恋爱理论：分手后这样做

 lianaimoheqiyounaxie？congyeqingganzixunyeshiyouhenduoniandeshijianle，zaizheililiangniandeshijianli，yudaoguoshubujindelaizixunganqingnantideren。neimelianaileixingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaililundewenzhangba。

qianquzixunderenyizhidouyougedenanti，buyierzu，queyouwuyiliwaidelingrenjuedewukenaiheyougaoxiao。

yinzhenglechengqianshangwandeenyuanqingchouzhihou，wofaxianle，xuduo nvshengtanbutaihaotanlianai，beifenshouqueshibuwuxian。

wojingchangcongqiuzhuzhekouzhongtingjianneiyangdehua：

tayingdangbuaiwoleba，yaoburanweishenmehuibuliwo?

tabianshibugouaiwo，jiarutaqueshishuoaiwo，butaikenengneiyangyijianshi。

fenshouzheimeduonianle，taweihehaibudaoyaowo，doubuyuanwoma?

 nvhai，youguanaiqingjitang，wocongbudichu，keshinikeyicengxiangguo，zheixieniyiwanranhouyiwanhejinqudelaomujitang，shenhouaojitangderenhenyoukenenglianzishendeganqingyemeiyouzhenggaoqingchu，tasuiyierchudeyuju，niqueyuweilianaibaodian，nimeibeishuaisheibeishuai?

 aishixingfude，keshiaibingbushiquannengde，youjige，fenshouhou，congcongmangmanghanzheaidehuangzi，lianaimoheqiyounaxie？yaoxiangquwanjiuzheiyiduanguanlian，zuizhongqueyibububaozhengmeifafanzhuande?

 xuduo 。yixienvhaimangmuzixin，tianqueshirenweifenshouhou，helingyifangdaogeqian，rengecuo，zaibuhao，sagejiao，xugenuojiunengwanhuilingyifang。

 quebuzhidao，wanhuicongbushichuliwanyigenantijiukeyile，wanhuishiyigequanguocheng，zhenshifuhexingqiandemeiyigeliuchengdoujuecelezuizhongdejieguoshibuchenggonghuanshiqudechenggong。

 lianaililunyounaxieni？yiduanganqinglaidaofenshouzheiyibu，tongchanghuisuizhezhemengliedefenqihemaodun，taduinichongmanlefumianqingxuhedichuxinlizhuangtai，zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，yaoxiangwanhui，bingbingbushilikecaiyonggezhonggeyangfangfashuomingnidemudi，zhishiyingdangjianhaojiushou，duizaoyicaogaodeguanlianqingkuangkaizhanjiuzhi，jinkenengbuyaoshiguanlianjinyibuebian。

fenshouhou，youshenmefangshinenggouzulanguanlianjinyibuebianni?

1，回绝死皮赖脸

 fenshouhou，xiangwanhuideyifangyidinghuixiangjinbanfarangguanlianjianchixiaqu，zheigeshihoubianhuicaiyongyixiexingdong，sipilailianqidaidedao lingyifangdekuanrong。

 xiangxinhenduorenshiqidaigenjuzheileifangfaranglingyifangkuanrongzishen，keshijiaruniqidaigenjuchixudezhiqianqiuraozheileifangfaquhuandelingyifangdekuanrong，henquelideduinishuobingbujiandan，youyubingbuyidingdebaoqian，dounenghuandemeishier。

 xuduo shierdaozhidesunhaimeiyoubanfashuokuanrongjiukuanrong，bixuyidingdeshijianquhuifu，youqishizheixiezaoyichanshengdezhuguanxingyinxiang，ninengyouyunisanliangjuzhiqianjiuqueshigenggai，zongshichixuderangguanxijinzhang。

2、接纳他时下的心态

 xuduo nvhaifenshouhou，jienabushanglingyifanglengdandexintai，yelejiebushanglingyifangweiheneimawuqing，yinci paoquchizelingyifang，zaocheng guanlianyuelaiyuegengcaogao。

 weishenmebukeyijienani，zhongjiudajiazaoyifenshoule，taruheduinidoushichuyouyin。xuduo qingkuangxia，xintaishenhoudoushiyoutadeyouyin。

 nilejiele，niyejiuburongyineimadichutadexintai，nimeilejie，niyejiuganjuetazennengneiyangduini?nixuyaolejielingyifangcikeduinidexintaishiyouyunaxie，erbushijinjinbeibiaocengzhuangkuangweihai。

 ganqingdeshierhengongzheng，nizenmesunhaidelingyifang，lingyifangyidinghuilianbendailituihairangni。lianaileixingshishenmeni？jiaruniyizhizaiwanhuilingyifangdequanguochengzhongyeranglingyifangjuededaohuanleyushufule，lingyifangyidinghuirangnixiangduixingyingdedafu。