggefangxiangdedaan，bingqieshikendingde，neimenizhendehenxihuanduifang。

 danshiruguonimeiyou，jianyinibuyaotourutaiduodejingliheganqing，rangzijizhandegengyuan，ranhoukanzheduifang。yexunihuiyougengqingxideganjue，shijianhejulihuijinidaan。

 dier，yidilianxuyaoduozhangshijian？niheduifangbixuzhidaozheizhongguanxishijiyushenme，ninengjieshouxianshimianlindewentixuyaoduozhangshijian，gengbuyongshuoxuyaoduozhangshijianle。

 nixuyaofenkaisikao，ranhoushuangfanggoutong，zuihoutongyijieguo。zheiyang，jiuburongyigaibiannidexin，gengkekaodigaibiannideyidilian。

 disan，guanyuyidiliandexiangchufangshi，chulerichangshenghuodianhuazhou，shuangfangkeyichangshiyixiexindegoutongfangshi，biruxinjian，.mingxinpiandeng。

 shuangfangbixuzaigongtongpingdengdejichushangxianghugoutong，xianghulijie。tamenyinggaimingbai，duifangdenulibushilisuodangrande，tamenbuyinggaijiyuzijidenulieraomanhuoziyiweishi。

 yidilianzenmexiangchu？nizhidao，ganqingdiyishijiyupingdeng，diershijiyubaochou，zuihoushizeren。renhezhenzhengdeganqingdoulaizhibuyi。womenyinggaizhenxita，danwomenbunengshuncong；womenyinggaixincunganji，danbunengxiangdangran；tayinggaishizhanxingde，dantabunengxianzhiziyou。